There is a girl i like and her mother is really into christianity and they keep getting into fights because she is bi. Her mother keeps saying she is going to hell because she is bi.
2006-12-30 13:28:07 · 38 answers · asked by Johnny P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her mother is going to be the one in hell being so hurtful and judgmental.
Yes, you should always love your children. Being bi isn't a problem.
2006-12-30 13:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes a parent father or mother should love there children no matter what there preference is. however some people are very relgious and the mother in this case feels she is doing the right thing by condeming her daughter and telling her this is not right . this is all the mother knows from the book she has read. So she thinks she's helping her daughter by this. but actually it won't help as this other woman thats bi won't change cause of what the bible says she is who she is. Mother needs to get to a support group on how to handle this. the mother has no idea how to deal with this and so she is quoting from the bible. this isnt' going to work for this family they need to get therapy and help so they both can have a good relationship or this will strain there family further apart.
2006-12-30 13:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question Yes a mother should alway stand by every decision her child makes even if it's to become bi or homosexual. However it sounds in this case like her mother is a hard core christian. Unfortunately christians have never been great with accepting these kind of things. I knew a girl once who was kicked out of her house by her parents because she changed religions from christianity to paganism. She won't go to hell for being bi. If there is a god he would want us to love someone even if they're the same gender. Don't worry to much just support your friend. And if you want some advice for your friend to give to her mom I have four words "GET OVER IT MOTHER!"
2006-12-30 13:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cyborg Farmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mother should stand by her child and love her unconditionally no matter what. However, it sounds to me that its not a problem whether that mom loves her daughter or not its because she has been instructed the things of the bible and bibically it is wrong no matter what everyone else has said because it is in there. The mother doesn't have to agree but should love her daughter and keep praying for her. The mother should keep her faith in God and keep praying if she really wants her daughter to stop. By fighting with her daughter she will only distance her from her and all hope could be lost. She should instead have a heart to heart talk with her daughter and explain to her why its not right in God's eyes but not judge her and condem her to hell because God is the only being who can do that. I truly hope everything turns out well for them!!!!
2006-12-30 14:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ivanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that mother doesn't love her child. But the things she is saying to her daughter are wrong.... and she is probably saying them, because she truly believes the things she has been taught and can not come to terms with the thought that her daughter may or may not agree.... and she is probably also scared. However, she will always love her child... and if she IS a Christian, then hopefully she will learn, in time, to not judge, and accept and love her daughter for who she is.
2006-12-30 13:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by KSmom24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you would get two thumb's down for your question. I think a Mother just like a friend, especially a Mother should stand by their Child's side no matter what. If we can't rely on our Mother's to accept us and guide us then we tend to look in the wrong places. '-)
2006-12-30 13:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a parent should always put their love for their child first. I think the child should always know that their parents love them and will not reject them. At the same time, I think the mother has the right to her own beliefs, just as the daughter does, and should not be bullied into silence.
2006-12-30 13:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if a mother really loves her child then it shouldn't matter what sexuality the child is. A mother should support the child through everything even if they dont always agree with what their child does.
2006-12-30 13:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Faith26 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt that the love I feel for my daughter now would diminish one iota if she were gay or bi.....love is unconditional.
By the way my vote for thumbs down was for the mother... not the person asking the question....sorry if it appeared that way.
2006-12-30 13:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by jupitor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, if her mom is all about christian which i am too i think she should know that she's not allowed to judge her daughter because she will be judge unmercifully. if her daughter is a grown woman she should know bye now what is right and what is wrong what is christian like and what isn't. she should clean the cold from her eye before she clean somebody else it's a saying from the bible.
2006-12-30 13:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋