I like this guy. I just found out that he knows that I like him. Another girl who's one grade younger also likes him, but he's known that for a year.
I used to talk to him a lot, but that stopped when a conflicted arose last year. We stopped talking and he said he hated me. Then a few months later he said he didn't really care anymore.
Well, he recently said something extrememly rude to me, and acted like he still hated me. So later I told him a story: [short version] I used to be crazy about this guy, but as I got to know him better as a person, I stopped liking him. You know why? I realized he was an asshole.
So a mutual friend later asked if he got the point of the story, and he snapped at her in mid-sentence and said: Yes, I understand the point! Now stop talking to me!
A few days later, he asked the younger girl out. She obviously said yes because she liked him, which he knew. Is there a connection here between what I said and him asking her out now, of all times?
I don't mean to sound conceded, but it seems to me that he's trying to get back at me.
By the way, I know that I need to move on. And I have. But I'm still curious, and if he is just using the other girl, how can I prevent her from getting hurt?
2006-12-23 04:02:58 · 5 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either he is acting cildsh or he really does hate you
2006-12-23 04:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Brendan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flatter yourself... it probably has nothing to do with you.
There is a very small chance that he did ask this other girl out so that you would leave him alone, but if that's the case, the best thing for you to do is just that -- leave him alone. Saying ANYthing to the younger girl will only turn them both against you even more, and it sounds to me like he's not worth the trouble anyways.
2006-12-23 12:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was in love with you, he wouldn't do that! he would boycott all the girls for a while until your relation get back to normal! but he used this impact to evade you! which proves that he is not in love or cares about you!
so don't think about him! and move on! Merry Christmas to you.
2006-12-23 12:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he is just using her,you should just tell her whats going on between you & him!
2006-12-23 12:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by baby_gail68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you really can do here. Best thing is to just drop this whole thing and tell him to grow up.
2006-12-23 12:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋