Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

I am stuck in a total crossroads. I don't know what to do. I have a great relationship with my partner, however, we are great everywhere but in the bedroom. and its not him. He tries... sometimes too hard... but I just don't enjoy it anymore. I have been seriously thinking about finding someone that can satisfy my apetite.. like on the side... and keeping my love life and my sex life totally seperate... I know it is wrong and thats why I haven't done it. But I can't stop thinking that I am missing out on something that could be a good thing for me. I am a b*tchy person to begin with... well add some sexual frustration to that and its not pretty. I'm at the end of my rope about this and I thought this to be my last resort to get some differing outlooks on it before I do something stupid or don't do something and end up regretful and a born again virgin.And again please, if you are going to be judgmental or rude, don't bother posting. I will report it as abuse.
Only serious answers plz.

2006-12-29 09:15:43 · 35 answers · asked by LuciLill 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

After some of the experiences I've had I'm not so sure. I'm starting to feel like I should just give up.

2006-12-29 09:15:33 · 6 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

am i alone or am i just out of my mind? but some how i feel really old because i am turning 20 in a few month, i know its young but when the thought that im not even a teenager anymore rushes into my mind i feel really old and feel like life is begining to fade away...do/did you felt this while you were 20? is it realy old or is it all just in my mind?

2006-12-29 09:15:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My oldest and closest friend recently, and gradually, stop calling me and didn't even return my voice mails. She would send me text messages while at work, saying it was the only time she was able to contact me. This went on for several months until I felt that she was just making excuses for not wanting to communicate with me. I told her not to send me any more messages and if she wanted to talk she had my number. I haven't heard from her since. I can understand that she has a busy life but I feel that if being my friend was important she would make the time. Am I being unresonable?

2006-12-29 09:14:48 · 4 answers · asked by JoeH 3 in Friends

I am engaged to a great guy. Says he loves me, I'm the only one for him, and I feel the same. Latley it seems like I am getting overly jealous and protective. I did make him throw out all of his porn (I see no need for that when getting married, you want to see a naked women tell me I take off my clothes), I can't stand to hear about ex's, or past sexual encoutners. I know I have some trust issues, but I think this is starting to drive me nuts.

2006-12-29 09:14:46 · 13 answers · asked by Knome Lover 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im in 5th grade and i realy like this girl in my class, but she isnt intresetd in me. how cna i get her to like me? i realy want to be her boyfriend, tho im young, so plz help me

2006-12-29 09:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

....well this is about me breaking up with my girlfriend with whom I have been with for the past 4 months now, all along we have always been talking about breaking up, due to the fact that we both have realized that we are not compartable even though we love each other alot....below listed is our difference, 1. am 33 and she's 45(she dont relly look it), 2. she has 3 kids; I have none(worst of all she dont wanna have any in the future), 3. I love to go out and have fun she likes to sit home, 4. she very controling, bossy and jealous, am lay back and love to give her the freedom she deserves 5. she loves to nag and complain about stuff, am quit guy(but its a shame, she calls me a punk).....that is just to name few of the things that have been an issue in our relitionship, therefore base upon this, I've deceded to leave this crazy lady; my decision was made lastnight(28th Dec) and trust me it was a very hard and painfull decision for me. so tell me how can I over come this pain& move on?

2006-12-29 09:13:52 · 14 answers · asked by omax747 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there is 365 days in a year. there is 52 weeks in a year and there is 7 days is a week. However when you multiply 52 x 7 it equals 364 ...where is that extra day coming from?????????

2006-12-29 09:13:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 09:12:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my ex boyfriend so much and I know that we should give it another try.. he doesn't know I feel this way, although I do know that he isn't up for another round--what do i do to prove that we are good together, we are really good friends (which also adds to the complication)

2006-12-29 09:10:58 · 15 answers · asked by a_smile_willfixit 1 in Singles & Dating

just want to see if im not alone

2006-12-29 09:10:46 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Someone talked behind my back and I asked why they wouldn't tell me it to my face.They didn't answer.

2006-12-29 09:10:44 · 21 answers · asked by ashlee p 2 in Friends

2006-12-29 09:10:16 · 32 answers · asked by kim h 1 in Singles & Dating

When my gf does something dumb or silly I call her "stupid" or "peanut gallery." It's not said mean spiritedly, but rather like "why did you do that silly?" Although not mean sprirted, are the words themselves abusive? She thinks not, but I am worried that maybe it is?

2006-12-29 09:10:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

does anyone else work weekends and if so would you rather being doing something else i know i would

2006-12-29 09:09:29 · 37 answers · asked by mr usa1 2 in Friends

we can't get a reliable baby sitter. How can we best spend our time? (myself, hubby, brother and brother in-law) keep it clean folks!

2006-12-29 09:09:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 09:08:49 · 2 answers · asked by sony12 1 in Friends

Someone asked me out for the first time, and I had to tell him I couldn't because my parents wouldn't let me. They never really said I couldn't, but it's implied... and I'm going to be 18!!! It's so unfair.

Does anyone else have this kind of problem? Share your story here!

2006-12-29 09:08:34 · 9 answers · asked by abc123 1 in Singles & Dating

for the 3rd time. what do i do.
on the 2nd of january we will have been dating a year.
i love him i really do.
what can i do to get over him.
or at least help.
it happened 2 days ago.
and the last 2 days have been miserable..i ended it.
for good.
help please.
this ssucks.
best idea/most help gets the points.

2006-12-29 09:08:34 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

wife and me are not officially separated yet, but are in process of working out parenting plan and asset splitup arrangements.

Understand that during this phase abandonment could constitute one parent leaving the other with the kids and leaving for the night, which is exactly what happened. She took off, said she was going out, never said where. 4 yr old Daughter was sick that night, couldnt reach wife, cell phone off and no idea where she was. Comes back at 3 am.

Found out later she met her 'lover' at a sleazy motel that night. Have proof, but she doesnt know this yet.

Does this qualify as abandonment or not?

2006-12-29 09:08:24 · 4 answers · asked by Kaboom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well all my friends are born on valentines day and i neaver heard some one that was born on feb 15 1992.

2006-12-29 09:08:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We're both 17 and he's kinda shy.Also I made the 1st move to kiss him even by just touching his lips.We've been dating for 2 1/2 months.What should I do? I really like him!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-29 09:07:08 · 36 answers · asked by pvlvmv 1 in Singles & Dating

The thing is two girls did a homework with me, as a group. But they are best friends and they dont like me. After I did the work with them ( the work was 60% of our grade) they handed it without my name!!! and they had the nerve to say I didnt do a thing. The "problem" is that they take my same classes with me because we are an "honor" group. Almost everyone in the group hates me because Im different ( im not a cheater or a drama queen, hypocrite or liar ) so, What can I do to get "revenge"?

2006-12-29 09:06:45 · 7 answers · asked by DDT 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have heard of deaf people getting married to each other and i got very surprised because it can be obvious that they may give birth to deaf children.

2006-12-29 09:06:03 · 50 answers · asked by naasmarty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 09:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone know any hosts or somewhere where i can download free movies that are not pornos?

2006-12-29 09:05:39 · 4 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 09:05:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I lived in New York most of my life and don't want to live here forever. I will be graduating in June with my B.S in Criminal Justice. I have a 4 year old son. How do you know when it's the right time to leave your comfort zone.

2006-12-29 09:04:32 · 17 answers · asked by Cori 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

wat does it mean wen a guy is starring at u....lets say evry week,5 days,8 hours.he bugs me,hits me,ask me dumb questions,blahblahblah.now he barely talks.the next day he starts doing the same thing.then the next day he ignores me.wat am i suppose 2 do.o and I DON'T LIKE HIM!!!!!

2006-12-29 09:04:14 · 11 answers · asked by diem nguyen 1 in Singles & Dating

i justwant to thank all the lovely people who relied to my question just for the record it isnt me with the record its my ex.!!
thanks again

2006-12-29 09:04:13 · 9 answers · asked by hunebabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce