Not hurt as in physical hurt.........but hurt as in emotional, ie........they didnt verbally hurt you.......they just mentally hurt you.......told you things cause you wanted to hear it, acted like you were the greatest in their life, used you, left you for other people.........
If you still love them, does that mean you're insecure and have low self steem or does it mean you have true love with this person?
That, with this person, you will truly love them through better or worst?
2006-12-23 04:02:54 · 14 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you consider this is true love?Honey experience some more life. True love is not hurting you or making you feel bad or abandoned.It's just an experience, I think everyone had one. Go on with your life and try to forget about that person, or if you do think is the love of your life....talk to him/her.
2006-12-23 04:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we are hurt by someone we are in a relationship with, it does not necessarily mean our feelings for them are shut off. We can still love them but know they may not be the best thing for us, especially if they have a history of hurting us either emotionally and/or physically. Everything good to you is not good for you. From the sounds of your scenario, only time will heal that wound. You may always love this person, but their actions display that they do not love you on the same level. Maybe you should move on.
2006-12-23 04:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu don't love them. Maybe your on the rebound. You can find someone much better than that. It'll talk time. BUt for now live life. YHour just thinking about him becasue your lonely and theres is alot of good things about being loney. Plus if you love someone they wouldn't want to hurt you in any way and even if you loved him he doesn't since he hurt you so why stay with someone that doesn't love you as much as you love them? You'll find your true love when the time comes until that live life, enjoy and have fun.
2006-12-23 04:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by dm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if it is true love or not. I do think that you should move on. People suck sometimes. You wont know what kind of selfesteem you have unless you can move on with your life. And that will take time. And it is normal for a person to feel attatchment even after being dumped in such a harsh way. Keep your head up. Best of luck.
2006-12-23 04:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart has its own logic...
Clearly you love them. The question is, what are you going to do about it. When i find myself loving someone who is hurtful, cruel, mean or simply untrustworthy - I stay well back and pray for them. I can not afford to be close because i will just get myself hurt.
Once upon a time, I would be there for them - no matter what - That was lack of respect for myself.
Good luck!
2006-12-23 04:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by crazymamaca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i have the same issue this guy named justin broke my heart once and i still thought i loved him and i asked him out about a week ago he told me what i wanted to hear i thought he was my true love but then a couple days later (yesterday) He broke up wiht me cause he just wanted to b friends other wise he didnt want to b mean i was heart broken and i still think im in luv but i dont know just however this guy has hurt u he doesnt love u and u may think so but he will hurt u again u may not now how much i understand but i really do it has happened to me please dont b as stupid as i was dont take the chance for him to hert u again even if he is the one u think u luv he doesntlove u or he wouldnt hurt u trust me Dont get hurt like i did im still sad he broke my heart to many times and If u go out with this guy then he will hurt u more and more until u have a emotional break please listen
PLease email me i think u have my problem ashley
Or Monkey78362@yahoo.com
2006-12-23 04:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by happy_go_lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 22:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a fact of life.... once you love someone, you can never stop loving them no matter what. it has nothing to do with your self esteem.
true love is when you love him/her with all your heart and she/he loves you back just the same. very hard to find but its out there.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Never ever regret something that once made you smile.
Life was so much easier when boys and girls had cooties.
2006-12-23 04:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't ever help who you fall in love with. All though they might of hurt you emotionally does not make you a bad person. Being insecure and having low self-esteem doesn't make one a bad/ failed relationship.
2006-12-23 04:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by houstonmom77064 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the person you "love" is a player and doesnt deserve you!! you may just want them to love you and change so you make yourself believe that you love them. most likely that person wont change for a long time if they ever do. ppl who use other ppl to get what they want dont stop b/c ppl allow themselves to be used. dont fall into that, find someone who you can be happy with and who will be just as happy and devoted to you!
2006-12-23 04:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋