Someone talked behind my back and I asked why they wouldn't tell me it to my face.They didn't answer.
2006-12-29 09:10:44 · 21 answers · asked by ashlee p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1) its called drama
2) because if they tell you to your face then you will respond
and they wont know what to say or do
basically, its SO MUCH easier to be two faced - be nice to your face & talk about you behind your back.
2006-12-29 09:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A simple question with a couple simple answers. Fear, Cowardice, and uncertainty. If someone is a person who studies others, moods and emotions (or lack there of) then uncertainty comes in to play. You never know when you're gonna get popped in the chops for saying something you could've said behind someones back. Fear and Cowardice go hand in hand though, if the person fears you enough or is just a coward, then you'll never get anything said to your face. Sorry for the long answer lol.
2006-12-29 17:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dustin K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the top reason would B that this person is scared of you or intimidated by you or even that the crap they are talking is false so they don't want 2 look like a dumb*** for lying. I say that if your gonna talk crap wether it's the truth or not U better be able to back it up because most people including myself won't ask you 2 your face but straight up deck U in the face
2006-12-29 17:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's what Hata's do. Hata's can come in many forms: a family member, friends, a co-worker, anybody that smile in your face and glare and talk behind your back. They scared of who you are and envious of what you got. You can't really stut two-faced people like that. All you can do is realize that they won't never be a real friend but not worth being an enemy.
2006-12-29 17:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.CuteCaDiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they like to talk behind ur back because they are scared of u. instead of telling it to ur face and getting punched they make it all secrective which is very very very annoying. but think of it as a compliment. thats what i do.
2006-12-29 17:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl are sometime to scared to tell you something in your face, so they feel more secure and comfortable talking about you behind your back. Challenge them to talk in your face, mayby they will stop.
2006-12-29 17:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they cannot say it to your face, then it is not worth anything.
The fact that they couldn't tell you demonstrates that they were stirring and that they were caught out.
2006-12-29 17:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by dancingmaveric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people are cowards. well some people. those that dont say stuff to your face or say stuff about you are just jealous of what you are and what you have. dont let that get you down.. laugh at them and show them whose the best...
2006-12-29 17:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by BooBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they know its wrong and are ashamed about what they are saying and are too cowardly to tell you to your face for fear of what ever...I made a point to never say anything about anyone unless it is something I am willing to tell them to their face.
2006-12-29 17:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because most feel it is easier to say things this way and they don't have a back bone to say it face to face for in fear of getting slapped.
2006-12-29 17:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by blueigurl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋