I recently broke up with my ex-boyfriend right after thanksgiving. we still exchanging gifts and everything for christmas because he went out of town. We'ev been hangin out together lately me, him his best friend and my best friend and it's werid that he treats me better as a friend . it like how can we have this connection as friend but as boyfriend and girlfriend there's nothing there? I mean he wasn't even my type its just that we had been friends for so long and he kept asking me to be his girlfriend so when i finally did. he acted like it wasn't a big deal. It's not i mistreat him or anything because i did more for him than i did for any of my other boyfriends because i didn't want to hurt him.Even through we only went out for 2 months. when he came to visit me at school i paid for the hotel rooom. i know i broke up with him but still. It ekes my nerves. Its just like what is wrong with him? or is it me?
2006-12-29 02:47:21 · 7 answers · asked by Chiquinn W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he tricked you...as a friend, he was on his best behavior and as the BF he became his authentic self.
2006-12-29 02:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was taking you for granted, didn't appreciate you when were his girlfriend. He is treating you better as a friend because maybe he wants you back. This is similar to when married women complain their husbands treated them better when they were dating by being more romantic, buying gifts etc. Once you get what you want it you begin to take it granted. That is how lot of guys treat women, As soon as some men get the woman they want to be either their girlfriend or their wife, they take her granted.
2006-12-29 03:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needed the reassurance that you loved him. Don't do this to yourself or to him. Is disrespect and I know you don't mean it to be at all. You are hurting yourself by staying with him. Let him go. You and he will be relieved. Been there done that. Sorry to say. Happy New Year. And to a new beginning for you both.
2006-12-29 02:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going through the same exact thing... so I know where you coming from. Its strange, but I just had to let him go. I still kind of miss him, but I wasn't being treated the way I needed to be! Its NOT you... it just didn't work out.
2006-12-29 02:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its because he cant live without you......when he hasn't got you, he craves for you...he wants you back but then when he has you he knows he safe because he's got you back so he doesn't try as hard.
Love for someone isn't being able to put up with them but not being able to live without them
i recon you should give it another shot...it worked for me :)
2006-12-29 02:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by emz<3dean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now he doesnt feel the need to impress you to get you to like him...
2006-12-29 02:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe this relationship is just a friend relationship and it shouldn't bother you, that you guys remained friends.
2006-12-29 02:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by toophatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋