Family & Relationships - 30 December 2006

My boyfriend told me I lecture him all the time. Every time he does something I don't like or I precieve as hurtful or neglectful toward our relationship. I let him know. He said I over analayz everything and put thoughts and words into his mouth that don't exist. Will someone please give me examples of lecturing a person and if I am how can I spot myself so I can stop it.

2006-12-30 13:32:36 · 4 answers · asked by frustrated 1 in Singles & Dating

What does the phrase in the closet mean?? My friend says it means you are straight, does it?? Or does it mean you are in a gay relationship?? I am so confused. Please help!!

2006-12-30 13:32:22 · 8 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

aka a willy

2006-12-30 13:32:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its like they will email me and talk

2006-12-30 13:31:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-30 13:30:30 · 33 answers · asked by Caroline K 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that back in the old days, your husband would respect you more if you had kept you're virginity but in our time where sex is in every place, would that actually make much of a difference to the guy?

2006-12-30 13:30:26 · 24 answers · asked by Canda 1 in Singles & Dating

my daughter (16) has been going out with this guy (15) for about a year now, and both of his parents are not in his life. the only relative that is, is his brother (19). this kid is an exceptional person. he is on the honor roll, rides his bike or walks to work which is 5 miles away, he treats my daughter like a princess. his older brother on the other hand is not as good. he drinks, smokes pot and cigs., and god knows what else. my husband and i both care about him and worry about him. we try to do what we can but we are just not financially stable enough. my daughter just told me that their rent has not been paid for in 3 months and the house they live in is going into foreclosure. my daughter is afraid the state will take him, and i'm afraid because of his brothers unstable behavior. he gets a social security check for $350. a month and gives it to his brother to pay the rent. but, obviously that money has gone elsewhere. so what should i do? i can't help him financially.

2006-12-30 13:30:13 · 13 answers · asked by lidakamo 4 in Family

The Fifth Element works for me.

2006-12-30 13:29:57 · 8 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Singles & Dating

I am really worried I found out tonight--apparently God is saying terrible things to her--the person that told me would not ellaborate on exactly what he is saying to her but did tell me it was very scary--she is 38 years old married with five children--her husband goes to school every day --she home schools her children--what could I possably do??

2006-12-30 13:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Family

I was thinking of this chick i knew in high school and decided to look her up online.
well, she was a singer in high school and i found out shes a singer in a band.
i saw her band schedule and found out she was playing at a whole foods type market opening that i had been putting off going to the day after I looked her up.

well, the next gig was at a bar but the weather was really bad last night and didn't get better until 30 mins before and then it was pitch dark.

so...the last one for the month of jan is this friday but in dallas.
which is almost 50 miles away.

her other gigs have only been about 20 mins away.
she has one other one at same place where the bad weather was-15 mins from home.

should I make the venture out to dallas at a bar I would not normally frequent or wait till they come around (and by the way-their schedule and the one on the bar homepage is different) to the close bar?

she can't tell that i don't go to neither, but i don't want to start w/ lie

2006-12-30 13:28:19 · 2 answers · asked by a_aramirez 1 in Friends

There is a girl i like and her mother is really into christianity and they keep getting into fights because she is bi. Her mother keeps saying she is going to hell because she is bi.

2006-12-30 13:28:07 · 38 answers · asked by Johnny P 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 13:27:52 · 13 answers · asked by coulson 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-30 13:27:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This could be kind of long, but my girl friend back in april cheated on me and I took her back, becuase I do truly love her. Back in april I had the intuition that something was going on. She wasn't talking to me hardly at all and I just felt it. I couldn't eat and all I wanted to do was sleep. I latley have been starting to feel this way again. She is working alot and feels tired all of the time, When we talk its like she is falling asleep and when we go out its like she is also asleep. I'm not saying that she is cheating on me but I guess its just me and I don't know how to get rid of feeling. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just says she tired and doesn't feel like doing anything. Is there anything I can do to change this in me or her. I love her to death and I feel she does too. How much time is she going to need and how much can I take of it?

2006-12-30 13:27:25 · 13 answers · asked by black_shadow084 1 in Singles & Dating

he dropped a ice cube and i guess it feel under my foot and he was trying to get it out from under my foot why did he do this

2006-12-30 13:26:43 · 19 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife left me and my son now she wants 1/2 f everything if i file for a divorce,i do want the marriage to end but i am not ready to loose my house and i have alot of debt out there and she does not think that any of this debt is hers if we file for divorce and we split it all i will loose the house and 1/2 the debt so i hope..
if we stayed married then i would be able to keep the house..
but then i would still be married to this awful person..

2006-12-30 13:26:27 · 14 answers · asked by whtmt501 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He knows I want to do the grown up with him and he want to too. But I don't know if we should or not. What abot our friendship?

2006-12-30 13:24:56 · 12 answers · asked by Big Red 2 in Friends

See im 16 and i strongly dislike gays. Please dont hate me you gay people but being queer has always struck me. In fact, my uncle is gay, and because of that, I avoid him. How can I get over this?? I know you have a right to sleep with whoever you want but i don't know, convince me that I can look at you guys "normally". No offfence

2006-12-30 13:24:10 · 23 answers · asked by Im A Big Kid Now 1 in Singles & Dating

He says i don't talk enough, but he knew i wasn't a talkitive person when we started dating. We have a long distant relationship. Now i guess its becoming a big problem for both of us. i talk about the important things but when it comes to petty arguments i get quite. i really don't do arguments. i care about him. He said if i don't move to where he is at then its over. I m still in school. what should i do?

2006-12-30 13:24:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to know how to get along with her. I don't need advice on how to handle my dad's daughter with her and I don't need anyone to tell me that I"m wrong for hating her. I do need someone to tell me HOW DO I MAKE HER GO AWAY?!

2006-12-30 13:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i have this girl friend and she thinks i dont love her and she says that to my face what should i do because i really do love her
being with her is the most amazing thing in my love right now and im scared to talk to her becuase she might break up with me there and i got mad at her this christmas becuase i was at my dads house having a crapy time and then she comes on begging me to come back early so i did but im to scared to phone her right now

2006-12-30 13:23:11 · 8 answers · asked by Exco12 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been going out with this guy for 2 months now.He says (or said) he's in love with me.But today we fell out because as a joke, I said, 'I'm dumping you' and he took it seriously.I saw that what I said was stupid-I dunno how I come up with things like that and make them sound so serious-so I tried to apologise but he decided to block me on MSN and not answer my calls.I started to feel really bad until he finally unblocked me just to say 'stay out of my life,I don't care about you blablabla'.And this just made me laugh coz he obviously didn't care that I was sorry and that I wanted him back.So I laughed at him.And left the conversation.And then, an hour later, he called me.I picked up and when he said,'I'm sorry' I could hear that he'd been crying.And for some reason, I almost burst out laughing.He wants me back, an I just don't know what to do.He was stupid, but he cried for me.And I don't imagine us together forever but I liked having him for now. Sort of. I'm confused.HELP please!

2006-12-30 13:23:10 · 23 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

After me and my boyfriend broke up,our friend made a move on him.They kissed once,and thought about going out but my then ex-bf felt she was more of a mate and we ended up getting back together.Now we've been really happy together but suddenly this girl started talking about me behind my back to my friends and when i questioned her she denied it all.My best friend,who is besotted with her didnt believe she was lying!Although she just uses him even though she knows fine well he loves her.After being so mean to me,my bf decided to stop talking to her.I never made him choose,he just said he did it voluntarily,and told her he didnt want to be friends.Now just yesterday he was telling me how much he didnt like her,suddenly today she messaged him saying she misses him and he decides to give their friendship another shot.but he said he wont if it will hurt me?I feel like shes making a fool of me and hes letting her away with it.whats going on here and what should i do?

2006-12-30 13:22:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my friends gets everything i wanted- the north face, abercrombie jacket, north face, iPod, Uggs, and other stuff. its really annoying becuz she always tells me about them and i feel like she is braggin. it makes me feel kinda bad when i dont have that stuff and that she'll come back to school with a bunch of cool stuff and i won't. is it wrong for me to be jealous? also, she ois acting bratty, and different. she says snotty stuff and stuff she copies from ppls profiles on AIM. whenever i tell her sges different she denies it and gets mad at me. what shud i do for that tooo?

2006-12-30 13:22:11 · 15 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Friends

My husband wants me to call his mom just to talk to her but I don't think she likes me. So when we talk it is very brief and there is always a reason to talk. I want her to like me for my husband but I don't know what to talk about. How do I get the conversation going?

2006-12-30 13:21:57 · 15 answers · asked by Moni0718 2 in Marriage & Divorce

On Christmas Day, my boyfriend's family came over for lunch and I cooked a roast turkey. Everything turned out really well, except his dad brought his own lunch with him, without discussing it with me first. This struck me as the height of unnecessary rudeness.

I am still REALLY annoyed about this. There was nothing in the meal he was allergic to, or disliked; turkey is his favourite food, and it was cooked just the way he likes it. Without wanting to sound conceited, I am a really excellent cook and it was very nice.

Would anybody else be annoyed about this, or am I crazy? And how can I get un-annoyed, because I don't want to start the New Year still in a bad mood over this.

2006-12-30 13:21:21 · 14 answers · asked by Girl Machine 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that the person who has hurt me,is the one I need a hug off?

2006-12-30 13:21:12 · 48 answers · asked by simply me xx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok last night i dreamt i was duck hunting and fainted and then i woke up in my bed fully clothed with this guy that 12 years older than me (im 17 he 29) that i fancy (but i have a bf) laying behind me hugging me rubbing my stomach saying he loves me and i make him so happy and cant wait for our gift

i dont know wat this means and y would i dream if him and not my bf

2006-12-30 13:21:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my little sister is 12 and i'm 21 she sees me kiss my girlfriend french kiss she wants to know how i do it what do i say help

2006-12-30 13:20:42 · 4 answers · asked by TIMER 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you like in a girl? Long hair short hair? Eye color? Body type? Nice Smile? etc.

2006-12-30 13:20:00 · 19 answers · asked by Locogirl 2 in Singles & Dating