When I tell my husband that he is not romantic he says the same about me, so what can I do that will be romantic to him?
2006-12-29 03:38:19 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Lady L ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can only speak for myself. I would consider a nice candle lit dinner, watching one of his favorite movies (it makes it even more special if you don't really care for the movie) romantic. Just whatever you do, put your heart into it, and just don't do it because he said thats what he would like, do because you want to and because you want to show your love.
2006-12-29 03:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anointed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to create romance for man to want be romantic and appreciate romance.
May I suggest that you create a romantic setting, and dress sexy, as men are very very visual- Try secretsinlace.com and go to the leg salon and buy maybe some RHT stockings or full fashion stocking or something sexy and then YOU go first on the romance. maybe buy or cook dinner for him while you are dressed all sexy
If he is normal he'll want you to repeat that and you need to then say to him I'm happy to to all that for you would then help me out by doing something romantic for me and the make a suggestion, not demand but a suggestion
additionally now he owes you and that is your trump card
2006-12-29 12:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about a love letter? I still hand write and send them by mail to my husband I scent the envelope and sign the letter with my lipstick kiss I do this about twice a year I also send little notes in his lunch it might just be a kiss on a paper or my perfume or I love you or hurry home
Or my husband is a race fan and I have gotten tickets and packed a picnic with his favorite food and beer to surprise him
or maybe fix him a nice bath complete with bubbles and candles and his favorite drink
I could go on and on I do have to say he does things like this for me too my favorite is the little love notes I find throughout the house
2006-12-29 12:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by pokey's gumby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is romantic for him is coming home and finding you in bed in high heels with your legs spread and a six pack on ice next to the bed with the TV remote in your hand holding it out to him and a schedule of the nights games laying next to you. Also, the TV has to be at the head of the bed.
2006-12-29 11:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For my husband it can be a variety of things. Like going to bed naked, ambushing him for surprise sex(always accepted by men). Telling him how sexy he is while applying some passionate kisses to his mouth, ears, and neck.
After you get dressed purposely bend over in front in and say: Honey can you see any lines, oh that's right I am wearing a thong.
Let him have a playboy subsription and let him catch you looking at it.
My husband will sometimes say the unromantic you wanna do it? It doesn't work for me but all guys want their girl to say that and mean it to them.
Try that and have fun.
2006-12-29 11:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by JenKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the guy really. just like women, men are all different. what one finds romantic another finds stupid or boring. figure out what his favorite things to do are and take it from there. is he a sports enthusiast? if so take him to a game, with a nice dinner before hand, and a hotel room afterwards. if he is the intellectual type, take him to an opera or poetry reading followed up with a nice moonlit stroll....its all based on their likes...
2006-12-29 11:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by broken_aarrow77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being romantic is putting your heart out there all the time.
2006-12-29 11:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something you two like to do together. Go to the place where you first met for a date. I love to just spend time with my honey watch a movie with a bag of popciorn at home while she stretched out across my lap and i rub her back and play with her hair. You just have to know your guy. You find romance together.
2006-12-29 12:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by mdsmith9372 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a big red bow on a new porno movie.
2006-12-29 11:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for a man?
oh honey throw on some lingerie and call it a day LOL
2006-12-29 11:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by msapplebottomculo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋