For me and my ex to be together again for somehow? Because we're really not in good terms when we broke up.... The thing is I still longed for him to come back 'til I can. I know he needs time to think about what he really want in life, as in right now.... I want him to enjoy his life now without me. If he loves to be with someone else, then go.... I won't hinder him... By that time he would know what he really want...to be with her or with me....
2006-12-29 02:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, you are just testing your love strength. like you said, let see how it goes. if it meant to be, it meant to be. good for you.
2006-12-29 02:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this guy is playing you for a fool ,,,, you don't need this crap ,,,, You haven't really got a relationship with him ,,,,, If he felt about you the way he should then he'd be bending over backwards to make you feel special and showing you how much he cares for you ,,,,, Not just taking time to think about it while he's with other people ,,,, Wake up and smell the coffee and read the writing on the wall ,,,,, A relationship should be fun and exciting ,,,, not what you have with this guy ,,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond so to speak ,,,,,You shouldn't be sitting at home putting your life on hold waiting for him and doing nothing and seeing no one while you wait for him to make up is mind ,,,, Think about it ,,,,, Just how faithful do you think he's being while you are waiting ? ,,,, It's past time to move on ,,,, Go fishing and find someone that is fun and exciting to be with ,,,, all you have to do is find one ,,,,, They are out there and they come trouble and problem free besides ,,,,, Don't let this guy think he can do this to you or hurt you anymore ,,,, He's not worth it ,,,,, If he does it now then more than likely he'll do it again ,,, and then again ,,,, He's blown it with you ,,,, He's wasted his time where you are concerned and he deserves what he gets ,,,,,He can't have his cake and eat it too ,,,, Tell him to take a long walk off of a short pier and stick to your guns ,,,, Don't let him talk you out of or into anything no matter what he says or does ,,,, Guys are good actors too you know ,,,,, Up to and including tears ,,,,, He's made a mistake with you ,,,,, You should feel that he has and he should have to know it and learn to live with it ,,,,,, He could consider it a lesson learned for future reference I guess ,,,, The important person in this situation isn't him ,,,, It's you ,,,, He should have to learn that at his own expense not yours ,,,,, I hope this advise helps to clear your head a little and put you on the right track ,,,,,, Good luck and stick to your guns ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2006-12-29 11:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whenever there is a break of any sort, you always hope for chances. People will say that they want their ex to be happy and to experience life without you hoping that there is void that they will need when you are not in their life. We hope that the void is us. The main thing to worry about is knowing that you are happy. If you want someone in your life and hope that there is a chance, do not sit back and them see how life is without you. Tell them that you want them in your life and let them make that choice if either want you or not. Is there a chance? There is always a chance, but there is a better chance when you work out your differences and not take it to a breaking up stage. I hope you end up happy and make sure you worry about yourself and not your ex.
2006-12-29 10:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerboy_74 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow....he might just find love some where else but, you know what they say...if you let love go and it comes back to you then it was meant to be, if not then it was never meant for you.
Good luck.
I left my boyfriend about 3 years ago and that was one of the reasons...now I love someone else and I'm sure he does too! I don't talk to him but, I wanted him to be happy, even if it was not with me.
2006-12-29 10:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jeez, you're on your way to a grieving and stark journey that will never end and leave you broken down and despondent. Ain't such a thing as a second chance for bygones, young lady. It will only bring about your first sour wrinkles, nothing more. I know it from a man's standpoint.
2006-12-29 10:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fatima, I've been in love a few times and it was never a question who I wanted to be with. It never took thinking over for me. I can't answer your question, but I can just tell you how it is for me. Love has always been obvious.
2006-12-29 10:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by iblockidiots 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doubtful.
2006-12-29 10:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysdreaming 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relationships never work out the 2nd time....... happens to 3 of my friends and me
2006-12-29 10:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u love someone u r willing to let them be happy even if cant be wit them
2006-12-29 10:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he´ll come back to you if he wants you still! Give him some time.
2006-12-29 10:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋