Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

We have done the dinner and drinks thing on numerous occasions and been cinema i suggested bowling but she is not a fan of that so i need help. Looking for something fun and a bit different to do in london area any help will be appreciated. Thank You in advance

2007-01-03 22:32:16 · 18 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Singles & Dating

In which way, with what scenery, generally how you are thinking you're gonna do it!

2007-01-03 22:31:08 · 9 answers · asked by Maria...* 2 in Weddings

2007-01-03 22:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Friends

A guy will sit and wait for her messages on IM and cellphone. He doesn't say anything to her because she has a really bad BF who physically abused her. She told the guy she likes him more than her XBF but because of too much drama she gave him before. She not sure why he doesn't answer her but before all the drama (different drama she got confused with the two guys) he did talk to her and told her he could never be angry at her..but now he just reads the messages and not answer her.,,do you think he is afraid of her XBF..the guy knows she left her BF..they are real friends not IM friend. Why he is acting like this way to her..she doesn't understand she told him she knows that they are just good friends..now. The girl doesn't know if he is afraid to be her friend or he doesn't want to let her get hurt again. He is in the military (in Asia he is not American but the girl is and it might be hard to get to a computer but before he did try and wait for her.

2007-01-03 22:29:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with a guy for about 18 months now and we are currently happy. I am 20 and so is he, but I know he has no long term plans to be with me. He completely rules out marriage or children ever, and I want both of those things (eventually, I'm talking 10 years in the future or so). I would like to know whether I should stay with him for now and have fun, knowing there is no future, or quit whilst I am ahead. I really don't want 2 more years to go by and be in exactly the same position. I know there are things he wont tell me about his past, and he doesn't like me borrowing his phone or laptop. This means that I cannot trust him completely. I just dont know what to do. Part of me says I am too young to be thinking like this and the other says why waste your life on something you know has no future. Please let me know whether you are male or female when answering so I know what perspective you are coming from.

2007-01-03 22:29:35 · 22 answers · asked by spaced_out_sprout 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 22:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Side story: For the most part in the beginning in 2006 I has longer hair, about 5 or 6 inches long. (i'm a college freshman, just so you know...lol)

Anyways, i had it short too for a while. not shaved but enough to BARELY grasp any hair with two fingers.

im asking the ladies here what you would consider better?

there's this girl i'm gonna see soon whom i havent seen in over a year. if i keep the long hair ill look the same to her. if my hair is shorter its different...

hmmm.., obviously i cant show you 2 different types of pictures so consider my current yahoo avatar as the short hair type and imagine for the longer hair pic with hair just longer. that the lenght can reach the eyes if anything.

*Keep in mind, I do not really look like a cartoon!*

:)

2007-01-03 22:27:07 · 16 answers · asked by Legionnaire 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 22:26:48 · 16 answers · asked by you are my angel 2 in Singles & Dating

My b/f and I were having some problems and he said we should take a break. I was at a very close guy friend's house and we were watching TV. I fell asleep in is arms(I had just taken home third in our conference/state finals and was exhausted) He is friends with my friend too. He called me the next day apologizing and I forgave him since he truly meant it and had changed.
Do I tell him?? It was innocent but a friend of mine had this happen and her b/f left her.
Do I tell or ask my guy friend to keep it quiet?? If I tell will he expect me to not do it again??
What do I do?
Do I hold it in forever or tell him.
Is a few bases nothing or someting?? If it is something, then it was not just nothing.

2007-01-03 22:25:51 · 20 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 22:24:22 · 12 answers · asked by www.flame_fred 1 in Family

I am a single Grandmother. I love my daughter more than anything but at this time my 19 month old grandson, in which I keep atleast 3 to 4 times a week (all night), is not being taken care of as he should. I don't necessarily mean abused but I do feel like he's being neglected. The father to him doesn't work and so self-involved it is unreal. At this time I have recieved info that the father is using steroids and I have researched the side effects and so forth on this and my daughters only worry right now is him being happy and nothing else. My grandson has been crying and wont let go of me when they come to pick him up and there has got to be some reasong for this. I have no proof at this time but am considering fighting for temporary custody of him and need to know exactly what legal rights I have. My daughter says she would but she knows his father would have a fit. He knows this is the only control and hold he has over my daughter. I just want whats best for my grandson.

2007-01-03 22:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by damitgamit 1 in Family

Dad has raised girl her whole life, but now she wishes to leave home to live in a house with no regular meals, safety or comfort. The only thing she doesn't get at home now is her own way. Can she legally go? This is tearing our family apart, and the two little ones aged 3 &1, who are 'ours', are in the middle, and I'm fed-up of being 'evil' stepmum all the time, while bm is praised for smoking weed, and even though teen didn't get any Xmas pressies from bm, that's O.K. because she doesn't have any money, but we don't want to pay for a holiday to prague, and we the meanest people on Earth!!! She wants to go, but can we stop her?

2007-01-03 22:23:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What would you do if you were only married 4 months and you read your wife's public on-line blog and she was talking very badly about you. Saying things like she wish she could have another night with her ex. And just flat dogging you out.

Then when you confront her about it she gets pissed and says all kinds of things to you that hurt to the core.

2007-01-03 22:23:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i got married bk in july, which i shouldnt of done as i was having second thoughts. since we got married everything has changed, he tlks to me like crap and he doesnt respect me in anyway, i have recently been talking to another lad and we have become very close and i am starting to get feelings for him another problem is that he is married but i know he feels the same way for me.
i know that if i leave my husband it is going to upset alot of ppl but should i stay with him even though im really not happy

2007-01-03 22:19:10 · 43 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And how?

2007-01-03 22:18:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

marreid people and people are planning to get marreid in the future are welcome to answer. First thing that come into your mind when you hear this question.
Thanks

2007-01-03 22:18:44 · 26 answers · asked by Pooh Bear 3 in Marriage & Divorce

they were toghether for almost 3 years.. and with no warning he broke it of... she said that there were no signs of something going wrong, or that he was unhappy. Then he called and said that he didnt love her anymore, and that he was feeling this for some time... but he didnt want to feel this way... i think it's a bunch of crap. She is really feeling down right now.. and i dunno what to say... maybe u can help me a little with some advice

2007-01-03 22:15:52 · 11 answers · asked by i_need_to_know911 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 turning 20 on the 24th this month, I am married 6 monthes.

I have been with my wife for about 4 1/2 to 5 years. I didnt have alot of friends when we started dating and about 1 year ago I started going to alot of parties and ended up cheating 3 times. We made up and got married anyways, everytime I tryed to leave her she wouldn't go.

Now I dont know what I should do I could stay with her and have a happy life or try to find another girl and leave her but then I would feel really bad about it not to mention the shame from my family and her family and my friends. Even my family would be ashamed.

Then I would also take the risk of never finding a women like her ever again.

I also have to say I dont know what I would do without her she puts direction in my life. I am afraid without her I would end up a bum on the street.

2007-01-03 22:13:47 · 14 answers · asked by bungalo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your lover chose someone else over you how would you deal with this? What kinds of things would you tell yourself to feel better? I'm a bloke by the way

2007-01-03 22:11:08 · 12 answers · asked by dsfsdd d 1 in Singles & Dating

I have several options. I am saving money to buy a place to live. A mobile home close to all the people in my family that really could care less about me including my 2 son's or a van I can make into a home on wheels and just see the world before I die and don't get close to anyone anymore and stay away from my family and let them figure out where I am (or) buy a mobile home in another state?? Please help me figure things out. I have been contemplating a move away from everyone for many years but didn't cause of my grandson but my b----h daughter in law has made that so hard to do. So should I just get the h-ll out or what?? I have a dog and she is going with me.. God will be with me too.

2007-01-03 22:10:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i hate this woman but my birhtday get together is march 17th 2007
i have a feeling she going to be over here to see my brother i don,t want her here or to eat the food i buy what should i do be nice to her or tell her not to get any food or should i tell my brother to tell her not to come over that day?

2007-01-03 22:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by iris b 2 in Family

He doesn't get much attention at home and everything he does is for effect. I've never met any of his "boyfriends" and we used to be really close and now we're drifting apart because he is always lying. When he told everyone he was gay, I was hurt especially because he dumped me a week or so beforehand. I try to talk to him but he either walks off or hangs up. I love him to bits and he will always be my best friend but i just want him to look me in the eye...

2007-01-03 22:09:12 · 25 answers · asked by Steph 1 in Friends

my best friend will come to me after along time , i've never been seen her since 2000, and i don't know what will i do when i see her but woud you blease help me for that because i don't know what i have to do and what you think my feeling will be when i'll see her today?

2007-01-03 22:08:54 · 3 answers · asked by Sara 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have dated men on and off. but now i m in love with someone wonderful. yet i seem to hurt him with simple things i say or do - which makes us both wonder whether we are right for eachother at time. we nearly broke up recently - and i had to beg him not to leave me. is this kinda relationship healthy?

2007-01-03 22:07:49 · 5 answers · asked by CHAMaya 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have dated men on and off. but now i m in love with someone wonderful. yet i seem to hurt him with simple things i say or do - which makes us both wonder whether we are right for eachother at time. we nearly broke up recently - and i had to beg him not to leave me. is this kinda relationship healthy?

2007-01-03 22:07:46 · 3 answers · asked by CHAMaya 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It has droped to an all time low, and I'm about done dealing with it. Romance her is the answer I see most frequently. Stress is the second most used. Well, I've alays pleased her to the fullest when it comes to sex...something new all the time. There's no stress...I work, I cook dinner and the kids clean the house. She doesn't even have to make her own coffee. We literally cater to her every need. I would say she was seeing someone else, but she never goes anywhere so that's an impossibility. She is 30 and I'm 32 so menopuase isn't and issue YET. (don't want to see what's gonna happen then). I'm at a lose as what to do and am about ready to give up and move on.

2007-01-03 22:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by HawgHunter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP!!

2007-01-03 22:06:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 22:04:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 22:04:03 · 18 answers · asked by yup 1 in Singles & Dating

make out with a guy..what would you do? i want my bf to but i don't know if i should even mention it to him cause i really don't know how he'll take it.

2007-01-03 22:02:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating