2006-12-23 04:05:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, in my opinion!
There is only one mother! were we should take care of her! because she is not a servant so i would forget her when I marry! and the wife should understand that! if she is selfish and love her self! so i dont need this wife. I'll find another one!
2006-12-23 04:23:14 · update #1
Ofcourse your mom should be the priority in life. As mom is always one....only one.....and will be one.
2006-12-23 04:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sonu 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What exactly is being asked to be done? Every man should respect his mother, but should also learn how to say 'no' to her. When you get married, you are making your wife the woman in your life. That means your mother is to step to the side.
She isn't to disappear completely, by any means, but she has her husband to care for her. You are now responsible to care for your wife.
If you feel as though "I can just get another wife", then maybe you are not ready for marriage.
2006-12-23 05:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your wife first, because when you married her, you made a vow to make her first in your life. Before anyone else in your family including your parents. I know, I had to go rounds with my mother because of the way she treated my wife, and I stuck by my wife's side through it all.
2006-12-23 04:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The safest thing for you is to listen to your wife. Your mother may forgive you, but your wife will never forget that you listened to your mom and not her.
2006-12-23 04:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay married, you should give serious weight to what your wife is asking you to do.
A man leaves his parents and cleaves to his wife and the two become one.
men who divorce has a very slim chance of remarrying and staying married
2006-12-23 05:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by iloponise 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
really depends on what is was. But man, i know us guys love our mom's but you gotta think like this. How badly will each person be pissed off, then keep in mind you've only got to live with your wife, everyday, 24/7 365.......forever
2006-12-23 04:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Puzzeled 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You married your wife, not your mom. You should respect the wishes of your wife, unless you want to start a fight. (after all you probably dont have to live with your mom anymore)
2006-12-23 04:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by Soundnut 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There’s no way to answer that question without knowing WHAT they’re asking you to do. I’ve seen both wives and mothers make selfish and unreasonable demands.
2006-12-23 04:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bit difficult to answer since I don't know what deed is on the line, but my advise is this, you have to LIVE with your wife, and you did agree in the marriage vows to leave your mom.
2006-12-23 09:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by girlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a tug of war to me. Do neither and stay out of the war zone, but assure them both that you love them.
(Hint:) The wife is your soul mate.
2006-12-23 04:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only have one mother, but that mother should allow you to have a relationship as a husband too and back away and not be so demaning!!
2006-12-23 04:56:26 · answer #11 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋