SO, WHAT WOULD I DO.....CAN SOMEONE ANSWER ME WITH RESPECT??? CAN YOU??? WITHOUT ANY JOKES.....SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-29 02:31:39 · 13 answers · asked by missybuzzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can't.
2006-12-29 02:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by rocky9281 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I don't really understand you question because you aren't giving enough details regarding the reason you can't live if your mother has another man.
For whatever reason your mother has another man this shouldn't stop you from living. And there isn't anything you can do to stop her from having a man in her life. If she is still married to your father then maybe you should talk to her about this and let her know how you feel that it's wrong.
If your mother and father are no longer together why can't she have a man in her life. For your mother to have a man in her life doesn't take away from you being her daughter. You see you and your mother have a special bond that NO MAN can replace and you know that she wouldn't do that anyway.
You LIVE !! It's not healthy for your mother to not have someone in her life that is an adult. It sounds as though you think that she will forget about you and that isn't true.
Give this some time meanwhile talk to your mother about your feelings and please don't do something crazy. Your mother loves you and you should know that!
Sometimes adults need adult conversation and companionship that children can't give them. And even though their children do it's a little different.
I hope that this helps you but honestly the only thing that will help you is just simply talking to your mother. Everything will be just fine you'll see. Remember YOU LIVE!! Your going to grow up one day and have yourself a man and I know that you don't want your mother sitting on the side lonely she is still human.
Good luck
ps LIVE!
2006-12-29 10:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't stated whether your Mom is still married? If not, you need to understand she has a life just like everyone else and she is entitled to live that life with whom she chooses. As long as her children are taken care of and there is no abuse of any kind and if the man is good to her and her family, then you should accept things as they are. Remember, some day you are going to have someone in your life and you will want that experience to be wonderful. Chances are there will be those that disagree with your decision, but that is after all, what life is all about. Good luck.
2006-12-29 10:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Rocko Barbella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how to answer you, is your Mom cheating on your Dad, or she is just dating. If she is seeing someone else behind your back just leave that between your mother and your father. You can let your mother know what you suspect (you could be wrong) but do not go to your Dad with this information. This is something they need to work out and you need to stay out.
2006-12-29 10:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know what I would do. However, I think it's important to remember that your mother is a human being with human desires. No-one could know what goes on in a relationship except the two that are in it. This is between your mother and your father. If it's bothering you, talk to your mother about it and see if you can listen to her as a friend.
2006-12-29 10:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by hotgramma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you mean your mother is cheating on her husband, your father.
Why can't you live? Without making clear what is actually happening, a real answer isn't possible.
2006-12-29 10:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is doing this to hurt you. That is her life, all you can do is let her know you know and how it makes you feel. You have your own life to lead and you should take this experience to help you make decisions in your own relationships. Be strong and be your own person.
2006-12-29 10:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure I understand what you are saying. Is she cheating on your dad? Well there are worst things that can happen. It is not worth dying over. Is there a relative you can talk to? Find a counselor in your area.
2006-12-29 10:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by s_k_wilson1990 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, why are you making this your problem? It is not your problem. Chances are that your mother's husband already knows. Would you want your mom in your business? Let her live her life and get on with yours.
2006-12-29 10:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you implying that your mother is cheating on your dad? I would tell mom to end the relationship or you are going to spill the beans.
2006-12-29 10:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother had other men. But I learned why as I got older. if you want to discuss it, send me an e-mail, not something I want to post out here.
2006-12-29 10:34:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋