Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

2006-12-29 02:42:09 · 14 answers · asked by dj 4 in Singles & Dating

All right, I've known this guy for over a year now and we've grown more closer than ever. Like, I've finally gotten comfortable around him (I'm very shy around guys), but it seems sometimes that's it's a bit too close. I mean, some people actually think were dating. The thing is, yeah we flirt a lot with each other, but that's it, nothing more. I mean, we're always hanging out (just the two of us) and stuff and half the time you see us together. Is it bad for people to think that we're a couple? I mean, is the way we act past the friends zone?

Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't complain if anything happens between us, if you get my drift... cause i kinda like him. That's why I ain't complaining about this whole thing. I'm just wondering, cause I'm sooo confused right now.

2006-12-29 02:41:35 · 14 answers · asked by eruname_alcie 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when after three years, my boyfriends daughter hates me? I know some of it is due to her mother, but I have been a teacher for 11 years and the children with the worst behavior never treated me this bad. I do all I can for her and her mother tells her I am buying her love, just because I am a teacher doesn't mean anything etc. My boyfriend says she is still trying to get used to me, but my daughter is her same age and she talks about me terribly to her. We just recently had a baby and she kicks her at times and is mean to her she is only 1. I am trying and I love him but my children (16 and 11) don't treat him like that. She won't speak or interact with me but she will ask me for things. Any advice?

2006-12-29 02:41:13 · 4 answers · asked by Marcella D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so about 5 months ago i met a guy through a mutual friend. Well we got to talking and hanging out, watching movies, from time to time. He calls and makes me laugh. I like him but at the same time i dont want to let myself get too close to him. Before we met i just got out of a 7 year relationship that ended b/c of emtional abuse. I am holding on to the past? i just dont want to get hurt again or give anyone the chance to do so! Should i give in?

2006-12-29 02:40:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.k there is this guy that I like.. we have gone out 2 times in very casula situations..one starbucks the other one a bar...the third time I texted him and he asked me to go over to his apt. we didn't fo anything (because I didn't want to) but still did some very hot kissing...he left for israel on vacation will not come back until january.. now yesterday O.k this one a little weird...he posted a picture in his myspace with another girl ..she has her arms around his neck and in his caption it says: mmmmmmm yep!
what could that mean...any suggestions!! should i give up?? I mean he has known this girl before me and if she was soo special why did he kiss me...I know they are not together but what's the deal here....any advice?? should I tell him I like him or would that scare him off?? I want this guy for me ...

2006-12-29 02:37:59 · 22 answers · asked by red_klinik 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 02:37:04 · 2 answers · asked by Kelly. 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex best friend used to like my boyfriend and used to try and flirt with him all the time, she put me through hell for months actually before i finally kicked her to the curb. I mean the stuff she did was unbelievable. One time she asked my boyfriend to come out of town with just her and her family to watch a football match without me even knowing!! Thats just one of the many things she did. I must admit karma did come back to haunt her- she was losing her friends, started to get called names because she had a boyfriend that she cheated on at a party in front of him and everyone etc. Anyway i started feelin sorry for her and i thought it would be a good thing for us to mend our friendship. Hmm do u think im forgiving or just plain stupid? Im beginning to think that it was a bad idea as i do tend to think about the past and how much she hurt me which makes me say to myself 'What the f#%@ was i thinking letting her back into my life?!'

2006-12-29 02:36:45 · 21 answers · asked by tu_sweet189 3 in Friends

nowadays it seems as if it is a fashion in hollywood to divorce partners. Most of the hollywood's famous actors/ actresses don't let their marriage be successful for even months. Is it some kind of fad? Or do they think it is cool? Well I don't think so. I mean what about all the love stuff that is shown in the movies they act. Like love at first site, love forever, dyeing for love. Don't you feel it is an ironic situation? I mean what they do in their life doesn't completely go with the content of their movies. Is it that normal people enjoy these gossips? becoz I don't. What do you think is it completely ok?

2006-12-29 02:36:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im in jamaica and i want to send a friend in miami so flowers, chocolate and a card, how do i to that where online can i find a store that offer these kind of service

2006-12-29 02:36:15 · 3 answers · asked by yard kid 1 in Friends

such as stupid, silly, b**tch....what is wrong with some men??

2006-12-29 02:35:54 · 9 answers · asked by Naomi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My Husband and i have been married for 5 months, and I think he is cheating on me . Hes just diffrent towards me. I know about the newly wed thing but its like it bothers him to be around me.

2006-12-29 02:35:34 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs.Beckford 5 in Marriage & Divorce

The necklace i'm planning to get her has a golden flower on it. is it appropriate or should i get her something else?

2006-12-29 02:34:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your opinion on this and why is it still not accepted by so many?

2006-12-29 02:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by Galbi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to a friend, and she said that she heard some guys at work talking about how the shape of a woman's lips determine the shape of the lips down south.....who believes this?.....let me hear your views on this...i'm a woman and i have also heard this to be true.

2006-12-29 02:34:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Age old question I know, but what do people really think?

2006-12-29 02:34:23 · 35 answers · asked by Velma 2 in Singles & Dating

it's been sometime, probably has something to do with the fact i don't mingle with the opposite sex, but when it does come my way it's now got the point where i would rather have a cup of tea!

Whats a girl to do...Ann Summers account is still active!

2006-12-29 02:34:04 · 20 answers · asked by untanuta 5 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a college professor from my University. He is 54 years old and married for 30 years. He is white and I am black. It started one day when we had to choose someone to speak to our class for career day and I got him to come in because he is a college professor, an attorney, and a judge. Upon interviewing him in his office things got kind of intimate between us. Not kissing just a profound emotional attachment. Each time I went to his office afterward he would stop who he was talking to just to talk to me. He would even peak through my classroom door at me and stare. On the day for him to come to speak to my class he stared at me most of the class while giving his lecture. The class professor noticed and mentioned to him that she teaches a class at night with his wife. His expression changed to sadness. Shortly after I placed a letter under his office door & told him I am in love with him but because of his marriage and career obligation that I would love him from afar.

2006-12-29 02:33:56 · 4 answers · asked by starsmoonis 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the deal. We got married about 6 mos ago. He has yet to tell me he loves me. Yes he did say it before we were married. He likes to be the one in charge of everything. (he is a lot older than I am). The only people in the household that he is affectionate with are his two oldest children. (not in a sick sort of way) (we have a son who is 2). I am begining to be resentful and jealous of the oldest children. Which isn't even their fault I know. They are just children (ages 11 & 15) . Just because he is older than I am should not mean that he treats me like a child, and be the one in charge. I want to get a life with or without him. I am only 30. Do I really have to settle for this the rest of my life??? I have a hard time communicating with him about things that are important to me cause he always has some excuse. I would love to hear him say that he loves me at least once a wk or even month. I keep thinking if I die would he even bat an eye???? HELP

2006-12-29 02:33:50 · 9 answers · asked by Glo B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Really...hmmm...isn't there more you could do for your spouse, that you are not doing because it takes away from "your" time...and is just something you don't want to do?
For me it's laundry! Yep, I try to do better next year...no no I mean starting now :-).

2006-12-29 02:33:36 · 10 answers · asked by BowtiePasta 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean I already let go of him and he's so happy about it. Is he still affected? because somehow he knew that I lied to him about resigning my job. Is it possible that he still cares for me? But he starts saying bad words to me. Oh! how I would love to hate him but I can't. I don't want my incoming year to be filled with so much bitterness and everything! Please help.....

2006-12-29 02:32:51 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Name :- Saibanna
Date of Birth :- 21/12/1977

2006-12-29 02:32:26 · 8 answers · asked by gescomsai s 1 in Singles & Dating

SO, WHAT WOULD I DO.....CAN SOMEONE ANSWER ME WITH RESPECT??? CAN YOU??? WITHOUT ANY JOKES.....SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-29 02:31:39 · 13 answers · asked by missybuzzy 1 in Friends

2006-12-29 02:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by oldchap 1 in Singles & Dating

Discoverd wife was cheating on me me with married man who works in law enforcement and begins to claim she is afraid of you. Files bogus restraining orders and calls police for non-police issues, refuses to discuss situation only claiming he is just a friend.Tried to work things out appears wife is caught up in relationship, courts forced me from my home and daughter.

2006-12-29 02:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by gipdeezal32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently meeting a person online. We have talked over the phone a few times and at the beginning he was the one who called. Then he started getting too busy apparently so now he doesnt call at all, the last time he did was 2 weeks ago. So I dont know what should I think...Im very interested in meeting him personally, but first of all he is out of my country and even if we send emails and IM each other the phone conversation is really important to me. What should I tell him about this? What is the best way to tell him what I would like without sounding needy or push him??

2006-12-29 02:29:47 · 7 answers · asked by bloodymary24 4 in Singles & Dating

I found out my fiance sometimes(?) goes to lunch with a female co-worker at a bar and sometimes without other co-workers...should I be a surprised guest for lunch?

2006-12-29 02:29:41 · 23 answers · asked by Rita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I was suffering from an extreme pain across the middle of my back, my husband knew. He suggested I got into bed and got me some painkillers and water. When he got into bed he made it obvious he wanted sex. I just lay there not responding till he turned over and went to sleep. Should I have had to tell him I was not in the mood as I was in pain?

2006-12-29 02:29:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you sleep with Calum Best or Fran Cosgrove. I mean, if life depended on it would you shag the rough Irish man or the dreamy-eyed former model??

2006-12-29 02:28:33 · 20 answers · asked by Kailee 3 in Singles & Dating

because i betry him with another last year

2006-12-29 02:28:15 · 20 answers · asked by nannou 1 in Friends

bad behavior. Men, honestly, dont you think this excuse has been used far too long ? Dont you think that women have fallen for this excuse and forgive their men becauase they actually think men cant control themselves ? I would love to hear what men think about this.

2006-12-29 02:28:08 · 12 answers · asked by JustMe 6 in Singles & Dating