i hate this woman but my birhtday get together is march 17th 2007
i have a feeling she going to be over here to see my brother i don,t want her here or to eat the food i buy what should i do be nice to her or tell her not to get any food or should i tell my brother to tell her not to come over that day?
2007-01-03 22:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by iris b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It would depend on what your brother's relationship to this woman is and whether or not he is aware of your feelings towards her.
If he isn't aware and if she is just a friend or girlfriend, you can tell your brother this is your birthday and you just want family and close friends and not to invite her to tag along on your special day.
If she is his fiancee or wife, he likely is already aware but if he has chosen this woman to be an integral part of his life, that is his choice and there is nothing you can do about that. You might want to have a separate small celebration for just "family" then the real celebration with people of your choosing to attend your party, but don't expect your brother to be at the latter. If it is important for him to be at "the real" party, you will have to tolerate her that day but try to avoid her as much as possible and maybe other relatives and friends can run interference to keep her away from you.
2007-01-03 22:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this "woman" really gives you the boiling blood then don't let her come. It would be easy for the both of you. You don't want a cat fight at the middle of the party. First thing to do is tell you're brother about the problem, he is your brother and he will understand. Let him talk to this woman first and tell her not to come. If she does come, approach her and tell her who invited her. if she answers you in a rude way then kick her out! Hey, its your house right?
2007-01-04 06:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a feeling she will come it's because she can't read your mind & does not know your feelings or wishes. If you do not say something you will have to bite your tongue at the party & be bitterly unhappy. Or make you feelings known to her. You could also make it an invitation only family get together.
2007-01-04 06:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother not to invite her.Its YOUR birthday, make it a happy one.You shouldnt have to deal with anything you dont want to deal with on that day.tell him that if he wants to see her, to see her away from the party premises.Go hang out with her elsewhere, thats all. Your party, your rules! Happy Birthday Sweety! Best of wishes!
2007-01-04 06:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your brother is going to invite her, yes, you need to explain to him that your wish is that she does not attend afterall it is your birthday party and if he cant understand that for your day, then you need to be firm with him and let him know, she is not invited. Now by some chance if she turns up, then you will know he has invited her, and then you need to ask her to leave. Be strong, it is your party, not his, and he needs to understand this or maybe its best if he goes out if he disagrees with you. Be strong and firm about your decision.
2007-01-04 06:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your brother likes her you don't have to be so rude if he lives there also. Just stay away from her.
2007-01-04 06:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋