Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

2006-12-30 14:17:56 · 27 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I saw him with another girl but I think that's just his friend. What should I do?

2006-12-30 14:17:07 · 18 answers · asked by Evie___™ 1 in Singles & Dating

If you had a old hand gun from the 1800 and you had somne hold it for you until you could find a safe place for it and this person went and sold it for$30.My kids grandfather gave my son this when he died and i was moving and had no safe place for it so my father inlaw who is not my kids grandfather took it to his house and said he would put it away in a safe place,well i just found out last night he sold it about 7 months ago,his reason was he didnt want his real grandson to find it,now i cant blame a guy for keeping him safe,but you cant use this gun and he has about 5 of his own hunting guns all over the house.He didnt even ask or better yet even give me the $30 for what he got,now i also have 2 other guns,not hand guns over there and when my hubby asked his dad if he had them his father said u gave them to me.No we did not.These belong to my son given by his real grandfather.I guess i needed to vent

2006-12-30 14:17:03 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is lso having a baby with her.Said he was told about three to four months after and is not excited because he didnt want a child with her. Claims he was drunk when she got him in bed. He says he just wants an excuse to leave and not feel guilty.He says he really loves me and wants to have a life with me. Sometimes I feel like I am hopelessly in love and wasting my time.What do you think?

2006-12-30 14:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by L.Sincere 2 in Singles & Dating

listen hear me out. She is my friend and he is also my friend. That is why he told me that he only liked her cuz she liked football. And then i asked him if he could name any good traits that he recognized about her. HE COUDN'T NAME ANY! Then i found out she doesn't like football. She just said it to impress him. so i am not joking please PLEASE help me break them up.

ps i tried to tell him that she doesn't like football, but he woudn't listen.

then i tried telling her that he only liked her because of football, and she woudn't listen.

so im in a tough situation plz help.

2006-12-30 14:16:49 · 9 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

for 12 year olds?

2006-12-30 14:16:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there really a difference between cute, pretty, sexy, and attractive? If there is a difference please enlighten me on what they are. Thanks

2006-12-30 14:15:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend but i still like this other guy. the one i am going out with is truthful and nice but never talks to me and i don't feel comfortable with him. and then the other guy(actually my ex), i really really like him. but sometimes he lies to me but i can tell him everything and he knows what i am going thru. what should i do?

2006-12-30 14:14:54 · 29 answers · asked by Gisele 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my best friend jason but i cant tell him because he is the one guy that has never let me down & the one guy that is always there 4 me & i dont want to lose that but i know that he is the one, but im sick of waiting & hoping that he will do sumthing because its getting me no where & it just ends up hurting... so i found this otha guy - daniel... he is really nice & we get along really well... he likes me... & he asked me out... thing is he isnt the same religion as me & we hav close to nothing in common... i want to say yes because im sick of being alone & hurting... but i know that i love jason & i feel like im making a big mistake if i say yes but i dont see any other option because im sick of being alone & i cant tell jason how i feel because i dont want him 2 hurt me also... any ideas??? what should i do??? please help... thanx in advance!

2006-12-30 14:14:26 · 12 answers · asked by becstar 3 in Singles & Dating

it is really go well we kiss give it toug and we hug but he want more should i do it

2006-12-30 14:14:15 · 27 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Fairly new to the neighborhood. My son found a friend to play with most of last summer(very happy). My husband and myself developed friendship with parents. We get along very well. They asked us if I could babysit their son 3 days per week.(9 years old only child).Before & after school.. No big deal. They offered to pay, but I thought since we developed a friendship rather akward about accepting money. They express how much they appreciated it. The mother would take both my son and her son out for lunch, swimming, etc. Fastforward. Four months later both my son and his friend are having problems getting along. Fights etc. Her son express to us, he disliked my son and hated coming to our house( I guess love/hate friendship).We decided to end looking after him(all agreed best thing to do. I have noticed change of attitude toward me since this happen with the Mother/friend? I thought we were becoming good friends...My son still plays with her son sometimes.. False friend??

2006-12-30 14:14:12 · 3 answers · asked by TT 1 in Friends

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little more than 8 months now. Within the past 4 days everything is going downhill, snowball effect style. How do I stop it before it all comes crashing down?

2006-12-30 14:13:46 · 8 answers · asked by delacroix192 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i was at a party with my bf,and every thing was really good, so my older brother Ofunlo was going to pick me up from my bf's house.my bf's parents wernt home and we were kissing and i told him to stop(he was taking off his cloths) i told him i didnt wanna have sex, he wouldnt stop then he held me down and took off my cloths and then did what he wanted then he stoped because my brother called and said he was driving up his street, and i was so scared and i'm afraid to tell my brother( i live with him, my parents are dead) im 15 and my brother is 23 and my bf is 17, should i tell him and if i do how do i tell him, i dont know if he used a condom or not, and i was a virgin and i'm really scared because i know if my brother finds out he's gonna kill boy that and i'm afraid that i'm pregnant, he told me that if i ell any body he would do it again then kill me, im just really scared....please help me and i dont need the people who like to make people in situations like this to make....

2006-12-30 14:13:44 · 9 answers · asked by nashoba 1 in Family

We have dated/lived together for 2 years. I told him that we can't live together anymore til a commitment is made. He said he'd move into his parents house, although he said he didn't want to. I am moving in with my grandmother until I finish my degree which will be much cheaper/better for me/us. I said he could live w/me if he agreed to pay 1/2 the bills and save $60-80/month for my engagemet ring which would go to a savings account. Is this fair for him and me?

2006-12-30 14:13:16 · 19 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well its new years eve, im single (i dont want to settile down just yet, well, not until i find the right person), i havent had a relationship for 6 years now. I have had my share of fun though, yet i am still not satisfied. my mates think im weird as they want to or are already settled. This makes me all alone for new years eve & i have nobody left to go to parties with any more. Am i doing something wrong here? I consider myself good looking, and my mates are not so, hence their arranged marriages etc. I find myself as being laidback and witty which i believe is the reason as to why girls get attracted to me& i hate loud people. Why have my friends moved on and i still wish not to?? Does that make me weird?? Am I doing something wrong here?

2006-12-30 14:13:04 · 4 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Singles & Dating

I tought that all guys after they dont have sex for a while then once they do they dont last long and come quick. Well my friend told me that her man took a while to *** thats good right i told her but i guess she got worried cuz why would he take long when they havent done it in like a month or more and he said he "played w/ himself" if you know what i mean in the morning awould that be the reason??please reply.

2006-12-30 14:12:12 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I've always just called it as it is and thought that just saying "I miss you" is enough but apparently it's not descriptive enough for him and I'm clueless as what to say. Any ideas?

2006-12-30 14:11:37 · 18 answers · asked by dlynnb2006 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy at school has a huge crush on me but i hate him. He is my BFF's brother. He is a dork. I tried everything and he still likes me. I told him i am already going out and he does not care, I still love you. WHAT DO I DO?

2006-12-30 14:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by Cassie 2 in Singles & Dating

It's not that im not smart or that im butt ugly ,I usto have a real bad meth problem and have been clean for a year but still live with my parants any advice

2006-12-30 14:11:10 · 14 answers · asked by maryelizabethsteel 1 in Singles & Dating

like would you leave your best nerd friends behind to hit on the girls, iunno give me some feed back

2006-12-30 14:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by Caribou 6 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a girl, but I don't know if she loves me back. I don't want to give her up, but all the sudden, lots of girls are interested in me. I need help!!!

2006-12-30 14:09:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What left them shocked??(see add'l details and then say what)

2006-12-30 14:09:45 · 10 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for serious answers here. Nothing along the lines of "duh" or "of course".

I'm just wondering, because I haven't been able to find a woman who thinks that it's important for a man to live his life with integrity. Most women that I know think that it's great when a man is unfaithful, lazy, bullying, and dishonest in general. They view him as being a "bad boy" who has "edge" and is a "challenge".

On the other hand, a man who is confident, mentally and physically healthy, a community leader, intelligent, romantic, honest, and would be a devoted husband and father, is seen as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do these women have low self-esteem and think that they don't deserve better . . . or, do men of integrity have to start being losers in order for women to appreciate them?

2006-12-30 14:09:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hiya.Happy new year everbody.My adorable American girlfriend is back home in the USA for new years.We'll be on the phone for sure but i'm planning to send her one of those Hallmark e-cards.
We've been friends for over a year but we're now bf & gf for a few months.I absolutely love her & adore her.I'm missing her like crazy - i'm half a boy without her.
Can someone suggest a romantic message that tells her how i feel.You know i love her & wanna be with her forever etc. Something that will let her know that with her it's for real.No smart answers please - this is genuinely serious!!

2006-12-30 14:08:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm current;y looking for a boyfriend, and I have tow options; the cute, nerdy guy I have a small crush on- Or the hot blonde guy from camp?

The first is really shy and cute, and he's got a great personality, and also like me more for personality then looks. (Don't I sound cheesy) But I know I can trust him and that he would never cheat on me and a relation ship would probably take a long time to even start (He's shy) but it would also last long.

The other guy is into me for looks, and that's the main reason I'm into him. It's not like he's a bad person, but he a lot less trustworthy then the other guy... A relationship with him would be quick, but would probably be really fun too. BUT heres' the biggie, I only really see him once a month, sometimes twice, so getting him to ask me out would be harder.

So who do I pick? Cutie or Rockstar? Also, if I choose the cutie, the other will find another girlfriend, and if I pick Rockstar, the other will be really offended and not talk to me

2006-12-30 14:08:06 · 8 answers · asked by Slyvia E 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you like a jacket on it or not?

2006-12-30 14:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 14:07:33 · 26 answers · asked by sss 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband and I have been together for 25 years and he's been doing somethings to make me think that he's cheating and this has been going on for a long time now but he keeps saying that he's not aware of what he doing to have me thinking this way so the other night I broke it down to him bit by bit piece by piece all the coinsedents and for the first time he didn't say a word he just heard me out.and the next day he told me that he couldn't sleep and that he felt guilty and when I aked him why he felt guilty if he wasn't cheating and he never cheated he just said that he wanted us to be a happy family and he wants to clebrate the coming of the new year just being with his family just being happy with the one's he love and that there's noboby else out there for him cause he's with who he wants to be with and that's me my question is why do you think that he's feeling guilty do you think it's because he was doing things that he wasn't aware of tell me what do you think.

2006-12-30 14:07:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father-in-law (FIL) is now a craftsman, and he has built some amazing things. He built a rocking horse for his grandson (my son), a bar for my husband (back in his bachelor days), and a dresser (also from my husband's bachelor days, more specifially 12 years ago).

The dresser was his first major project, and as one can assume, the dresser is gorgeous but lacks function.

Example: The lowest drawer had it's face come off ages ago, and two of the drawers won't open all the way due to the drawer being oddly shaped.

In other words: very annoying

While I love the thought and love behind it, it no longer functions as a dresser and doesn't match our bedroom (why would anyone match to something that doesn't work?).

I've spoken to my husband, but I find it difficult in myself to find myself drawing the line between demanding a change and embracing the love of a father.

We've asked his father to fix it, but it seems to keep getting pushed to the back of his list.

2006-12-30 14:06:53 · 8 answers · asked by FaZizzle 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-30 14:06:34 · 9 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce