Am I thinking too much? Too far?

Question

I have this net friend, he's from Portugal. I've known him for 1 and a half year. We have very different culture and lifestyle and he is very far away from where I am. But somehow, I'm attracted by him (I'm attached to a guy here though). I don't contact him often but when I do, I just feel like getting a little closer each time. I'm sure he doesn't know how I feel towards him as I never showed a thing. I don't understand how I'm attracted by him. I've been with my guy for 4 years and now all a sudden I keep thinking of this Portuguese. I did think of telling him my feelings but I don't wanna scare him away. And somehow I doubt he feels the same and even if so, I doubt it's gonna work. It just sounds so crazy. I've always been rational, and I can't seem to get this straight this time. Do you think I should tell him? Or I should just forget about him?

Answer 1

Are you happy in your relationship right now? if you are, then you should stop thinking about the other guy or you might end up losing both. One would have thoughts of another person if he or she isnt happy with their present situation.