I dont see any benefits, cause I feel alone.
2006-12-23 04:16:17 · 15 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to take sh*it from your girlfriend.
You don't have a biatchy girlfriend yelling and screaming at you because you didn't get her a good gift.
You don't have a biatchy girlfriend yelling and screaming at you because you forgot to send out Xmas cards.
You don't have a biatchy girlfriend yelling and screaming at you to stand in a 2 hour line to get a gift for someone you don't even care about.
You don't have a biatchy girlfriend yelling and screaming at you because you don't make enough money to get everything she wants.
You don't have a biatchy girlfriend saying "Not tonight, I'm tired." despite all you've done for her and put up with.
You don't have a biatchy girlfriend yelling and screaming at you because you can't figure out where your relationship is going.
You don't have a biatchy girlfriend yelling and screaming at you because you didn't get her an engagement ring for Xmas.
You don't have a biatchy girlfriend yelling and screaming at you because you couldn't get to the household chorse because you were running around doing Xmas chores for her.
If you need any more benefits, please, contact me. There is just way too much to list here.
2006-12-23 04:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To get to know yourself and what you really are all about, what you want out of life. It's lonely being single however, take this an an opportunity to do some things for yourself. I enjoy my freedom and like my independence. I feel that I'm a better person alone than being in an unhappy relationship, been there, done that. If the right person comes along, great, but if not, I'm content with being alone and I will not settle for just anyone. I wouldn't jump into another relationship right away because you will take your baggage into that relationship and it won't start out then on a good note. You'll survive, when you are feeling lonely, call someone, go shopping or to the gym. I go to the gym and it's my time to just let go of all my worries, good luck.
2006-12-23 12:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by 1fourthemoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women put a lot more value into relationships than men do. I would ask the opposite question! What are the benefits of being in a relationship? To me, even a good relationship is 50/50 at best - ups & downs! But when you are alone you can relax, you can be yourself, you can do whatever you like, you can focus on things that are more important like career, money, etc.
2006-12-23 12:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been in your boat, but I'm always in long relationships. Its hard to be single after you kind of depend on someone for such a long time. I hate using depend, but you know you atleast always have someone to call on when lonely.
In time the perks of being single might do it for you.
Some people love the freedom and independence of being single and some people just get overwhelmed by it.
Give yourself some time to get adjusted. In the mean time try to focus on other things if you can.
2006-12-23 12:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by HellaFied Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go out and do whatchya want. No one to answer to, and you get to make out with anyone you like, and don't have to worry about feeling guilty. Remember the quote from "Deliver Us From Eva"?
"Honey, the best way to get OVER an old man, is to get UNDER a new one..."LOL!
I don't mean that quote literally, but just go out, have a good time, get some phone #'s, and you'll feel better in no time! Good Luck!
2006-12-23 12:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by mybootyisthatbig79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always do what YOU want to do!!! no disagreements or compromises. just what YOU want for awhile!!! of course you will be looking for a new relationship but might as well enjoy the single life as long as you have it!! toss your dirty clothes all over!!! leave those dirty dishes in the sink!!! drink out of the carton!!! pick a movie that he/she would never let you see!!!! watch tv in the nude! BELCH!!! and don't worry. before you know it, you'll be in a relationship wondering what you ever missed!
2006-12-23 12:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by habs_freak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the best part of being alone after a long relationship is being able to rediscover who you are and where you want to be.
2006-12-23 12:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by kakie829 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You aren't distracted from your commitments, hobbies, and friends.
2. You don't have to worry about keeping one person satisfied with you.
3. You get to do whatever you please without having to check with someone.
4. No kids.
5. You won't feel like you need a man to feel complete.
2006-12-23 14:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have freedom to live life to it's fullest without making any explanations. Hey I'm married so if you feel like talking nbr660@juno.com and have a Merry Christmas.
2006-12-23 12:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by nbr660 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, there isn't enough space here to list all of the benefits, nor do you or I have the time to read thru them all.
Just enjoy your freedom!!
2006-12-23 12:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dan821 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋