How do I ask someone on a date?

Question

I am 26 years old, newly divorced and have been out of the loop. There is a man that works at a place I often frequent. I know he has the same attraction for me as I do him. There are usually customers and co workers around him when I get to talk to him.

How do I ask him on a date, maybe to the movies (which we both love), without sounding like a high school "will you go out with me"?

Please only real answers, nothing rude and insulting. Thanks so much

Answer 1

Coming from a guy, i'd say just do it. In fact, i'd love it if a girl ever just asked me out, instead of trying to drop hints. I'm a guy, and a not-too-subtle one at that. Don't confuse us! Just go for it, what have you got to lose that you don't already NOT have?

Answer 2

Well, i have to give you props for handling being "Newly Divorced" and finding a new man. Okay, so you both feel magic when you look at each other.

1.) Whenever he's by his-self, just pretend like your walking by then stop and talk to him.

2.) You're right. You're 26, and you don't want to sound like a high schooler saying "Will you go out with me?" No,no,no,no,no!!

3.) Every once in a while throw something nice on! Get yo fashion on! And pretty soon he'll see how beautiful you REALLY are.

4.) Talk to him about his favorite ''Subjects''. Soon, you both will be better friends than ever.

5.) Give him your phone number (or cell), and tell him you both can chat anytime.

6.) It's not bad to FLIRT every once in a while, it'll show him your playful side.

7.) WHEN he CALLS you, ask him to the movies. How? Good question:

You: Hey, (insert name here)

Him: Hey

You: (Start talking about his favorite sports, movies, music, etc.)

Him: Blah Blah Blah Talk Talk.

You: Hey I was thinking that maybe we could go out sometime...As friends...If you want to. This could be a date also.

Him: Sure, we can go...on a date. ( Since I feel attraction between us.)

You: Cool, I'll Pick you up at 8:00 (The most romantic time :P)

Him: (he might want to pick YOU up instead, so be prepared ; o)

So, there you go...A DATE with the MAN of your DREAMS!!! I'm so happy for you, send me an e-mail for his response or what he says.

Godbless you, and i hope my advice works, and anytime you need help...uh, post a question and I'll answer, Deal? : o P

Oh- and ~♥HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!♥~

Answer 3

Dont be frightened first of all. Always look at it as what is the worst thing that can happen. And sincerly i mean no offense, but you've already been in a divorce, and I'm assuming at some point earlier in your life you were rejected, so you know you've been through way more stressful and hurting situations. Just say "hey, why dont we go see (insert movie name) this weekend, just you and me." I'm the most dense guy on Earth and I'd understand that as an invitaion to a date.

Answer 4

you've already been married and you're 26? And you just got divorced and you're bouncing back already? Wow! That's great! You just take him out for a movie and stuff and tell him about your situation and then be like and what about you? And like how to ask him out is if you just kinda said you wanted to get to know him a little more and was wondering if you could just go see a movie as friends. The next move is his.

Answer 5

the sure shot way, next time your talking to him and the conversation is coming to and end you simply say, you know (his name) I would really consider going to a movie or a date with you if you were to ask me, give him a wink and walk away. or if he has his back to you walk up behind him put your hands on his shoulders and whisper it in his ear . you have asked him but opened the door for him to ask you. Happy New Year
PS I married the women who did that to me, she used the shoulder approuch

Answer 6

ask for his number first, that way it doesn't seem like such a big deal in front of other people, then when u call him, tell him that you realize that he probably already has plans, but ask him if he'd like to meet you for coffee that night or whatever. if he simply says he's busy and can't make it, he probably isn't interested -- move on. if he gives a reason why he is busy, or tells you that he would love to on another occasion, give him your number and tell him to call u when ever it is convenient for him. if he doesn't call in a week, just give up. good luck.

Answer 7

i am a health teacher and i know that going to the movies is one of the worst things you can do because there is no communication going on. one of the best places you can go is ice skating.

Answer 8

Just say " Let's go out tonight "
sounds like you are comfy w/ him
I'm 29

Answer 9

Why not find out if he has interests in tennis, or if he likes to cook,
swim, or what ever.

His ideas about it, your ideas about it, let's try, may be you could show me---

It talking about concerts, Have you seen, I'm thinking, should we see it together?

Answer 10

so your 26 hey?its easy spend some time with him get to know him and boom ask him and if he says no say no hard feelings i understand well good luck and happy holidays!