Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

What would you do if:
a) you wanted to go out with your friends and your boyfriend didn't want to go out but you wanted him to come along?
b) you wanted to go out with your boyfriend but he didn't feel like going out?

I seem to have trouble with my bf regarding going out. He's 24yrs and i'm 25yrs old. I have a great circle of friends & he doesn't. He seems to have a issue going out with me and my friends. My friends think he's wonderful and they do like him. We've been dating for 1 year. I've known some of my friends for 10yrs +. I enjoy spending time with my friends & would like to partner to join in with me.

Why can we not go out as a couple without having to argue about it?

I've met some of his friends once but he feels that we always end up doing what my friends wanna do - but yet i have never really met his friends. Never has he said "lets go out with my friends". I'd love to meet his friends but i don't think he has many.

I would just like some advice!

2006-12-29 02:55:17 · 3 answers · asked by angelface 1 in Singles & Dating

Should i do the honorable thing and marry her?
or any advise please

2006-12-29 02:54:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-29 02:54:42 · 11 answers · asked by Misty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this love?

I guess I just dont know what love feels like....In past relationships I assumed that jealousy was love. I was jealous and scared that my bf was going to leave so "I loved him" I cared for him. Now I have no need to be jealous and I dont know if it is love or not.

Attraction - Sex more than 5 times a week?
Respect for one another
Commitment - Both committed to one another.
Comfort - I am very comfortable when I am around him. He makes me feel safe
Us time - I aswell as him enjoy spending time alone. We are going away for 3 nights for New Years tomorrow :)
Humour - He makes me laugh constantly

Is this love?

The only downfall is that I analyze everything about him cause I am having my doubts about what love feels like...I know it is different for everyone but is this worth holding on 2?

I dont want anyone else ever touching me. I am the type of person than can be happy w/out anyone in my life so I cant say that I woudnt be happy if i didnt have him.

2006-12-29 02:53:36 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, we are online couples for nearly 2 years now, we're going to meet for the first time in our lives in a 10 days. I am going to meet her at the airport with her mom, I have so many plans to go meet her for the first time, but I dont know what would be the best, could anyone give me some nice romantic sweet ways to welcome her n tell her, "its me, your love"

may be withsome flowers? or some gifts? just plain hugs? um.. we are super close, n we share a good understanding. so could any one suggest any ideas?

2006-12-29 02:52:31 · 14 answers · asked by Darlie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 02:51:16 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes its hard to recognize the difference

2006-12-29 02:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband works in Calif. Yes, I've mentioned this before. He wasn't coming home but for 6 days a week, and now he has chosen to get his RN at a college up there. We initally agreed to try this long distance thing for a year...and it looks like it will be turning into 2 extra years now b/c of school. The distance was putting a strain on our relationship before school and now he will not be able to come home but between school breaks which is every 3 months! I'm not moving there b/c housing is outrageous and that was never our intention. We have no kids. He is 33 and I am 34. Not to mention having a family has been put on hold for years already for one excuse or another.........and now he says we can't have a family until after he graduates. Just wondering if I should ask him not to go to school and come home. ? I would feel terrible doing that.....and not sure if he would anyway. Any helpful advice out there?

2006-12-29 02:49:40 · 20 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that i see at work. The problem is i've developed feelings for him even though he has a gf. I told him about it and suggested that it's best that we stop talking at all until i get over my feelings for him. We've stopped talking for a couple of days, but i miss him. Do you think he know i was going to end up missing him? Does he really want me to get over him?

2006-12-29 02:49:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 02:49:30 · 30 answers · asked by molldeerogers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is divorced from my mum but my auntie who is my mums sister still thinks that my dad is her kids uncle. I dont think he is but i cant find out so that is why i am asking

2006-12-29 02:48:57 · 24 answers · asked by emz<3dean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, what does it mean, if I start talking to a woman, and she suddenly starts playing with her hair?

This one lady here at work, I don’t see her very often but few occasion when we chat, she will start twirling her hair, is this a good or bad sign ? lol.

2006-12-29 02:48:49 · 27 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been seperated from My daughters father for about 2 and half years now...We were together for 4 years before that. When I left he said that he wanted to work on things, I told him I needed time to find myself. I moved my daughter and I to Arizona (he lives in California) the time has come for me to move back to California, and now He wants to get back together. He just got out a relationship with another girl who he had another kid with. Things were really bad when I left, and stayed that way after I left. Him and I constantly Fought. I have a feeling that he might only want to come back so he doesn't have to pay child support. He had not paid Child Support in over a year. and He knows that when I get back to California that I plan fight for it on a regular bases...but then he does things...He calls, at like 12 midnight knowning I am alone and need someone to talk to. So Should I give things another chance with him?

2006-12-29 02:48:42 · 7 answers · asked by harmycj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 02:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Preferably around Birmingham and inside... and not to far from the m5/m6. he has an amazing ability to stay awaken long journeys!

2006-12-29 02:47:23 · 2 answers · asked by Doris 2 in Family

I recently broke up with my ex-boyfriend right after thanksgiving. we still exchanging gifts and everything for christmas because he went out of town. We'ev been hangin out together lately me, him his best friend and my best friend and it's werid that he treats me better as a friend . it like how can we have this connection as friend but as boyfriend and girlfriend there's nothing there? I mean he wasn't even my type its just that we had been friends for so long and he kept asking me to be his girlfriend so when i finally did. he acted like it wasn't a big deal. It's not i mistreat him or anything because i did more for him than i did for any of my other boyfriends because i didn't want to hurt him.Even through we only went out for 2 months. when he came to visit me at school i paid for the hotel rooom. i know i broke up with him but still. It ekes my nerves. Its just like what is wrong with him? or is it me?

2006-12-29 02:47:21 · 7 answers · asked by Chiquinn W 2 in Singles & Dating

The worst is that when I i.m. him on yahoo messenger today,he says that he forgets my name and who i am and it's so heart breaking.Why I am so upset right now.But last time when we were in high scools we are not so close. What should I do now to catch his heart and attention?

2006-12-29 02:46:53 · 2 answers · asked by unhealty teenager 1 in Singles & Dating

We were married after a short love story.
My ex and I are of different nationalities.
Our love and attraction continued for almost 26 years, then she started seeking a way to imigrate to USA with no luck. She is now in a different country after our sudden and ubrupt divorce.
I never cheated on my wife, and she well new that.
Until recently I had no reason to suspect her either.

2006-12-29 02:46:46 · 25 answers · asked by Philip76LostLove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my friends is extra clinging and totally annoying. It just seems like i'm the only one she every hangs out with and whenever i try to make plans with someone else she pitys her way into being with me. I don't want everyone to think that she's the top on my list and i deninately don't want people to have the impression that she's my only priority. I just don't know what to do without breaking her heart. I want to get rid of her, but how?

2006-12-29 02:46:22 · 5 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Friends

For me and my ex to be together again for somehow? Because we're really not in good terms when we broke up.... The thing is I still longed for him to come back 'til I can. I know he needs time to think about what he really want in life, as in right now.... I want him to enjoy his life now without me. If he loves to be with someone else, then go.... I won't hinder him... By that time he would know what he really want...to be with her or with me....

2006-12-29 02:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Should i give up ????

I won't miss the questions but i will miss some great people i have met on here!

2006-12-29 02:45:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How many weeks or months should I wait before having sex with this new guy I am seeing?

2006-12-29 02:45:27 · 13 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Singles & Dating

In the last couple of days we've started discussing in rather alot of detail how we get turned on and how we like sex. I'm attracted to him, do you think he's attracted to me or is he just being a man (enjoying the sex talk). Serious male opinions would be appreciated, Thankyou.

2006-12-29 02:45:16 · 17 answers · asked by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 in Singles & Dating

I heard this guy that I work with wants to ask me out. He is nice , but he doesn't really say much to me at work. We don't talk outside of work either. How do I tell him I'm not interested in a nice way?

2006-12-29 02:44:50 · 3 answers · asked by Lucky13 3 in Singles & Dating

If you really Love someone, but are in 2 different places... should you go back and try to get him back? I've been in Love with this guy for 2 years... and haven't seen him in 2 years. We went to middle school together... and we are now high school sophomores. I really care about him, and I can't let him go for nothing or nobody! All I do is think about him. Hes the best person in the world. But alot of people say I should forget about the past! I write him letters every now and then. He Loves me too... its just so hard being away from this guy! I'd do anything for my baby! Should I try to get him back, after high school is over! PLEASE HELP! I need advice. We belong together, and thats real talk!

2006-12-29 02:44:37 · 11 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Singles & Dating

OK grandpa married my grand ma when he was 19
and she was 13. He was in the army in W W 11
and that was normal , Today if a man was to marry
a girl that young he would be put in jail and stoned to death
so how was it OK then but kill stat now ???

2006-12-29 02:43:37 · 7 answers · asked by big bird 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife wanted a divorce even though I didn't really want one. We don't have any kids so after the divorce we went our seperate ways. She is in a new relationship and I date casually. I have no hard feelings even though I didn't want the divorce. We hardly ever see each other but when we do she is really bitchy. She wasn't even this bad when we were married. It's like she hates me even more now. What do you think her problem is?

2006-12-29 02:43:35 · 29 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 02:43:03 · 8 answers · asked by subha 1 in Singles & Dating

You see, i just moved, but i cannot stop thinking about this guy that i absolutely fell in love with. I think he loves me, but how can i be sure if he's that special one?

2006-12-29 02:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 02:42:30 · 13 answers · asked by Femi 2 in Singles & Dating