Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

2006-12-29 03:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by sekcbabe2000 1 in Family

So I've hung out with this guy on several occassions, both alone and with his friends. He is not afraid to show affection towards me when he is around his friends, but I am also worried that he may only want sex. About the fourth time we hung out he fingered me but before he went for it he said "if you dont want me to, i wont." However, he is also very hard to read and when I text him he's not very good at keeping the conversation going. This could be due to the fact that he hasn't been in any kind of relationship or dating or anything for two years and he is certainly no player. I'm just confused because he seemed incredibly shy but now he's just going for it. We haven't really discussed anything on a seriously emotional level, but it just feels "right" when we are together and, according to his friends, he always enjoys hanging out with me. It just seems like he's moving fast. Does it seem like he's being sincere, or does he just want to get laid?

2006-12-29 03:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by laxgirl33 1 in Singles & Dating

DATE OF BITH IS 16/12/1983
MY PLACE OF BIRTH IS New Delhi INDIA
TIME OF BIRTH IS 1.40 AM

2006-12-29 03:45:45 · 28 answers · asked by Mmeghha S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it worth it? 70% of north americans end up getting a divorce anyways, child support and alimony is the true meaning of hell.

so why are people still getting married?

my advice is if u want to get married, dont do it in North America! ;)

2006-12-29 03:45:44 · 25 answers · asked by Just a Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a crush on this girl and i told her my feelings b4. She said she liked me b4 but not at that time.Since then, we've been really close. And in few days time she is leaving. I have told her that i hope we could meet up before she leaves.Due to the christmas season, she said she was bz and she will call me back. But now, i have not received anything. And she still knows i like her but she is hurting me indirectly with her nicknames.What do i do???

2006-12-29 03:44:36 · 15 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted a previous ? on this guy that I liked (Should I state my feeling to him...?)...and well, I talked to him, yet he hasn't given me an answer. The New Year is coming and I would like to end this once and for all. So what I'm asking is: Should I give him an Ultimatum about "us" or use another way to get him to talk?

2006-12-29 03:43:21 · 18 answers · asked by keyonnaw5 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-29 03:42:48 · 8 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met someone through a mutual friend who lives out of state. We have been talking on and off for about six months, and have gotten closer in the past 2 weeks. The reason we were just friends before was because we were both in relationships at that time. I have become single and he says he has too. I requested he send me some more pictures of him because he hadn't in awhile and he directed me to a web page that I didn't know about and told me that I could find more pictures there. I went to the page and saw that the woman he was with for four years (who so happens to live in the same area as me, which isnt where he lives- but he used to live here) had recently posted a message to him about not being able to wait to see him at X-mas time. We didnt talk for about a month before we got in touch the last few weeks and I didnt ask much about his break up. Should I confront him on this? I don't want to sound like a jealous g/f already, but I don't want to be a fool either.

2006-12-29 03:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

At 1am this morning (90 mins ago) my daughter phoned me from the other side of the world and told me that she was beaten up last night by her ex partner. Their 23 month old child was present and my daughter suffered the abuse silently so as not to alarm my grandson. The police were called, she has just been to hospital and the case will go to court. His bail conditions forbid him to contact my daughter.
I am absolutely devastated. She has asked me not to tell her older brother or father who live in the UK near her as she fears that any repurcussions will impact on her, she wants to persue this through the proper channels in court.
She had not been living with her ex for many months but had maintained a reasonable relationship for the sake of their child.
My daughter is the most gentle and kind person you could meet.
I want to protect her and comfort her. I also want to see this nasty, horrible man suffer in some way for causing so much pain without resorting to violence.

2006-12-29 03:41:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She has significnt short term memory loss. However, she refuses to be honest with her doctor and she exagerrates her nobility in all areas of life. She makes people dislike her family because she brags about us shamelessly. We're ok, but just plain human. Any suggestions for coping...I want her remaining years to be good for her, but I don't want to sacrifice mine (I'm in remission from cancer). Also, distance is an issue because she lives in my backyard.

2006-12-29 03:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by teetzijo 3 in Family

n the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing. Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.....

2006-12-29 03:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by broken_aarrow77 2 in Singles & Dating

for high school sweethearts / 1st loves to get back together later on in life? let's say 5 to 10 years later? despite the changes they have been through?

2006-12-29 03:39:16 · 21 answers · asked by do it movin' 1 in Singles & Dating

doesnt saying that youre cheating imply that youre playing a game of sorts? do we always have to controll the ones we love most?

2006-12-29 03:38:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I tell my husband that he is not romantic he says the same about me, so what can I do that will be romantic to him?

2006-12-29 03:38:19 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Lady L ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Our last name is Stone, if we have a baby boy... I want his first name to be Miles. Her rule was that we can't know anyone with the name... and we don't know a Miles. However, she doesn't like the name because when you put the first and last together it creates the word Milestone. I didn't intend on picking a name that created a word, but I really like the name. What can I do to convince her? Does anyone else think my choice is a good one?

2006-12-29 03:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by josey s 2 in Family

My question goes to every single person out there, so how long have you been single ? Do you like it that way or you just seems like not to find a fit girlfriend, boyfriend, gay for you?

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2006-12-29 03:37:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl when I received a message on my myspace account saying it seemed like I was everything she was looking for in a man based on my profile. A few days later we exchanged numbers and met at a park. It was like love at first sight. She was as beautiful outside as she had proved to be inside. I found myself missing her as we turned opposite ways out of the parking lot and the next day seemed too far away to see her again. We seen eachother almost everyday for about 2 weeks and then we went to a party together. It was that night dancing under the stars that I knew and I told her I loved her. It has been 5 months now and the wedding is planned for 5-31-2008 . What do you think will it last?

2006-12-29 03:37:20 · 7 answers · asked by mdsmith9372 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 03:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I been with my man for over 5 years and we have a 2 year old son, I have gained about 50 pounds since we both meet. I was a cute little 148 and now I'm hudge ( 197 to be exacly ) and my hubby he doesnt really care because he loves me and that great and all but he has such a nice physic and hes in great shape ( he works in contrution ) and he still look anwsome. I work behind a desk all day and then have to come home to my son and his father and do all the cleaning, cook, and teach my son words ( he as a speach delay ) so I have no time to work.

MY PROBLOME, is that I feel so fat that I hate having sex with my hubby. I just do....I feel like he thinks I'm so fat, and he doesnt at least he doesnt show it or make me feel insicure. Its all me, I hate it...I wanna lose weight I just dont have the time so how can I make myself stop being so insicure about sleeping with him ??? I need help !!!!

2006-12-29 03:36:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this net friend, he's from Portugal. I've known him for 1 and a half year. We have very different culture and lifestyle and he is very far away from where I am. But somehow, I'm attracted by him (I'm attached to a guy here though). I don't contact him often but when I do, I just feel like getting a little closer each time. I'm sure he doesn't know how I feel towards him as I never showed a thing. I don't understand how I'm attracted by him. I've been with my guy for 4 years and now all a sudden I keep thinking of this Portuguese. I did think of telling him my feelings but I don't wanna scare him away. And somehow I doubt he feels the same and even if so, I doubt it's gonna work. It just sounds so crazy. I've always been rational, and I can't seem to get this straight this time. Do you think I should tell him? Or I should just forget about him?

2006-12-29 03:36:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 03:35:39 · 16 answers · asked by metal up your ass 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I went to Iowa with my dad and I met this incredable guy. But he lives in Iowa and I live in minnesota. We bought cams to take pics of each other. But I miss him so much. He has my e-mail address but that our only way to talk to each other. When my dad goes to Iowa I might go with. But what if we never see each other again? He told me he liked me ALOT and that it's going to suck being so far away from each other. Then I started crying and he sat there holding me with my face in his hands with him hugging me. I just can't get over him. what is there to do to maybe see each other again. And I know what most people is going to say go to Iowa again or have him come to Minnesota. But it's not that simple. we're 14. And if I do go back to Iowa I'm staying at a hotel with my dad. And I don't think his parents are going to pay for a room everytime we're there. HELP ME. I'm not in love with him. I just really like him

2006-12-29 03:34:57 · 12 answers · asked by boy_crazy_girl_in_love 1 in Singles & Dating

This is goign to sound awfull, but i have been a carrer for my mum who has M.S for 12 years, and now i am getting to the point where i cant cope, i have to put load music on my headphones to try and block out her in pain i have been trying to get a carrer in to help my mum still wont ring her up she keeps putting it off, and she always makes me feel like it is my responsbilty all the time, i also have social anexity disorder which makes even harder for me to go out, i am going to be 18 in aprill and i have never had a life of my own. i feel so trapped how do i get out?

2006-12-29 03:34:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here lately I have felt like nothing I do is good enough. I can't get the house clean and keep it clean, laundry keeps multiplying, kids don't listen as well as I would like them too. I just feel like no matter how hard I try, I cant make anyone happy. My parents are always complaining about how I live, husband feels like he doesnt get enough "us" time. Yes, I have gone to the dr and she doesn't feel that I am depressed. She did agree that I was under alot of stress and perscribed me some meds and sent me to therapy. The therapy was a joke. That lady kept asking me ...Well, how do you need to fix this? I told her if I knew how, I wouldnt be there talking to her. She gave me NO advice at all. The meds make me not want to do anything.... Just wondering if anyone else feels like this and what they do to help them get thru it or deal with it..... Thanks..

2006-12-29 03:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by kutskova29 3 in Singles & Dating

We got into an argument last night when I asked him 2 stop drinkin & drive me.I always get stuck driving him around!I met some friends & wanted to hang out & have a few drinks. I simply asked if he would stop drinking, wasnt making him or anything. We ended up in a HUGE fight! He followed me to the bathroom where I was crying & started yelling at me more! I had enough & told him I was leaving. He had a friend there that could bring him home, so I went to my car. He followed me out & said I was "2 drunk 2 drive". I WAS HIS DD TO BEGIN WITH! He pinned me up against my car & slapped me across the face! I was so shocked! He had me there for almost 2 mins & wouldnt let me go! I dont want to be the dumb@$$ that goes back&gets hit again! I never thought anything like this would happen to me!Ive NEVER been hit by a guy! I feel violated, degraded&pissed. Do I speak to him again? Do I leave him? Was this a 1 time thing cause he was drunk?Is he gonna think he can get away with it if I go back?

2006-12-29 03:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by geminiqtpie22 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 03:33:50 · 23 answers · asked by Lena 3 in Family

when my sexual partner and I starts doing foreplay, his eyes water and I dont think its him Crying....Do u think its him being so turned on..like he turns red and his eyes just turn red-ish kinda like he is crying but not...do u think its just him being so horny?

2006-12-29 03:33:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Spouse takes child out of state without perrmission? State of California.

2006-12-29 03:33:12 · 9 answers · asked by coachlinz@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

desk and nothing clutter. any ideas what to put "on top" of a teenage desk top?

2006-12-29 03:33:11 · 6 answers · asked by Kathi T 1 in Family

So my new boyfriend invited me out last night but then canceled on me because he was under the impression that I had my daughter. Rather then tell me the truth that he was not ready to meet her, he lied and made up some excuse. Now please keep in mind I have never mentioned them meeting because I do not feel it is the time to bring my daughter around someone that I have just started seeing and that it took me one hell of time to get a babysitter last night just for him to lie to me and then stop by later on to tell me that he didn't plan on meeting her for at least a year. Now I am only 23 years old and he is 20 so I don't think he's ever dated anyone that has had kids but I still feel really hurt that he would lie to me about something like this and be that apprehensive about meeting my daughter. She's the most important thing in my life and because of his actions I feel that he doesn't see that and accept or respect it. I mean if he wants me in his life he has to understand that she

2006-12-29 03:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by serenity113001 6 in Singles & Dating