i love my best friend jason but i cant tell him because he is the one guy that has never let me down & the one guy that is always there 4 me & i dont want to lose that but i know that he is the one, but im sick of waiting & hoping that he will do sumthing because its getting me no where & it just ends up hurting... so i found this otha guy - daniel... he is really nice & we get along really well... he likes me... & he asked me out... thing is he isnt the same religion as me & we hav close to nothing in common... i want to say yes because im sick of being alone & hurting... but i know that i love jason & i feel like im making a big mistake if i say yes but i dont see any other option because im sick of being alone & i cant tell jason how i feel because i dont want him 2 hurt me also... any ideas??? what should i do??? please help... thanx in advance!
2006-12-30 14:14:26 · 12 answers · asked by becstar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think you are making a big mistake you probably are. If you are in love with Jason, talk to him. If you dont do anything, then nothing will ever happen between you two, if he doesnt make a move. I know your situation very well. A good friend of mine, well, anyways, lets just say I know your situation well. You may not end up getting rejected, but sometimes a rejection is what it takes for you to be able to move on with your life. And If you dont get rejected, good for you.
Talk to Jason
Good luck.
2006-12-30 14:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off what if Jason felt exactly the same way as you do? He was hidding his feelings from you also. Then you go ask out this other guy. He most likely would figure you weren't into him because you are with someone else.
First off dump the guy your going with you have nothing in common with. Try spending even more time with Jason. Try a little flirting. Don't come out with a gigantor "I think I Love You! and your my soul mate". This way you are safe from both ends. If he says something and says he's not intrested just tell him you didn't mean that way. Which will save your friendship. Try getting him to spend more time alone with you instead of in a group setting.
Good Luck!
2006-12-30 22:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by hstoic01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, you gotta love yourself before someone else can love you. If Jason means that much to you then tell him, communication is number 1 in all relationships. You have to take the good with the bad and if you dont tell him you will never know what could be. Be prepared, and even if he says he doesnt see you in that light then atleast you still have a super great friend. And give the other guy a chance, if it doesnt work out he will not be the only guy. best wishes
2006-12-30 22:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that your best friend also feels something for you but he is just shy and afraid of rejection, just as you are. Does he have a girlfriend?Sometimes love is all about taking chances. Start a conversation indirectly by asking him what he thinks of you as a girl. Tell him u have this guy you are interested in but dont know what to do. His answers might be a good indication as to whether u can tell him about how you feel aout him right now. Give it a try!
2006-12-30 22:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by L.Sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your friend - why all the secrets? Relationship is based on open communication - talk to him. Whatever the outcome maybe, you can move forward.
I wouldn't advise dating someone of different religion; you may have a problem in the long run.
2 Corinthians 6:14
Do Not Be Yoked With Unbelievers
Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
2006-12-30 22:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with almost everyone else. Coming from experience, you should never "settle" for just whoever. You need to go after the one you love. I didnt do that and it still to this day makes my life miserable just thinking about it. GO GET JASON!!!!!!!!. Just be honest with both guys. I hope you get what you want, good luck, Justin.
2006-12-30 22:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by J_Dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with both guys. Jason might feel exactly the same way you do, you won't know until you talk. Daniel might be ok with things, he could make a good friend.
2006-12-30 22:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a fact that every good relationship has to start out with a good friendship, so even though jason might be a good friend, he could possibly be the love of your life just because you two are so compatible with each other. and don't think just because you would allow him to be your boyfriend that he can't still be your best friend, because thats how it usually happens. TALK TO HIM GiRL! a risk worth taking.. i guarntee it
2006-12-30 22:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by babystarr_114 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jason is the 1 right but don't tell him stright up tell him u would like to take it to the next level but make sure he no that u can still be friends but no that there r other fish in the sea baby be cair full just make sure that u no its the right thing to do
2006-12-30 22:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if jason is a true friend then he will understand where you are coming from. ya said he's always been there 4 ya.
2006-12-30 22:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by greg j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋