Dreams when I thought I was over him?

Question

I liked my guy friend, but he liked my best friend, so over time I told myself I didn't like him...

But lately I have dreams with him in it, nothing nasty just nice things...

I'm fine being just friends with him, but I'm wondering what my dreams mean??

Answer 1

They mean nothing. Quit looking for mystical signs where there are none.

Answer 2

Very nice. The fact that you have fond dreams about him, fairly platonic, tells me that you do carry a torch for the guy. Like you said, you told yourself that you didn't like him. But dreams are free-flowing sensory poetry. When your barriers are down, your mind and heart are fond of him and that's what matters.

I'm sorry he likes your best friend. I'm also sorry that you appear to like him, still.

You know how to make your subconscious laugh? Tell it you're over somebody.

Next time you're dreaming about him, try to enter a lucid state. Try to envision the two of you hanging out and that he's into you instead of your friend.

Then wake up, smile, and realize that maybe someday that could happen. Sometimes we build the walls that confine us.

Answer 3

You are probably just thinking about him because he is your friend. Or maybe you are not really over him. Sometimes you can try to hide your feelings but it doesn't work because no matter what you do they are still there.