I posted a previous ? on this guy that I liked (Should I state my feeling to him...?)...and well, I talked to him, yet he hasn't given me an answer. The New Year is coming and I would like to end this once and for all. So what I'm asking is: Should I give him an Ultimatum about "us" or use another way to get him to talk?
2006-12-29 03:43:21 · 18 answers · asked by keyonnaw5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI: I did talk to him in person. Sorry, forgot to mention that. He just kept saying, "I don't know."
2006-12-29 04:00:51 · update #1
sounds like he is giving u an answer....ur just not wanting to hear or accept that answer = spend time on new yrs with someone else (it will be much more enjoyable)
2006-12-29 03:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by jenivive 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't responding, honey, then you two just weren't meant to be. I've once had this situation before and what i did was calmly called him over the phone and talked to him about the importance of being together. If he doesn't understand, or plays dumb then i would just leave him alone and give him a little taste of what the cold shoulder feels like. If you guys are really meant to be together then he'll realize how you're the only one for him and he'll come crawling back to you, begging for forgivness. If he doesn't realize this though, then move on. There are plenty of good looking men out there that know how to respect a relationship and cherish what he has with you. If you and your "boyfriend" can't have that then what is there to lose?
2006-12-29 03:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sample ID 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't given you an answer its because the answer is one your not going to like. Giving him an ultimatum will only blow up in your face. He obviously doesn't care and you should take the hint.
2006-12-29 03:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is not answering and you are at a cross-roads, after a reasonable amount of time - give him the ultimatum (very kindly). Tell him you need to know...and he needs to know that you are serious about your question and intend to move on if you get no answer. Important: Stick to your decision. Indecision will cause problems later. Good luck!
2006-12-29 03:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ultimatums tend to scare people off. No one likes being told what to do...I would just sit down and talk it out. Even if you are trying to end it you can be civilized about it.
2006-12-29 03:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Merk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's already given you your answer by not answering y ou he obivoiously doesn't want to do what you asked him. don't chase after any man, well only if you love him, but still move on gril start the new year off with a new you .
2006-12-29 03:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Chiquinn W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on honey. I've been there and I'm sure there are plenty of guys who would say yes to you in a second!
I've made the same mistake in the past!
2006-12-29 03:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and tell him ur feelings. Don't leave till he gives u an answer.
2006-12-29 03:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm facing the same problem..the guy i like isn't replying either..sometimes you just wonder why..so what i think you should do is to confront him and ask him why he isn't responding..that's the best way i guess..good luck =)
2006-12-29 03:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's not talking to you then he's pretty much giving you the answer right there
2006-12-29 03:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋