He says i don't talk enough, but he knew i wasn't a talkitive person when we started dating. We have a long distant relationship. Now i guess its becoming a big problem for both of us. i talk about the important things but when it comes to petty arguments i get quite. i really don't do arguments. i care about him. He said if i don't move to where he is at then its over. I m still in school. what should i do?
2006-12-30 13:24:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u love him??? is he the one??? because if not then dont leave skl... skl is were u belong... its the education that u need to that u can hav a full and rich life! u can find a guy more worthy of u and one that will love u know matter what... make sure that u are happy =) Good luck
2006-12-30 13:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by becstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl yo boyfriend sounds a lot like mine!! They want u 2 talk talk talk when they knew we didn really talk talk talk when they met us!! We also have a long distance relationship but I dont think my bf will leave me for not moving in with him or not talkin to him enuff. If he does, thats crezy childish. I go and c my bf when I please and we have a good time but when we talk on da phone itz just ..................... but everybody'z different so yeah he'd be better off wit sum loud ghetto hood rat chik who can't shuttup and luvs to argue and would b glad 2 move in 2 steal all his mon-t!!! In other words...kick dis guy 2 da left!!! Get sum sumbody who'll appreciate u 4 u not u 4 what he wants u 2 do or how he wants u 2 b.....he wanna b in control...dont let him
2006-12-30 21:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by chocolateflavadgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't make a whole lot of sense to do arguments when you're in a long-distance. You're doing the right thing by discussing what's important. Next time he wants to argue, tell him that you'll discuss that when you see him IN PERSON. Good luck.
2006-12-30 21:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to hit the road.
No.
Yes.
Do you love him? Can you pick up and move in the middle of school? Is that something you want to do? What about your family..would you be away from them? Lots to think about and I personally don't do ultimatiums. I'd tell him to kiss me goodbye and send him all the stuff he ever gave me to show him i was serious.....but I'm a little crazy like that.
Are you going to be happy wherever he is? Sounds controlling :(
2006-12-30 21:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by SpringBreeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...yeah i dont like arguments either... i think this is a question u have to answer urself... do u love him and think u could spend the rest of ur life with him to move.. and how old r u?? If u do love him enough then i would go..but yet if u dont, dont give up ur life for him..
2006-12-30 21:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get quite what? Not talking a lot is one thing, but you need to learn to finish your sentences, mate.
As far as moving to where he is and dropping out of school, don't even consider it. If you give in to his blackmail now, you'll never be an equal partner in the relationship. Better to let this one go.
2006-12-30 21:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your still in school you say. Well finnish your education first. If this man not interested in that so be it. you have your own agenda to do in life too. Seems also this long distance relationship isn't working out . Thats tough anyways long distance relationships to make them work.
Good luck
2006-12-30 21:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why cant he move to where you are? if you are still in school should you really be getting into a relationship this serious. also keep track of how often you are fighting. the fighting might not improve with a move.
2006-12-30 21:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would "HE" be better off ? The question is .. would YOU be better off with someone else. Why make him more important than you ?? If you want my opinion .. I'd drop this guy and move on to someone that will appreciate you. Good Luck. :)
2006-12-30 21:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok he should probly be let free because takeing him in when he doesnt like you that much. Dont let him take over you. Dont change for him. Mr. Right will come!!!
2006-12-30 21:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by Shelby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋