After me and my boyfriend broke up,our friend made a move on him.They kissed once,and thought about going out but my then ex-bf felt she was more of a mate and we ended up getting back together.Now we've been really happy together but suddenly this girl started talking about me behind my back to my friends and when i questioned her she denied it all.My best friend,who is besotted with her didnt believe she was lying!Although she just uses him even though she knows fine well he loves her.After being so mean to me,my bf decided to stop talking to her.I never made him choose,he just said he did it voluntarily,and told her he didnt want to be friends.Now just yesterday he was telling me how much he didnt like her,suddenly today she messaged him saying she misses him and he decides to give their friendship another shot.but he said he wont if it will hurt me?I feel like shes making a fool of me and hes letting her away with it.whats going on here and what should i do?
2006-12-30 13:22:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
two things you should do..find a new friend and find a new boyfriend
2006-12-30 13:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u basically know whats going on. u should talk 2 both of them. tell ur bf what u just told us and how u feel about the situation. if ur bf is really there 4 u he'll back u up. the girl who's talking stuff about u is a female dog, u don't wanna be friends with her anyway. if u still wanna be friends with her talk 2 her about it, but it seems she doesn't want ur friendship, she just wants the guy.
2006-12-30 21:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by hannah t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is as follows:
Similar things have happened to me. And I've realized it comes down to one word: jealousy.
If she kissed him or whatever and then he rejected her in some way, that makes her want him more. And now that he's with you, she is probably trying to manipulate you into breaking up with him or something so that she can have him.
She is only trying to make being w/ him hard for you. Also, I'd keep an eye on him as well if he is wanting to be friends w/ her and won't stick up for you when it comes to her.
Good Luck!
2006-12-30 21:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by xxx_bleeding_x_stars_xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god i hate her for you! seriously though ignore the things shes saying about you behind your back if you dont like the girl then why should you care what she says about you. you should nearly expect her to bad mouth you when you won the man she wanted. rub it in her face. but your bf should stay away if shes out to get you. just tell him that.. if he is really good friends with her then you really wouldnt want to come between them but if theyre just casual friends or w/e then for your sake and to save awkwardness between everyone it would be best for him to keep distance. shes going to make a move on him again id put money on it. evil cow.
2006-12-30 21:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words "black mail" git her were it hurts or make everyone see what a fool she is
2006-12-30 21:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by warlord_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋