If you really Love someone, but are in 2 different places... should you go back and try to get him back? I've been in Love with this guy for 2 years... and haven't seen him in 2 years. We went to middle school together... and we are now high school sophomores. I really care about him, and I can't let him go for nothing or nobody! All I do is think about him. Hes the best person in the world. But alot of people say I should forget about the past! I write him letters every now and then. He Loves me too... its just so hard being away from this guy! I'd do anything for my baby! Should I try to get him back, after high school is over! PLEASE HELP! I need advice. We belong together, and thats real talk!
2006-12-29 02:44:37 · 11 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're always where you're supposed to be.
2006-12-29 02:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by iblockidiots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point in your life, I would say no. This is a critical point in your life -- you need to figure out who you are, what you want in life, and how you're going to go about achieving your personal goals. Right now you need to be focusing on college or other post-high school education. Don't let some guy that you knew in middle school (no matter HOW great he was) get in the way of your personal goals and aspirations. If it is meant to be, then it will work out; but I certainly wouldn't count on it. People change a LOT during their teen years, and chances are, he's probably not the same guy you knew back then anyways.
2006-12-29 02:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I advise you to continue to write this guy and communicate with him as your doing. You state that this is real talk and that you love your baby and he loves you too. It's been 2 yrs since you've seen him. Let me ask you this in those 2 yrs do you think that he hasn't had a girlfriend? Do you not think that he hasn't moved on? I believe that this guy is pulling your strings and telling you want every girl wants to hear.
Stay put continue in school doing well as I am sure your doing. Two years is a long time for someone not to be involved with someone else and haven't moved on with life. I suggest and advise you to move on with your life.
After highschool this guy will more than likely been gone on with someone else and with his life. You truly need to let the past go so that you can focus on your own life and the present time.
I'm sure this isn't what you wanted to read/hear but it's true.. Come on think about this you are't so young that you can't understand this.
You write him every now and then, you haven't seen him in 2 yrs I know you couldnt possibly think that he is just sitting there with cobwebs waiting on you .. do you?
Move on, move on and move along is what I advise you to do. There are other guys out here that are probadly interested in you and your stuck in something of the past.. Trust me you can't turn back the hands of time and you can't change the past. What you can do is live for the now.. Get your mind off this guy he isn't sitting there waiting and you know that.
Good luck
ps
Forget the past it's over and your a sophomore now by the time you graduate high school you know or should know this guy is with someone else not even thinking about you. So why are you wasting your time & energy?
2006-12-29 03:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just stay in touch AS FRIENDS in order to keep the communication rolling and then wait and see what happens down the road. As the two of you grow and mature, your interests may change and you may discover that you don't feel the same way about one another. On the other hand, you may be delighted to discover there is still an attraction.
Right now, you are too young to set your future in concrete anyhow.
Simply keep in touch so that it will not be strange to approach him one day later, when the timing is better. Maybe a friendly Christmas card and birthday card with an occassional school photo - but no pouring your guts out. :-)
2006-12-29 02:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you guys. Talk to him about it. Write him a nice long letter and tell him what you're telling us. Ask him if he thinks this could work becuase he's your world and you can't stand not being wiht him. My best friends bf lives 4 hours away and they work out just fine. You guys are at an age where either of you can get liscenses and then things will get even easier if you can drive to see eachother. Go for it! Don't miss out because of distance!
2006-12-29 02:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel gurl from the way u write about it ,it seems that u like jim alot and that u need him so go for it dont hold back but u better get him befor someone else dose
2006-12-29 02:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can get through college feeling the same way you have a chance.
2006-12-29 02:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to all. Congratulations to you both! And have a Happy New Year.
2006-12-29 02:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has the same feeling about you go for it , and besides its a very good opportunity to know ur man, if he still loves then hes a real man if not then move on
2006-12-29 02:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go visit him over break sometime and just hang out.
2006-12-29 02:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by thinkGREEN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋