doesnt saying that youre cheating imply that youre playing a game of sorts? do we always have to controll the ones we love most?
2006-12-29 03:38:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes
2006-12-29 03:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by dotcombust007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The main question "Would cheating still be cheating if you didn't lie?" Duh, YES cheating is cheating and at least you can say they are a cheat and not a liar and a cheat.
That kind of game playing is very dangerous.
And the last question about having control over someone? I learned that I have control over no one. Just keeping myself in check is all I can ask. Trying to control another is a losing battle.
Good Luck
2006-12-29 03:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Do we always have to control the ones we love the most?" Dude, if you are contolling, or trying to control someone, that's not love. As for your cheating question. If you are having a relationship with someone and you have committed to another then yes it is cheating. You are cheating the one you committed to and you are cheating yourself. Just because you tell her about it doesn't mean you aren't hurting her. If you are comfortable with hurting her then that isn't love.
2006-12-29 03:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by toff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating even if its for a good thing .. be ur self and treat the others in a good way.. u will find other people will be close to u and love u .. the cheating is a kind of lying so u don't need to control the one who u loved let them love u as ur ..
2006-12-29 04:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rose Bridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is based on lies even if you do not lie, you are still cheating and it is still wrong it just comes with out lies.
cheating is still cheating it doesnt matter how you try to make it sound , there is no way to soften the blow or to ask for permission, its just wrong.
2006-12-29 03:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating, whether you lied about it or not. It doesn't always have to involve games. Unless it was planned with the other person completely agreeing that it was ok ahead of time, it's cheating.
2006-12-29 03:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by redrum42482 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only time it is not cheating, is if she is there with you and a part of it and in total agreement with it.
Being in a great relationship is a hell of a lot better than a piece of strange.
Guys cheat to feed their egos because they have a low self esteem. Don't cheat. It hurts you as bad as it does the woman.
2006-12-29 03:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Xxar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way its not cheating is if you and your mate agree to it PRIOR to it happening. Why you would want that, I have no idea.
Its not a matter of control, its a matter of respecting the relationship. Do unto others. I would not do anything in my relationship that I would not wwant my husband doing. Thats not control, thats respect and comapssion and trust.
2006-12-29 03:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by babygyrl_nyc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A rock is a rock is a rock is a rock. It is still cheating. If you are going to cheat and then tell your significant other, then you might as well break up. Unless they are into swinging in which case, you might both have something to gain.
2006-12-29 03:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jaybo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would not only be cheating but it would be also be disrespected to the other person and I would get reed of you instantly why would you cheat and come and flaunt it in my face?. Think about it! Would you like her to do the same to you???. I don't think so!
Short answere. Wrong question. AKA. BAD QUESTION.
2006-12-29 03:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by norman j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell your partner up front that you are going to go have sex with someone else, and they tell you they don't want you to do it, if you do it anyway then you have cheated.
Cheating is no game...it's cruel and selfish. I don't see it as having anything to do with having control over our partner, but choosing not to control ourselves.
2006-12-29 03:41:26 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋