Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

First time was just curosity, but curosity made me find flirtatous emails from my boyfriend to another female. Now I cannot stop snooping because I do not trust him. Whenever anything is found (which there have been a few bad flirtatous things) I always confront him, but the trust issues are still there. I do not like the person I have become. I know he loves me and will want to work to rebuild the relationship, but I have heard that from him before and then I find something else. Is there anyway to truly regain trust once it is gone...on both sides for the person who's privacy was taken advantage of and the person who was hurt by what they found.

2006-12-29 09:04:07 · 9 answers · asked by Brainsofop 1 in Singles & Dating

For the past 6 years that I lived with my ex-partner, I would take care of all the finances. Now seperated for a couple of months, he still keeps asking me for money if he can't make it that week. He gets paid twice the amount that I do every two weeks and he has a part time job that pays him at least my paycheck every two weeks. When I tell him "NO!" he finds a way to make me feel guilty. Yet he knows, I'm fixing up my house and purchasing the necesities such as stove, fridge, washer/dryer, etc. I let him keep all the furniture and appliances and just took one bed. How do I make him realize that he is no longer my responsiblity nor obligation to support him financial while he buys his new girlfriend things and takes her out to eat at least twice a week.

2006-12-29 09:02:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

dad,my X & I split when I realized he was using drugs & ultimately he went to prison. My son was 1 yr when this happened.I left him & have been with the same man since Ricky was 2 & in the same home, stable & good life.Throughout my sons life his dad was in & out of prison, in & out of his life. We found out he was dying of HepC just 2 years before he died. His father tried to spend every last minute w/ him and I think spoiling him. He died 2 years ago when my son was 9. He has been going to counciling for over 4 years now (not helping). He is almost never happy, he acts angry, he's rude, he's unappreciative, he throws things, cusses me out, doesn't do well in school (his IQ is 138). He has called the police on me when I have spanked him-police said if I touch him I go to jaiI! Stopped spanking/alternate dicipline.Have 6 kids, he's the only 1 that acts this way. At times he'll be Mr.Perfect & loving-but he's mostly mean & unhappy-I am so lost and frustrated! Heartbroken too.Help?

2006-12-29 09:02:33 · 17 answers · asked by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 in Family

well I did like then but,since I have a boyfriend named Austin well I can't like them but, if he brakes up with me than yes I would like them!

2006-12-29 09:02:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does that mean I just haven't met the right man yet? Does it mean I need more time before I start dating? I've been on 2 dates & hated it, just wanted to be home with my kids. I've gotten over my ex (22 yr. marriage), but when will I ever be able to move on or will I ever? I want to go out & have fun. Just can't seem to enjoy it yet.

2006-12-29 09:01:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So often women post questions that make them sound weak and incapable.Why can't they stand up and take charge in their homes and relationships?

2006-12-29 09:01:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And who are you doing it with?????

2006-12-29 09:00:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Any good way to get the court system in IN to deal with a non paying deabeat dad? We havent found any way to make them keep on top of this situation. $15,000 behind and growing, still walking around like everyone owes him a living!!! Any help out there? Thank you.

2006-12-29 09:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Family

2006-12-29 08:59:58 · 37 answers · asked by DAVID R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 08:58:49 · 21 answers · asked by nene 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 08:58:24 · 12 answers · asked by mex_drgn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

People that say.."you should stay married for better or for worse?"'.....now you are telling us you SHOULD stay in a marriage when your husband beats you, he is a molester, becomes brain damaged, becomes an alcoholic, or becomes a drug addict??? that is what you aretelling us...This is the 21st century...NO, YOU WOULDN'T STAY"...OLD SCHOOL IS GONE...what is your take on that???

2006-12-29 08:58:09 · 16 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I decided to ask my boyfriend why he has been blowing me off lately and he said he just wanted some guy time since we have spent a lot of time together for the last 4 months. I also asked if he was over it and he said no and asked why I am giving him such a hard time. He all of a sudden takes hours to return my calls (he is not busy) or instead of calling back he justs text and is distant. He still says I love you and cuddles with me when I spend the night. But when it comes to making a plan to hang out he won't committ. I am just not sure what is going on. Please give me some explainations! Thanks :)

2006-12-29 08:57:18 · 15 answers · asked by jennamadison2007 1 in Singles & Dating

I poured my heart out to my ex bf telling him how i feel and stuff about us breaking up. and now hes being all stupid and all he could say was."Im sorry"

I dont kow what to do...

I think its officailly over. and i dont want it to be.

I love this boy with my whole heart.

2006-12-29 08:57:11 · 17 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

it sucks but i am new to where i live and don't know ANYBODY??? Just me and rockin eve??? Please shoot me..........

2006-12-29 08:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

iam 13

2006-12-29 08:56:38 · 17 answers · asked by cool 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 08:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by surinderz2001 2 in Singles & Dating

the person who flight the airplane is called a PILOT the person that drives the car is called a DRIVER.....what do you call the person who drives the train???

2006-12-29 08:55:57 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 08:55:29 · 25 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

why do poeple at my school keep saying that gap means gay and proud cuz kids keep walking up to me and laughing at me and saying yuor gay and proud wow and everyone keep saying rumors and making my friends hate me and making people i wanna b friends with hate me too plz halp. and gap has comfortabale clothes you know

2006-12-29 08:55:29 · 6 answers · asked by Monica I 1 in Singles & Dating

rape his wife? I said no and I meant no but then again he's my husband?

2006-12-29 08:55:08 · 16 answers · asked by Beonca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Friend who wants to know!

2006-12-29 08:54:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am just wondering how all of you deal with this.
I have been with my husband for 8 years, married 7. I KNOW that he loves me and that is not an issue.

He has a son and his son's mother makes it quite clear that she still loves him. They had a short relationship and weren't married.

She has kept his son from him numerous times and we have gone to court so many times. Now she has decided that she wants her freedom so my stepson is with us at least 75% of the time. She will not put it through the courts though so we are still paying full child support and stuff.

She calls him "hon" and tells him about her personal life. She once asked him if he'd have a affair on me.

Anyway, I just find it completely inappropriate and don't like it. Discussions should be about their son and nothing else.

He is afraid to say anything to her because she has such a history of getting pissed off and keeping stepson from us.

Any Ideas on how to appraoch this in a good manor?

2006-12-29 08:54:16 · 8 answers · asked by Heather 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 08:52:17 · 12 answers · asked by janaye 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i get this guy i like interested in me without acting like a tramp or changing who i am?

2006-12-29 08:51:59 · 16 answers · asked by MsJ 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and this one guy have been noticing each other for awhile now. Just looking at each other and not saying any more than hi from time to time. A couple of days ago he saw me talking to another guy that was just a friend. The next day he kind of ignored me and stayed away from where I was. He still looked at me but not as much. What is this about?

2006-12-29 08:51:31 · 6 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, I'll be 21 in 2 months and I've been with my 23yr old girl for over a year and a half now. Recently she suggested taking a break, to "get to know herself". I've been reading all over trying to find out if shes simply lost interest, or really wants to stay together but haven't found good answers. We discussed this "break" and together we decided against it. But now 2 weeks later, shes on the topic again. Are we done? I know she loves me, but on the same note I've only experienced two other girls. Shes been very stressed out lately with our money problems, family illness, and my grandmothers death. Basically, I don't want the break because I don't know her real motives. How can I get her interested again without risking our relationship?

2006-12-29 08:50:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im getting married at march 2007...I would like to know different kind of habits/traditions, what we could use in our weddings. Im not originally from Usa so it is really hard for me to know anything about these things,my culture is so different. We are gonna mix and match both of our heritage, but how to do it, I dont know? Thank you:)

2006-12-29 08:50:35 · 12 answers · asked by serina 2 in Weddings

I liked my guy friend, but he liked my best friend, so over time I told myself I didn't like him...

But lately I have dreams with him in it, nothing nasty just nice things...

I'm fine being just friends with him, but I'm wondering what my dreams mean??

2006-12-29 08:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were married for 7 years. My husband is good to me in everything, But coming to Sex life, he is not intimate to me .He doesn’t like to have sex.he sits at the computer until he gets sleep and sleep as soon as he comes to bed. We have very occasionally may be once in 2 or 3 months, that too when I initiates. He has a problem of premature ejaculation...he is in the field of health care and really have knowledge of the problem, and how to rectify it.so the problem is not related to physical.
I many times told to him, how I feel and about how sex is also important in life and we would go for counseling .But he never like to do so. He never has any intimacy feeling towards me. Sometimes I cry myself to sleep and go to bed alone while he sits at the computer. I really don’t know how to change my husband. I know this is not good in long run of our marriage. I really love my husband so much, and wants him to change.

2006-12-29 08:50:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce