Family & Relationships - 31 December 2006

my wife had been cheating on me.it took me by surprise when i got to know.i never thought this would happen.my job involves a lot of traveling.when i got back home last week i was taken by surprise to see my wife with another man.i have asked for a divorce but,she says she is very sorry and that it would never happen again.it is the first time in 7 years that we have had a problem.i am too fond of her but,am feeling betrayed and angry.what should i do?

2006-12-31 05:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by rao d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He start screaming VERY loud at the TV and yelling at the refs..... He basically becomes a Tourette Syndrome patient!! He's scaring the dogs and I'm pretty sure the neighbors can hear him too....Any suggestions for getting him to calm down?

2006-12-31 05:41:00 · 13 answers · asked by isis 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 05:40:44 · 23 answers · asked by christine g 1 in Singles & Dating

after months of flirting, he finally told me that he's the wrong guy. how do i pretend that everything is normal? how do i forget him? i am very bad at this... thanks.

2006-12-31 05:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 26 years old, newly divorced and have been out of the loop. There is a man that works at a place I often frequent. I know he has the same attraction for me as I do him. There are usually customers and co workers around him when I get to talk to him.

How do I ask him on a date, maybe to the movies (which we both love), without sounding like a high school "will you go out with me"?

Please only real answers, nothing rude and insulting. Thanks so much

2006-12-31 05:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by Lezzbean 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 05:39:37 · 19 answers · asked by musiclover 1 in Singles & Dating

someone took a photo of u without asking your permission.
the story is this :
i was overseas. i did not realised someone took a photo of me until he came up to me and ask if its alright since he took a photo of me and wanted to send to me when its develop... well ok i did wrote him my email address..

would u be mad at someone.. i was quite mad initially we chatted but it seems that he is a nice fellow .. but i'm quite worried now actually.. why i have no idea.. i mean the photo was not offensive just me sitting reading a book and a map..

but the thought was scary what if he misused it .. arghh helpp/....

2006-12-31 05:39:28 · 29 answers · asked by s 1 in Singles & Dating

ok
well im goin through a lot rite now
lately it seems like everythin is happenenin to me
im mite be bipolar
and my mom is always pissin me off
i miss my dad( he left a LONG Timte ago)
nd my uncle juz died(rite b4 christmas)
the otha nite my mom took my fone up
cux she said i was on too late
but when they gave it bak
they had cutt the service off so i cudnt do anything
den i started lookin @ my text and i noticed that some of them had been opened
then my cuz told me that she had been readin dem @ the b-ball game
i had erased most off dem already
but i was
PISSED
so i told my baby
he was all tryna calm me down
like i wudd so on and on about how mad i was
and hed bust out
i love u
i dont want u mad anymore
and i wud jux melt
then.....i got on my myspace last nite nd and i had gotten a message from him
only it wasnt him it wus his mom!
she was like
Hi Tanya, This is Lawrense's mom. What happened with your mom?
so i told
her
STRAIGHT UP
talkn all ghetto nd erthang
she aint said nothin back but everybody says that i got balls fo doin that
but its watever
im jux confused because
i told stephany that i was scared of lawrenses mama mite b wantin to talk to my mama
MY MOM DOESNT KNO ABOUT LAWRENSE
IM NOT SUPPOSED TO B WITH HIM
OR ANYBODY
if i told her..
shed be angry
shes say she cudnt trust me anymore nd that i wud have to break up with him
cuz family comes first and that i shudnt have lied for some boy..
she wudnt understand what me and lawrense have..
my brother says that i shudnt tell my mom
..cuz i wud get in BIG TROUBLE ..nd that i shud jux brake up with lawrense until we can go bak out freely...(i mite do this! :( )...
stephany says i shud tell my mom...
it aint happenin..
im scared..nd........iono what to do..

2006-12-31 05:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by terminaltuna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what features and qualities would you give him?

2006-12-31 05:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl that is having the party is 2 years old than me and my friends. She is kinda my friend, but she doesn't really act like she likes me. I think the only reason I was invited because 3 of my best friends are really good friends with the girl having the party and they didnt want me to feel left out. I just dont want to feel awkward there because I dont feel like the girl having the party likes me and there is only gonna be 5 of us there too. But, if I dont go I'm kinda excluding myself and may not get invited to future things. What do you think I should do?

2006-12-31 05:35:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months. He is very involved with his family. For new years he wants me to be with him and them. He wants to spend most of the day at his house with them and also wants me to spend the night. We are not engaged or anything. For some reason it just seems like it is too familar. Is this a good or bad thing to be doing this with him or should I not worry about it

2006-12-31 05:34:29 · 13 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a progressive liberal and I wanted to help the poor people that lost their homes in New Orleans due to George Bush's Hurricane. I invited several families to come stay with me in New York. My wife and kids weren't happy but I explained we have to do out part to save these nobel people. The families have drained me of all my money, they refuse to get a job, they live in filth, the men harrass my wife and daughters. They have lived with me for 2 and a half month and have cost me almost 100,000 dollars, which is pretty much all my savings. My wife is threatening to leave me and take my daughters away after one of the men tried to sexually assualt them. I don't know what to do. I can't turn these heroes away after what happened to them, but my life has been ruined!!

2006-12-31 05:34:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do..this just happened yesterday...my boyfriend used to like her and asked her out but they never went out...what do i do i dont want to lose either of them and yesterday he had to go to eat dinner at 6 o'clock and said he promised to call me right back when h was done eating and he never did... but instead he called my best friend and they got in a fight and now they hate each other.my best friend said that hes a loser hippocrit and hes a liar...i dont know what to do someone PLEASE help me!!!!

2006-12-31 05:34:23 · 13 answers · asked by j0<3 2 in Friends

2006-12-31 05:33:53 · 28 answers · asked by deepa 1 in Friends

Would 2 people, a girl and a guy, who are not brother and sister, email each other saying "hello sis", and sign "your bro" and she signs the emails "your sissy" and ur "sis"???
do people talk like that in the US?! or they r really brother and sister?
well a guy can call another guy "brother" but they dont also sign it your bro!! and i never heard that between a guy and a girl, except if shes a nun! lol

thanks

2006-12-31 05:33:40 · 10 answers · asked by csimax007 4 in Family

my ex g/f of 4 yrs has anarexica and on anti-depressents will it take longer to move on after a 4 year relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!
only asking b/c i tryed to stay friends but she said she can not at the moment b/c it's to hard to see me and i need to move on she has moved on as she said but can tell she has not i'm scared about her condition and her family and friends will not talk to me!!!!
it's only been 6 weeks !!!!!!!

2006-12-31 05:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 05:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by boo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I Could Easily Take Down Any1 She Sends 2 Me. And I Have. They Either Joke On Me or hit Me. either way i retaliate with twice the force. should stop or keep goin.
P.S. This ***** has a boy friend who is also a *****

2006-12-31 05:30:11 · 15 answers · asked by J64P#1D.E. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-31 05:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

not saying that is the primary factor, but does it impress you at least? was a football jock undergad (non ivy league) and unfortunately women want to discuss that more.

2006-12-31 05:29:16 · 15 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 05:29:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She moved in about a 7 months ago. Her mother wanted her home so much, in a jealous rage of our family she began accusing my father of having a secret crush on her because he was always there for the both of us. It then changed to they both liked each other and then she convinced my mother that my friend was having an affair on my father. My parents have been talking about divorce for a while. Last night my mom was drinking and came out yelling about how he hasn't had sex with her since my friends been living with me. My friends mother has made many accusations such as we were both bisexexual. Now my friends whole family thinks my dad is some sort of pervert and my mother also. What can I do in this situation.??? Is there someway I can charge them with a form of harassment???

2006-12-31 05:27:51 · 3 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-31 05:27:27 · 6 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my friend jason is like my new best friend! for this past week we've been hanging out and we've gotten REALLY close! but he tried to get me to go out with 2 of his friends and i told him i have a bf..now all of a sudden he tells me we can hang out but not too long and he wont send me pics cause he's affraid my boyfriend will look at them and then get mad...is he mad at me or just tryin to protect me?? what do i do?

2006-12-31 05:27:20 · 6 answers · asked by j0<3 2 in Friends

Al the guys i have dated have only wanted in my pants, so i was wondering what I could do to make the guy fall for me??

2006-12-31 05:26:49 · 21 answers · asked by __BRANDi B00* 1 in Singles & Dating

We live together, are having a baby, and have been together for a little more than a year, and yet he still has msn and yahoo messenger lists full of girls he adds and hides from me (which I always find out about on my own). Am I wrong to think that this is way shady and he is stupid for thinking I won't find out? I need some girl advice here ladies :)

2006-12-31 05:25:00 · 22 answers · asked by * jessiellen* 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, and I use that term loosely considering the way she's been acting lately, with whom I've been friends with for 3 years. Only until the last 6 months have I noticed that she's hanging around with new people and I've been swept to the side. I guess it's just a little tough because prior to that we had a good friendship.

During these 6 months, I call or email her maybe once every two weeks to say hi and catch up, but she makes no effort to do the same. I have spoken to her about it and simply asked her if she wanted me to stop contacting her because at times she makes me feel as if I'm bothering her. She proceeded to tell me that she wants me in her life and was hurt that I'd suggest that, but she just doesn't get it that it takes TWO people to make a friendship. I sent her an X-Mas card and I got nothing.

I've decided to stop contacting her and let her go. But is it just me that finds that odd - to want a friend and then not make any effort?

2006-12-31 05:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by Majesty 3 in Friends

iam angry with my hubby becoz he is hanging with his friends instead of me so should i wish him or not?pls response soon?

2006-12-31 05:24:44 · 4 answers · asked by simplewife20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a new bf that was friend's with my co-worker/friend before I even started talking to him. When I started showing interest in him my friend was all for it! She totally supported it...but when i told her he and I talked and he said he was saving himself for someone my friend got mad at him. I continued showing interest in him and she was always mad at me, my guess, is that she didn't want me to date a loser. Now that Im dating him (yes he came around) she always gives me dirty looks and when im with him she flirts with him. Im guessing she does this on purpose because she was never like this before. What is her deal? I don't want to tell her to stop because she is 24 and im only 18 so that would just seem odd. help plz!!

2006-12-31 05:24:41 · 3 answers · asked by MoMoChan 3 in Friends

i liked this one guy, then he moved. He has recently come back for a visit. Now i think i am starting to like him again. What should i do?

2006-12-31 05:23:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating