O.k there is this guy that I like.. we have gone out 2 times in very casula situations..one starbucks the other one a bar...the third time I texted him and he asked me to go over to his apt. we didn't fo anything (because I didn't want to) but still did some very hot kissing...he left for israel on vacation will not come back until january.. now yesterday O.k this one a little weird...he posted a picture in his myspace with another girl ..she has her arms around his neck and in his caption it says: mmmmmmm yep!
what could that mean...any suggestions!! should i give up?? I mean he has known this girl before me and if she was soo special why did he kiss me...I know they are not together but what's the deal here....any advice?? should I tell him I like him or would that scare him off?? I want this guy for me ...
2006-12-29 02:37:59 · 22 answers · asked by red_klinik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My suggestion is to just come right out and ask him about his feelings for her and tell him that you like him enough to see him more often when he's home (provided he doesn't say he's now in a relationship with her). See what happens.
2006-12-29 02:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lori E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...first of all, relax. You two aren't together, right? So what's the problem? He's dating and making out and enjoying it - big deal. If you want an exclusive relationship with him, wait until he gets back and ask him out and let it go from there. The best way to be sure you don't get him is to come off as a jealous fool before there's any kind of a commitment. Good luck.
2006-12-29 10:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by eschampion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd post a message on his page that says something like, "Hey, who is the nice girl in the photo with her arms around your neck?" And put a smiley face.
Then wait and see how he responds.
I would NOT show too much emotion about it one way or another. If he fully explains and is concerned about you asking, then he probably likes you and cares what you think about him. If he doesn't respond or you do not particularly care for his response, then ~drop~ the relationship and forget about him before you invest yourself any further. (wink)
2006-12-29 10:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just showing off to everyone who views his myspace... wey hey look at me I've got a pretty girl round me routine. He may also be trying to make you a little jealous so that you will want him more when he gets back. You know that they're not together tho so there's nothing to worry about. Play it cool.
2006-12-29 10:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Robin the Electrocuted 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now my question is did you find his myspace on your own or did he tell you he had one. Only reason why is this is probably just a friend. Tell him you like him. Don't be jealous and too judgemental without knowing.
2006-12-29 10:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he's playing you. I would write him off as a lost cause and move on. There is someone out there for you that will want you and no others.
2006-12-29 10:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Photochic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he post he pic, the day after he saw you?Even if he did it may mean more to you than it does him, the pic posting that is. Act as if you never saw the pic and see what develops.
2006-12-29 10:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by bess_kept_secrets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...I would just casually mention the picture. See where things lead. Sounds to me like he's leading you on though. Be prepared.
2006-12-29 10:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lynda M ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are jerks and will go with anybody who will have a physical relationship. u have to let him know how u feel but dont sound too weak, BE STRONG!
2006-12-29 10:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Alysa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like what he is doing is dating, having fun with different people, which is what he should do, until he makes a commitment to be exclusive with one person,,,,,,,, you also should be doing the same,,,,,, i suggest when he returns, if your interested and he is also,, date more,, then you can decide if you want a serious relationship
2006-12-29 10:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by dlin333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋