I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I saw him with another girl but I think that's just his friend. What should I do?
2006-12-30 14:17:07 · 18 answers · asked by Evie___™ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest and ask him. If you saw him someone else then that's not thinking he was with another girl. You actually saw it. Ask him to tell you the truth. If your in a relationship and he's being truthful then he should have no problem telling you who she was and what they were doing. Good Luck! '-)
2006-12-30 14:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him about it... if he can't look into your eyes while telling you then he is probably lying. But if he is a good liar then you may be in trouble. Just don't say that you think he is cheating to any one who might tell someone that will tell him, because he could cover it up if he already suspect that you know... that is if he is cheating. But honesty is the best thing in any relationship.
2006-12-30 22:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best bet is to ask your boyfriend about it. He should just be able to answer you truthfully.
Signs of him lying include: Raising of voice, shortness of breath, deliberate lack of eye contact, fumbling, starring (no blinking
He should be able to normally answer the question like he would any other question, and clear any doubt in your mind. Anything else would be a clear indicator for lack of consideration in respect to you being his girlfriend.
If you really have a suspicion, then sooomething must be different in your relationship to create that. Pin point that. For me, before i was cheated on by my girlfriend, i noticed we didn't talk as much, we didnt spend time as much, broke some of our day-to-day habits (i love you's, etc). By and large though, you can't let suspicion or jealousy inhibit your ability to be trusting. First and foremost you must talk to him about it, in a cool-headed manner. Chances are everything will be fine and you'll have nothing to worry about. Good-luck!
Trust me....
2006-12-30 22:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, talk to him about it. If he has/is cheating, he should come clean. But its happened to me before that when I asked him about it, he lied and I found out he really did from his best friend, and when I questioned him again, he told me he had. So be careful and good luck!
2006-12-30 22:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by xxx_bleeding_x_stars_xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. She may have just been a friend. But if she was more than a friend be sure HE WILL lie. Just wait and if he is a cheater you will find out sooner or later..just guard your heart so you don't get it broken at least until you a very sure he is a keeper.
2006-12-30 22:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sonia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... you could ask him and see how he replies! That would be the first thing- and if it is just a friend tell him you want to meet her. If he has a problem with that- then I'd be skeptical.
2006-12-30 22:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him, tell him that you dont want to be suspicious and possesive and jealous, but you dont want to be used and abused either. You must have some reason to think he is cheating, maybe you should follow your instincts and consider what kind of relationship you want to have.
2006-12-30 22:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good u think is just a friend right take that way then keep watching him and know what will be next dont give him that sign now cos he is gon be extra careful
2006-12-30 22:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned the hard way to just ask him about it. If he acts all weird or quickly replies "oh, she's just a friend." Then, investigate.
2006-12-30 22:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could question him, he may lie. The only way you can know for sure is if you or someone catches them in the act.
2006-12-30 22:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋