I jsust broke-up with my bf, I made a mistake in doing that. I told him that I still have feelings for him and he said that i'd had my chance and that he had no more feelings for me. At the holiday dance e was dancing with a girl that I'd thought he'd liked while we were going out. Should I be angry. Worst of all I've been thinking of getting back together with my previous ex, help!!!
2006-12-23 04:01:28 · 23 answers · asked by Katerina Z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and my ex (not the one I jsu broke-up with) really only had one reason to break-up, that we weren't going to be seeing each other for a long time and I'm seeing him alot lately. As for the other thing, we only broke-up on monday so he shouldn't have already moved on.
2006-12-23 04:12:39 · update #1
Look forward, not back.
2006-12-23 04:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Bet you're kicking yourself for dumping him, huh?
2. He probably knew you'd suspected him of liking that girl and he was dancing with her to get back at you.
3. He still has feelings for you, but they may not be good ones!
4. Why should you be angry? What will that solve and how will it improve your situation? Anger is not usually beneficial, so I would not choose that path.
5. Do not go back to your previous ex. He clearly wasn't good enough for you or right for you then; and he is probably still the same person!
6. You do not have to be in a relationship to be happy! Especially when you just ended one that you feel like you shouldn't have ended. Your recent ex may realize how much he misses you if you give it some time, or he may just move on with his life after YOU dumped HIM. That's his right. You have a right to allow yourself to grieve your mistake and the loss of your relationship and then move on with your life! There will be someone else, another chance to fall in love. Hopefully you can move forward and release your past relationships and learn a few lessons from this one!
Peace and blessings to you!
2006-12-23 12:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by minfue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't do anything for the wrong reason. Going back to some one you don't really love would be a mistake. Enjoy life, not always having a boyfriend is that important, relax, cool down, think things over in a mature way. don't rush.
Also, if that guy treated you that way, he was playing with your feelings all along, and you deserve more than that. Too bad you didn't see it before. You are a princess, and should be treated like one. but that respect is not going to be free, you have to earn it or demand it. Just wait and be cautious in your relationships with men. Not all are going to be atracted to you by love... It will be only one, and if you take your relationships lightly, you will miss your chance. By the way "you had your chances" like "I gave you the chance to make me happy?" Honestly, you deserve much more than that .
God Bless you!
2006-12-23 12:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think right now you should be single. Your dont really know what you want. You ex obviously doesnt want to get back together with him and probably wont. I would just take time by yourself and get over him. You had a reason for breaking up with him, so just move on now. If it was meant to be, he will be put back in your life, I promise. I know it hurts but right now just depend on family and friends for support. And dont call him. Infact, delete his number, all his messages and put all the things that remind you of him in a box and give it to one of your trusted friends to hold from you while you get over him. Dont throw that stuff away. Trust me, you will regret it.
2006-12-23 12:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being angry really isn't going to help. You should always be certain of your feelings about someone before you break their hearts. Let him go. If it is meant to be he will come back to you. Regarding your ex, if you are wanting to get back with him for spite purposes DON'T DO IT! If you have feelings for him and really want to be with him then by all means move on and get back together with him.
2006-12-23 12:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by JNR3078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to leave that alone, if the boyfriend dont want you, then thats the way it is, if it happens to me, I dont care, because if it happened to me, nothing will happen, but the good part was when we had a good time, you can say it like that, as long as you did something together, it will last for ever, even if you broke UP.
look at me, i dont have a single girlfriend, nobody will go out with me, for 5 years at least, i did not have a single girlfriend. thats bad
2006-12-23 12:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a NEW guy....exs are exs for SOME reason or another. Theres too many hot guys out there to worry about old boyfriends forever.
2006-12-23 12:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be angery but you can be sad but don't put your self down about it and if you and your previous ex still like each other alot then what is holding you back??????? Best of luck!!
2006-12-23 12:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by panda16_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he likes a new girl now and thats ok because you guys already broke up so you shouldn't be mad, just get a new boyfriend.
2006-12-23 12:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you allready broke up with him, who cares who he's gonna date next? Everything doesnt have to be so dramitized as you make it sound. just go out with whoever you want to and just push forward instead of dwelling on the past.
2006-12-23 12:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by lindsay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one can help you ewith this only you can figure out what u really want in the inside as what i would say is listen to what your heart when it is calling for you . So my advice is that listen to your heart it can be telling you something.
2006-12-23 12:06:10 · answer #11 · answered by Rachael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋