it is really go well we kiss give it toug and we hug but he want more should i do it
2006-12-30 14:14:15 · 27 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never do anything that you are not ready for or being pressured to do. And remember once you do those things you can never go back.
2006-12-30 14:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by vieveia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you enough for you to be considering giving him what he wants, then he likes you enough to wait for you until you are ready. If he pressures you in anyway or tries to make you feel bad when you say no, then he is using you to get what he wants and he doesn't really care for you.
This may hurt to realize, but always remember that you are worth more. You will still feel all the same feelings and more (some good and some bad) after you do what he wants, but you will have lost something that you can't get back.
And if you are not completely positive (as in he has PROVED his worthiness in some deed or action NOT word) that he is mature enough and wise enough to be able to appreciate this gift you will never get back, or you are not totally comfortable and ready (you'll know when you are) then PLEASE DO NOT EVEN HANG OUT ALONE WITH HIM ANYMORE. You are destined for greatness. Forget about boys and just let your light within you shine.
2006-12-30 14:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by SHT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy have you ever asked the SIX MILLION dollar question.IT'S UP TO YOU TO DECIDE HOW FAR THINGS GO NOBODY ELSE. IF HE MAKES YOU DO SOMETHING THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO IT'S CALLED (RAPE) AND HE CAN BE ARRESTED AND PUT IN PRISON FOR DOING IT. If your not ready then SAY NO!!!!!! and if he keeps pushing the subject then dump him as all he want from you is to use your body for his pleasure and he doesn't care one bit about your feelings. The best advice I can offer you is to wait until you find that one guy who is more interested in you,your feelings and concerns above his desires and hopefully you will both be in love with each other before jumping into the sack.If you are lucky the first guy that you sleep with will be the only guy you ever sleep with and vice versa.
2006-12-30 14:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a question of do you like it too?
it's quite personal. if he want's it just because he wants to - perhaps he's just taking advantage of you.
if both of you want it to express your feelings for each other - then go for it. are you old enough to decide on that?
be careful though, it will bring about certain responsibilities as with all things attached to certain decisions.
piece of advice: do not do things that you would regret later on in your life!
2006-12-30 14:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by mitzbitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your ready if your asking questions. I had alot of boys asking me stuff like this. I know I'm not ready. You should just wait until your sure. If he dosen't understand then boys come and go.
2006-12-30 14:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stay in school and get an education so that you will not be an unmarried mom at 15 years of age.
2006-12-30 14:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ask me
for a guy a kiss and a hug never enough
2006-12-30 14:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by DB9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess they no longer teach grammar and spelling in the schools these days? If you don't want more, just say NO. If he doesn't stop, slap his hands or give him a need to the groin!
2006-12-30 14:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you do not sound as if you are ready. Wait for someone really special, and also wait a few years. You won't regret waiting.
2006-12-30 14:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All boys want to do more than hug and kiss. If u dont want to do it, dont. Try something oral, you wont be sorry.
2006-12-30 14:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Tim'sSO 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋