i have a crush on this girl and i told her my feelings b4. She said she liked me b4 but not at that time.Since then, we've been really close. And in few days time she is leaving. I have told her that i hope we could meet up before she leaves.Due to the christmas season, she said she was bz and she will call me back. But now, i have not received anything. And she still knows i like her but she is hurting me indirectly with her nicknames.What do i do???
2006-12-29 03:44:36 · 15 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But after i told her my feelings, a few weeks later, she said she misses me.....
2006-12-29 03:49:27 · update #1
You know? Love is great, just wonderful, but it is also a mistery. what happened is that she "liked you" before, but she didn't love you. May be you love her, but most asuredly I would say you don't, she is pretty and you think you love her. At your age there is a lot of confusion as far as feelings. First of all, sit down, evaluate your feelings, say, for instance, if a prettier girl comes around and flirts with you, how would you feel? She is more sensitive, respectful, loving and caring, and she really shows that she loves you sincerely... Does it feel good? Would that help you to forget this girl? I think so, and if you agree with me, then you don't love her, because LOVE is enduring, if there is something that will make you forget her, then it is not love. When you get to realy love somebody, you would be willing even to give your own life for her.
Love is not the person that is capable of give us pleasure and "happiness." But rather the person you are willing to spend your life and everything you have with her expecting nothing in return... Don't worry, if you commit yourself in making her happy, she will make you happy in return without you asking.
God Bless.
2006-12-29 03:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh, well she's been avoiding you.
trust me, i've been doing the same things too, if i have a problem.
and then the indirect nicknames, and maybe sudden irritations, maybe she suddenly feels your annoying... next thing is that she'll be asking you if her hair is ok, bec. her crush will be coming soon.
(avoiding you...and probably headed to making you feel like crap.[ i know, i've done it, not proud of it])
she might be not ready for the next level, just yet.
my advice is, look for another girl and if when the time comes,both of you are ready...patch it up together.
just wait.
2006-12-29 11:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by me_myself_mwah. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threre are a lot of fish in the sea. Move on I think you know that you just need to hear it.
2006-12-29 11:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Illinois-Lawyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, anyone who means anything would not hurt you this way!
I know this is hard to hear, I have been there!
2006-12-29 11:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, it's going to hurt and I know it sucks, but she doesn't like you and you holding on to that dream any longer is going to make it worse.
2006-12-29 11:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. She seems like she doesn't care about u so find someone else. She's not worth it.
2006-12-29 11:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her.. find some one who will REALLY care about you and takes time for you..
2006-12-29 11:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by thebaddrphil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves u, she stay with u, then if she juz go, meaning she juz treats u like one of the friends next door.
2006-12-29 11:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thus girl needs to give it a brake dump her flat on her face
2006-12-29 11:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by kaycoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some nads, get rid of her and move on....simple as that.
2006-12-29 11:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋