ok my bestfriend has the most wonderful baby in this world he is so good, and her babys daddy just got outta prison and her boyfriend shawn who shes been on n off with for like 5 years is helpin raise him. now her boyfriend loves this kid, but he doesnt treat her with any respect, he fights and argues and he picks on her and annoys her and she doesnt like him at all anymore but hes living with her her mom and the baby and she doent know how to get rid of him she still loves him but hes taken advatage of her and her mom long enuf n e ideas on wha t could happen
2006-12-23 04:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by leslie0754 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she doesn't take action (I mean, real action) he is going to make her life miserable and bitter. He doesn't care for anybody but himself, and these kind of people are socially and emotionally impaired. He needs profesional help. but if he doesn't relize it, nobody will be able to help him. the best way to deal with this is a break up. there is no other way.
One more thing, her boyfriend DOES NOT love that kid, it is just an emotional weapon he uses to keep her. And she doesn't love him, either, she just thinks she does.
God bless you and give you wisdom.
2006-12-23 04:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control your friend. She will make whatever decision she makes. But keep a close eye on the situation to see if this boyfriend is not allowing her to end the relationship. In that circumstance certain things can be done with the cops and so forth. But otherwise it's really her call. Be supportive of whatever she decides. That's your job as her friend. You have to appreciate the fact that when we look at other people's lives, nothing ever seems like a hard decision. But that's just because, well...it isn't our life.
2006-12-23 12:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Benji Duncan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something the legal system is going to have to be brought in to resolve.
Baby daddy, abusive boyfriend, baby caught in the middle. AND THEY LIVE WITH HER MOTHER SO THIS DRAMA IS IN SOMEONE ELSE'S RESIDENCE?! She also needs prayer on both her situation and her maturity level.
2006-12-23 12:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his PO, fighting is a parole violation.
2006-12-23 12:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be good if he stayed in the babies life ONLY, but as for her, she needs to kick that boy to the curb!
2006-12-23 12:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very complicated.best solution i think is sepparation
2006-12-23 12:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋