Al the guys i have dated have only wanted in my pants, so i was wondering what I could do to make the guy fall for me??
2006-12-31 05:26:49 · 21 answers · asked by __BRANDi B00* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
independence--not hanging on them
sense of humor
tolerance--don't try to change them
2006-12-31 05:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by hoptoad 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's a tough question to answer. There are so many girls who try so hard to "advertise their sexuality to guys. So most of the qualities guys look for in girls have to do with sex in one way or another. What do you think you have to offer to a guy, besides your body? Can you throw a spiral? Do you know anything about sports and cars? Do you hate shopping? Can you wear less make up and not be so emotional?
Don't be fake and try to pretend to be something you're not, just to attract boys. I hate girls who do that.
A lot of guys will give you an honest answer here, but most of the girls won't or can't handle the truth. That's why most of the guys answers are getting thumbs down. They can't handle the truth. They wanna live in a fairy tale.
2006-12-31 05:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're dating the wrong guys! As long as you date that type of guy, that's all you're going to see. But anyway, to answer your question . . . I like kind, optimistic, faithful, modest, and generous women who really love me. If you were decent looking, with no obnoxious habits (like smoking, for example), and you had those personality qualities, then I think I would probably fall for you. But note that kindness is very broad, and love isn't just something you talk about. When you love someone, it shows through more than just your words. And I'm not talking about sex either.
I suggest that in the future, you date guys who are more shy than the ones you've been seeing. The odds of them trying to use you are much lower. Good luck!
2006-12-31 05:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If that is "all" guys want from you, you are attracting the wrong guys or you are putting something out there for them to think that they can "get into your pants". You may want to ask yourself these questions; how do i dress? How do i act; what's my reputation? You have to take some responsibility for the type of men who are attracted to you.Once you figure this out then maybe you can change it...hence changing the "type of guy who wants to get into your pants"
2006-12-31 05:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by C 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just let it be and it will happen kiddo.
Smile a lot, be open and interested in learning about the boys around you.
Think about the things you really like to do and what traits you admire in people around you each day.
Have passion in what you believe and go for what you want in life.
You'd be surprised how many boys end up coming to you if you have yourself anchored and have goals for yourself.
Don't give into anything you don't want to do and choose your friends wisely. I always wanted friends who inspired me, were positive, and I could learn from. Heck, I just liked hanging around with them because they made life interesting.
Don't forget to take long walks and hug small children when you get the chance.
Peace :)
2006-12-31 05:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys Dont really pay attention just to your body unless there perverted,but what really attracts guys is the eyes and hair and facial features. I find Blonde and Red headed girls very attractive like others
2006-12-31 05:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by koskesh 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I like women who are not only beautiful opn the oputside but beautiful on the inside. And sometimes I like women who have a gr8t personality no matter what they look like on the outside. I also look for women who have the same interests that I do.
2006-12-31 05:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Be funny,Show who U are truly,be kind,don't insult,show that U R adventurous,Be brave,Be humouristic,They like funny girls
2006-12-31 05:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question? Unfortunately I don't have a cut and dry answer. But I do know they love a sense of humour and somebody who is down to earth and easy to talk to.
2006-12-31 05:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Curious 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well i like girls that can hold a conversation with me, have a good sense of humor, and that take care of their feet, i'm pretty easy to please i guess, and i dont look to get into a girls pants until the time is right.
2006-12-31 05:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Matt P 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I really like girls with good attitude, not lazy, decisive, maybe a little feisty, like if you give her a little crap, she doesn't act like a victim, just gives it to you back. It really pleases me if they just don't take compliments, sometimes they give me some back.
2006-12-31 05:31:34 · answer #11 · answered by daddius42 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋