they were toghether for almost 3 years.. and with no warning he broke it of... she said that there were no signs of something going wrong, or that he was unhappy. Then he called and said that he didnt love her anymore, and that he was feeling this for some time... but he didnt want to feel this way... i think it's a bunch of crap. She is really feeling down right now.. and i dunno what to say... maybe u can help me a little with some advice
2007-01-03 22:15:52 · 11 answers · asked by i_need_to_know911 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
.... first the guy said he needed a break.. that was at the begining of december (btw.. "excellent" time for a break up)...
2007-01-03 22:29:39 · update #1
Theres nothing that you can say that will make her feel better. Shes going to be beat up about this for a while so the best you can do is to be there for her. Go out and do things together..get together with other friends. Back her up 100% and she'll get better :)
2007-01-03 22:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ughh this one is hard, let her have healing time, let her play those heart breaking songs and cry and cry. Then after a few months, take her boy shopping! Nothing is a better healer, then her out on the town being hit on by guys, she'll get right back in the game. Maybe not falling in love, but she'll enjoy it. get her mind off the ex boy toy.
2007-01-03 22:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, we don't know all the details. maybe she didn't see that he is unhappy. In fact, try to pacify her, go together to a night club, meet friends and help her to find a new boyfriend. maybe that guy have a new gf, and he didn't want to make a scandal? actually, are u sure that you have to say something?? maybe it's better to keep silence and let her think about it on her own?
2007-01-03 22:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Brooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs lots of Prayer, lots of going out, lots of talking to people who understands and lots of courage to forget...
Though time heals all wounds, sometimes love also takes time, so i think she can never heal her broken heart unless there will be somebody new to replace the void and make her smile and be inspired again...
Though love hurts always remember that it also heals...
Get up Girl.... go find a much better one, you deserve to be happy..
2007-01-03 22:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no common to break up with somebody. His emotions will in all probability be harm no count number how she breaks up with him if he truly loves her. It sucks, yet this is the reality. i think of the final element she would be able to do is only be as superb as obtainable whilst doing it, yet nonetheless be corporation. She desires to allow him understand that even however she is attempting to be delicate, she continues to be extreme relating to the spoil up. She surely shouldn't use the cliche "permit's nonetheless be acquaintances" if she does no longer mean it. that frequently hurts human beings much greater. I realize it variety of appears like it may ease the discomfort for the different individual and it surely ought to ease her guilt, yet think of how he will experience while she does not stick to with the aid of on it. She ought to do only it and get it over with as quickly as obtainable with the aid of fact it somewhat is going to harm greater if she drags it out. truthfully, he will in all probability be disillusioned no count number what, yet he gets over it in time.
2016-11-26 02:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The exact same thing happened to me. My ex rang me to tell me how mched he loved me, then 2 hours later rang me to tell me it was over. Later I found out he was cheating me. Not saying this is happening to your friend.
Maybe he could be depressed - or could his friends be talking him into it? Maybe he just needs a break?
Tell your friend, as hard as it is, just to move on. Find peace within herself, and then talk to him.
2007-01-03 22:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by xo_mzbeck_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep her busy. Tell her it was not meant to be and there will be someone else. Someone else that will make her feel like she is glad he moved on so they could be together.
2007-01-03 22:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens and time heals all wounds... get her out and doing things to take her mind off the reality of a suprise break up
2007-01-03 22:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it is not a bunch of crap. He is in love with someone else. Let him live his life...that is what you say to yourselves, unfortunately.
2007-01-03 22:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by S&D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep herself busy! go to places which she could have fun and meet other individuals. Go to places which you never have been before and always be at her side!
2007-01-03 22:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋