Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

A few weeks ago, I went on a couple of dates with a guy I've known for a few months. I really liked him but wanted to take things slowly and it seemed to me that he was looking for something very quickly. So, he stopped calling me, I was hurt but
went my own way trying to forget him. We'e in the same club and so I ran into him again two wks ago and he criticised my dancing style. I'm v sensitive and was hurt at this remark. I could only think it was a sort of vengeance for not progressing the relationship at a faster rate but I wasn´t sure. Then, out of the blue, I got a message from him on Saturday night..again a criticism about my dancing. I didn't reply and he resent the msg on Sunday evening..I didn't reply and he texted me asking why I don't reply. He said, look, I'm only joking you, please don't be annoyed! I don't understand this behaviour. He's a nice guy & doesn't have a girlfriend so I called him & said let's meet for a chat. Any ideas on this guy's behaviour?

2006-12-23 04:17:08 · 7 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this guy likes me and he asked me out. I like him as a friend but more than a friend. He told me that he really likes me and he "rated" me 100% and I feel bad that I said no the first time. Me and my friend are going to the movies, should I invite him? If he askes me out again, im afraid to say yes to his face, what should I say?

2006-12-23 04:16:18 · 7 answers · asked by ♥~gracie girl~♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont see any benefits, cause I feel alone.

2006-12-23 04:16:17 · 15 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 04:14:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 04:13:39 · 10 answers · asked by gofrogs_28 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend has been eyeing my boyfriend when we were together, but now that we have broken up, they are together now...is she really my friend or what? what would you do?

2006-12-23 04:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by upgraded 1 in Friends

Ok, we had been together for about 8 months, i joined the military and she didnt seem to have a problem with it, she was proud of me and waited for me while i was in basic training, about 3 months after basic i found out i was getting deployed and told her, she then said she couldnt see me anymore with really no reason to leave me......why did she leave me?(FYI, i come home next month, i know she's still single, should i go back and try to get her back?)

2006-12-23 04:12:50 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my bestfriend has the most wonderful baby in this world he is so good, and her babys daddy just got outta prison and her boyfriend shawn who shes been on n off with for like 5 years is helpin raise him. now her boyfriend loves this kid, but he doesnt treat her with any respect, he fights and argues and he picks on her and annoys her and she doesnt like him at all anymore but hes living with her her mom and the baby and she doent know how to get rid of him she still loves him but hes taken advatage of her and her mom long enuf n e ideas on wha t could happen

2006-12-23 04:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by leslie0754 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 04:10:34 · 38 answers · asked by sweet thing 1 in Family

It seems to be a trend these days to send out "Newsletters" in leiu of cards, etc on the holidays. Typically they detail the persons accomplishments, throw in a few "challenges" that were easily overcome (adds authenticity to the newsletter), and some nice acceptable hopes for the future. What do you think of these??? Do you find them nothing more than family "propaganda".....a way to sugar coat everyone's life and make things look rosy. I mean has anyone ever sent one out that dealt with real issues like bankruptcy, sexual problems, substance abuse, etc.........

2006-12-23 04:10:20 · 8 answers · asked by patrunnels 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-23 04:10:14 · 10 answers · asked by ILBW 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 04:09:53 · 6 answers · asked by nick 2 in Friends

2006-12-23 04:08:46 · 13 answers · asked by Aisher B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She has touched my (clothed) penis and given me a lap dance during gym class. I went to kiss her and she seemed scared. Does she really like me

2006-12-23 04:07:56 · 3 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 04:07:33 · 7 answers · asked by Aisher B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 04:07:29 · 4 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

My problem is I dont want to lose her and my 3 kids they mean the world to me. I am willing to do what ever it takes to get them back in my life. She isnt working with me at all she says she has no boy friend and I believe her. I just cant figure out why she wont try and seek help with me. not just for us but our kids are suffering more than they should. She has a restraing order against me so I cant even talk to them this is a bad time of the year for this is there anyway i can win back there love or am i screwed? I dont want to lose my family I screwed up and I want to fix it can anyone help?

2006-12-23 04:07:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am so frustrated with this. For example, his license plates expired 10 days ago and he waited untill today at the last minute to try to get them. Of course the BMV was getting ready to close and he couldn't find his title or registration. So needless to say, he didn't get it done, and now that its Christmas he wont be able to get them untill tuesday. So we have to try to drive 45 minutes to his parents house with expired plates and risk getting in trouble on Christmas Eve. Not to mention I still have to finish shopping tonight. I asked him why he waited till the last minute and he tried to tell me that he has been looking for the paperwork for the past couple of days, so why did he stop looking for them untill now???? Of course he got mad at me for asking that and making that point and started cussing at me about it! Why does he always do stuff like this and end up screwing us over?

2006-12-23 04:05:56 · 16 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 04:05:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 04:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy. I just found out that he knows that I like him. Another girl who's one grade younger also likes him, but he's known that for a year.

I used to talk to him a lot, but that stopped when a conflicted arose last year. We stopped talking and he said he hated me. Then a few months later he said he didn't really care anymore.

Well, he recently said something extrememly rude to me, and acted like he still hated me. So later I told him a story: [short version] I used to be crazy about this guy, but as I got to know him better as a person, I stopped liking him. You know why? I realized he was an asshole.

So a mutual friend later asked if he got the point of the story, and he snapped at her in mid-sentence and said: Yes, I understand the point! Now stop talking to me!

A few days later, he asked the younger girl out. She obviously said yes because she liked him, which he knew. Is there a connection here between what I said and him asking her out now, of all times?

I don't mean to sound conceded, but it seems to me that he's trying to get back at me.

By the way, I know that I need to move on. And I have. But I'm still curious, and if he is just using the other girl, how can I prevent her from getting hurt?

2006-12-23 04:02:58 · 5 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Singles & Dating

Not hurt as in physical hurt.........but hurt as in emotional, ie........they didnt verbally hurt you.......they just mentally hurt you.......told you things cause you wanted to hear it, acted like you were the greatest in their life, used you, left you for other people.........

If you still love them, does that mean you're insecure and have low self steem or does it mean you have true love with this person?

That, with this person, you will truly love them through better or worst?

2006-12-23 04:02:54 · 14 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-23 04:02:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 04:02:29 · 4 answers · asked by bowtothekingofwarriors 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfreind dumped me around 2 months ago and I am still sad about it. He wasn't going to until I kinda forced him and was like what is wrong. It toke him forever to do it. I feel that he was the problem not me. He did not even wanna take me out to eat. He still hasn't talked to me since then and at the time acted like he would. I just feel still confused cause how can you love someone so much and then they just push you off when they are the one you can't trust. It is kinda hard now since it is christmas too.

2006-12-23 04:01:28 · 10 answers · asked by Kelsey 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I jsust broke-up with my bf, I made a mistake in doing that. I told him that I still have feelings for him and he said that i'd had my chance and that he had no more feelings for me. At the holiday dance e was dancing with a girl that I'd thought he'd liked while we were going out. Should I be angry. Worst of all I've been thinking of getting back together with my previous ex, help!!!

2006-12-23 04:01:28 · 23 answers · asked by Katerina Z 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short, this girl I'm enticed with and have known for the last year has not returned my last two phone calls and didn't show up at a date we had planned. Normally I would write the person off and forget about it, but this girl is hard to let go, basically I put this girl above all others right now. The question is should I just cut her off and wait for her to contact me, or should I keep trying, and if I do decide to cut her off how should I react if she does contact me. Should I lay on a little guilt for blowing me off, should I forgive an forget and act like it didn't bother me. No one can give me the answer to this question without knowing all the factors, but I'm sure someone out there has experienced a similar predicament and I would appreciate some advice. I've traveled Europe with this girl, we've stayed up all night together talking and drinking wine, I've told her things about myself that I wouldn't tell best friends, simply put I am committed and not wanting to admi

2006-12-23 04:01:07 · 12 answers · asked by noevilmonkeys 1 in Singles & Dating

We dont talk much and we both like each other (she indirectly likes me-flirts). Last time I talked to her was a week ago and now im in winter break. I want to surprise her by calling her even though she didnt give me her number. Can i make her melt when she asks (if she does) why didnt u talk to me for a while. I then say b/c I never really realized what a beautiful young woman you are.

2006-12-23 03:59:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 03:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here i have only one cd writer in my pc. i am booting my pc through slax cd. but i can't open any website in its browser. so i want to add some modules to slax cd. how can i do it so i can add modules to slax cd and open website in browser using that modules?

2006-12-23 03:59:01 · 1 answers · asked by mani p 1 in Singles & Dating