my best friend has been eyeing my boyfriend when we were together, but now that we have broken up, they are together now...is she really my friend or what? what would you do?
2006-12-23 04:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by upgraded 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Did your friend ask you if it was ok with you if they dated before they started? Did she act like she cared about your relationship with him while you were dating? If your answer is no to these questions, then she is a backstabber. She needs to grasp the concept that guys come and go, but friends are forever. If she's going to give up her friendship with you over something as trivial and finite as a guy with whom she's probably going to break up soon, then you deserve a better friend.
2006-12-23 04:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by emmy1024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no not your friend. if she was flirting w/ ur bf before, she intended to stab you in the back. how did u feel when she got w/ ur bf/ flirted with him? if u felt bad/jealous etc. tell her that. if you two are still friends tell her how u feel betrayed or whatever. if u guys arent friends, stay that way. if she steals your boyfriend now, she is a back stabber not to be trusted, and there is no telling what she could do later on
2006-12-23 12:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by danafactor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was eyeing him when u 2 were together then she isn't ur friend...she obviously only cares about herself and her feelings and you shouldn't waste ur time being friends with her because when it comes to having friends, u have to think about *what good will they do me, or will i get anything out of this friendship* because in the end, u are the one who is stuck with them and u need to be able to trust someone like that...
hope this helps!
and good luck
2006-12-23 12:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by *JJtrue♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the reason you broke up is her, than screw her! But if the two of you really weren't meant to be to begin with then I wouldn't worry. If you are really good friends talk it out and see, its not worth it to lose a close friend.
2006-12-23 12:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by 1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope u are under 16. i'd be ashamed for u to be older than that askin a question like this. ANSWER: if she was your friend b4, she certainly isn't a very good one anymore. whip that hoes @ss on general principle and never speak to her again.
2006-12-23 12:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me. If she respected you she would not have done that. It really sucks, but just move on. It may be hard but dont stop for someone who does not respect you.
2006-12-23 12:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by imart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop seeing him if she does you lose as this par my be happy together if you say noting you lose as you well hold this against them ,orrr you could lump burning coals on them by being a good friend and happy ex girl friend this is what the bible says to do so do it .
2006-12-23 12:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's a back stabber. If she were truly your friend she wouldn't be eyeing him up or going out with him now. Lose her.
2006-12-23 12:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's no friend honey. Move on and find someone who cares about your feelings. She obviously does not.
2006-12-23 12:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes ur boyfriend really much and the boyfirend does'nt care and thinks ur friend is soo much hot well hey come to me i'm a better guy than that cutie lol
2006-12-23 12:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by ricky k 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋