2006-12-29 08:59:58 · 37 answers · asked by DAVID R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
On the Trot?
I'm not sure what that means.
You might want to ask your partner what places he/she has been to. Ask if there are any places you might go as a couple. If there might be things he/she would like to share with you or things he/she might like you to share in. (Two different items, trust me.) Avoid semantic games, just be very honest but in a "I'm actually interested in learning more about doing the stuff you've been doing. Do you think I'm ready for it?" kind of way. Make him/her understand that you're interested in partaking of the antics and events that have gone on over those two days and find out if/when you're going to have the opportunity, or have another 2 days to yourself so you can explore various alternate hobbies. I'm not refering to threatening that you may cheat if that's what you think your partner is doing, I'm literally referring to having friends over to have a "Bad Movie Night", or drinks and games. (Bad Movie Night is when you rent one or two B movies that are horribly silly, and you all watch and laugh your butts off. Ever seen Mystery Science Theatre?)
Just a thought. If you have more info you'd like to talk about, or you need to talk to someone, lemme know. You can email me.
2006-12-29 09:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unexplained disappearances are never a good sign. Either there's someone else or your partner is doing something he/she knows you wouldn't like. If he/she won't explain their absences it's time to get a more honest and trustworthy partner.
2006-12-29 09:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go two days and the trot and you will find out.
2006-12-29 09:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Blue-rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does "on the trot" mean? He has diarrhea? Maybe he doesn't want to mess up your bathroom!
Happy New Year and best wishes with your partner!
2006-12-29 09:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well theres a couple of reasons ,if he drinks and drugs well that leads to a couple of reasons .in my own experions with my own friends that do it, he drinks alot gets smashed on a friday by 10 that night hes snorting coke .gets waisted goes into town buys crack and we dont see him till monday ,broke ,dirty and looking like crap.
now if hes all dressed up smells good before he goes on his outings most of the time its cause hes out with another women ,who knows he might like fellas.the only way i can suggest is follow him but keep far back so he dont notice you.use a frinds car to follow him so he dont realize its you and if you do find him with another women or man .just go back to the house pack his stuff ,leave it out side .change the locks and when he gives you a sobe story tell him to take a flying f### and stand your ground.
2006-12-29 09:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by shane p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your partner is not ready for a committment. discuss the problem and decide whether you want to continue such a relationship. i suggest moving on.
2006-12-29 09:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earn extra money away from home.Think Heather McCartney.
2006-12-29 09:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Butt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he knows he can always go back to you. You need to see if he is leading a double life..Try asking him why he does this?
2006-12-29 09:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they're up to something... hire a private detective and find out!!
2006-12-29 09:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Minniex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no clue, ask her maybe
maybe time to start trotting yourself
2006-12-29 09:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋