Was it cheating??

Question

My b/f and I were having some problems and he said we should take a break. I was at a very close guy friend's house and we were watching TV. I fell asleep in is arms(I had just taken home third in our conference/state finals and was exhausted) He is friends with my friend too. He called me the next day apologizing and I forgave him since he truly meant it and had changed.
Do I tell him?? It was innocent but a friend of mine had this happen and her b/f left her.
Do I tell or ask my guy friend to keep it quiet?? If I tell will he expect me to not do it again??
What do I do?
Do I hold it in forever or tell him.
Is a few bases nothing or someting?? If it is something, then it was not just nothing.

I think it is innocent but I don't think he finds a few bases innocent.

I did go past "friends" that night, but is it cheating to almost sleep with someone after your b/f says that??

Answer 1

I've always believed that you shud never ever hide anything from each other. In fact these things are opportunities to test how strong your relationship is. If it breaks, good coz it was not strong enough. And if it stays...well u can be proud to have him in ur life. Its a win win situation :-)

Answer 2

I believe that since it wasn't romantic that it's not that big of a deal. Sometimes, truth isn't always the best policy because he may never trust you again even though you weren't officially together. You won't be lying, you just will be leaving out the truth. He was the one asking for the break, you just happen to take it with another guy ;) Don't fret about it.

Answer 3

Doesn't sound like you really did anything except fall asleep with this other guy. If that's true, you didn't do anything bad. Even if you did do something, it was your bf that said you should take a break, right? So sounds like you should just keep it quiet and see what happens. Good luck.

Answer 4

It was innocent.besides he said you guys should take a break, so thats what you did.Technically you guys werent together.And overall you didnt do anything wrong...you fell asleep..completely UNAWARE. You didnt kiss him or anything further then that.If you feel like you MUST tell him, go on ahead.Like I said you didnt cheat, it was completely unintentional. I would just forget about it, why make something out of nothing? Good luck, best of wishes sweety.

Answer 5

Well it depends on how you define a break and what sort of feelings were involved. If it really was innocent and you didnt think anything of it other than guilt over symantecs, then I'd say no, it wasn't cheating.

Either way, if its burning a hole into your conscience, then you should tell your bf sooner rather than later.

Answer 6

If falling asleep in his arms is ALL that happened, then it's not cheating. Tell your bf and explain how tired you were. But don't overexplain, or it'll sound suspicious. And if he dumps you over this, then he's a loser anyway.

Answer 7

I might wait before you tell him. If it happened when you were "taking a break" then your allowed to do stuff like that (lol). But if you think he can handel the truth without getting mad, I would tell him.
Good luck! :)

Answer 8

that is in no way, shape OR form cheating - you were tired and you fell asleep coz you were probably comfy, i fall asleep so quickly when being cuddled or in someones arms. it's upto you if you tell him - but to be honest it's so minimal it's probably not even worth him knowing!

Answer 9

If all you did was fall asleep in his arms then you have nothing to feel guilty about? I would not bother telling your bf as it is unnecassary, as it would only cause confusion. After all he is only your bf not your husband.

Answer 10

you are not cheating... 1st you was break w/ him...
2nd you fall asleep
3rd u r was very exhausted
if ur bf still love u he will accept that, maybe he is angry so tell him that u r fall asleep, if u think its not good story to tell, so dont do it, you dont lie to him anyway... you r did no wrong...