Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

I have just started university and in the first lecture, the very second I saw her, I knew she was the one. Gradually over the last 10 weeks, seeing her every day, talking to her now and again I have fallen in love with her. I am now at a stage where I think about her all day, every day! I see her quite often because we are in the same group of friends, she is very good mates with my mates....just that I had never met her before the start of uni. I met her recently with a group of mates, she seemed to show signs that she liked me. Also, i have been talking to her on MSN every 3 days on average, and for the first time, she started a conversation with me today. She knows I like her from about 6 weeks ago. I have never been out with a girl before, I'm not really sure what i should do....basically i'm just extremely confused. All I know is that I love her, I really care about her, i think i am obsessed with her. Any help would be great!

2006-12-22 08:04:44 · 13 answers · asked by Jammy 1 in Singles & Dating

plz tell me soon.

2006-12-22 08:04:26 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah W 2 in Singles & Dating

Myself with my aunty ,mother,bhabhi had seen a girl and said O.K. and my relatives(in which no any male person was there) gave her some Rs as a SHAGUN. Her mother and bhabhi also gave us some money as a shagun,but now we our mind have changed,and dont wanna marry her due to a long journey distance from my district to her district.we are hindu. we have refused them . i wanna know that whether they can force us legally or not to marry. in this case no other ceremony was performed and we dint ever go to her place,they once came my home but we didnt go her place? i would like to know that can any complaint be lodged against us if they want to make a dowry seeking case?i belong from INDIA.

2006-12-22 08:04:18 · 14 answers · asked by vijai t 1 in Weddings

And they laugh at me quitley in public.

2006-12-22 08:04:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-22 08:04:00 · 39 answers · asked by yumna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i get my family to accept my wishes? so when the talk to me they talk to me by name using my middle name?

2006-12-22 08:03:12 · 16 answers · asked by Christ Follower 3 in Family

it's imprtant to read the bible. but i don't know how many people read their bible

2006-12-22 08:03:00 · 19 answers · asked by boogii (i'm 13) 1 in Family

ok well i really like this boy...
and actually ive liked tons of boys but was too shy to talk to them..
they have *** and talked to me plenty of times but i was always just to shy ....
i mean of course i said something back to them but the conversation never lasted because i was too shy!
ugh i hate it!
now i have actually come around and spoken to some of them without problems..
and i realized that im comfortable around them if im with one of my friends....
so yea any advice??

2006-12-22 08:02:52 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I am keeping busy and even going out and have several standing in line wanting to date me? should I start dating again? will this help me get over my ex?

2006-12-22 08:02:36 · 7 answers · asked by jlynna10 3 in Singles & Dating

IMy husband has a x sister in law( she was married to his brother but they divorced many years ago) and she;s remained close to the family which isnt unusual but i think she takes advantage of them as if they owe her because she was wronged by my husband;s brother. We just moved in a house owned y my husband since before we met 2 years ago because we lived abroad.which has 3 rooms,one is occupied by husband elderly mother,one by us of course and the other room this woman's son,my husband's nephew wh is 20 years old and has been living in the house the past 2 years rent free and annoys me we have a 8 month old baby grl who is cramped in with us in our room beccause my husband wont ask him to move yet this woman has remarried and now owns a large house but wont let her son move back with her becuase her new husband doesnt get along with her son.It annoys me that my baby girl doesnt have her own room cause someone elses selsfishness and my husband wants me 2 spend xmas at her house

2006-12-22 08:02:09 · 18 answers · asked by First L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I went and seen a movie today and I just walked right in and sat down. Noboby said a thing. Hey I don't think it's bad those movie theaters make enough money so hey doing that once in a while isnt bad what ya think?

2006-12-22 08:02:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Myself with my aunty ,mother,bhabhi had seen a girl and said O.K. and my relatives(in which no any male person was there) gave her some Rs as a SHAGUN. Her mother and bhabhi also gave us some money as a shagun,but now we our mind have changed,and dont wanna marry her due to a long journey distance from my district to her district.we are hindu. we have refused them . i wanna know that whether they can force us legally or not to marry. in this case no other ceremony was performed and we dint ever go to her place,they once came my home but we didnt go her place? i would like to know that can any complaint be lodged against us if they want to make a dowry seeking case?i belong from INDIA.

2006-12-22 08:01:58 · 8 answers · asked by vijai t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok ive got 4 choices. lets have your honest opinions pls
1: bad boy/ just getting home from being sent off/sweet
2: band geek ( NO offense)/ sweet
3: redneck/ from the back woods/ cheated on me b4
4: find someone else
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ok im more into bad guys but i never tried anything else!!! and im not sure what i want so no offense but plz dont tell me to pick what i want the most cause i aint sure

2006-12-22 08:01:26 · 7 answers · asked by confussed 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy and I'm crazy about him I've liked him for over a year, I talk to him and flirt with him somtimes and he knows I've liked him for a while but someone told him how much I like him on Thursday. Hes in a couple of my classes and I know him pretty well. I'm kinda shy and hes kinda shy. I'm about 2 inches taller than him. I know he likes this other girl but I know for a fact he has no chance with her but guys can like more than 1 girl. He hasen't said anything bad about me but when someone asked him about me he said (lets pretend my name is jane) "mmm... jane". I think it was the good kinda 'mmm'. I know I'm crazy over him and every part of my body just wants to scream untill I die becouse I love him so much and I don't know what he thinks about me!

2006-12-22 08:01:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was reading one of the questions on here and someone mentioned about loving someone but not being in love with them.?
uh explanation?
i mean if you love someone theres a feeling in your heart right.?
not your mind. you don't choose to love someone.
.....

2006-12-22 08:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tie me ,gag,me and spank me till tears run donw my cheeks.

2006-12-22 08:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by Honest Injun 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend hasn't been calling me lately like he usually does. There's been alot of tension between us. We've had some really nasty arguments lately & hurt each other but I hurt him alot more with my words. He hasn't been calling me & hasn't been in the mood to deal with any of this. Because things have NOT been so great with us I felt "tired" of it yesterday & broke up with him but I still have strong feelings for him & I'm sad & heartbroken when I don't hear from him. I splurged on him for Xmas, I bought his baby a generous gift certificate & I bought his Mom some flowers & I'm still giving it all to him regardless. Am I stupid for that? To top it off, out of nowhere, today he lost his job. NOW he's calling me. I'm being as supportive as I can, not holding grudges & I'm STILL sending my Xmas gifts to him. Am I playing a sucker's role? Or should I not send anything since he hasn't been calling me & things have not been so great with us lately?

2006-12-22 08:00:01 · 5 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 07:59:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a girl I'm pretty smitten with - and who I suspect has feelings for me - mentions that she's planning on asking out someone next month (in front of me and some of my friends) does that mean I shouldn't make a move?

Or is it possible she could be trying to bait me or whatever by saying this?

2006-12-22 07:59:35 · 11 answers · asked by hellomister 2 in Singles & Dating

I made friends with a girl at work now she is mad at me and wont talk what should I do. We always sat together and talked about everything. I could see in her eyes she liked me. I was always nice to her and did nice things to make her happy. One day after I did something nice she blew up on me and wouldnt talk to me for a couple days. I tried to talk to her about it and she yelled at me to leave her alone. I left her alone for a couple days then she came around smiling at me and even flirting. I asked her if she was talking to me again and she said very sweet and soft yes with her head down. She cut me off again for no reason. I went and sat with other girls who are nicer to me and ignored her. Now she is real mad. I asked her if we could talk because we were not getting along very well lately and she wasnt interested, cold as ice. I wished her a happy holiday and told her I was sorry for anything I did to her. I got nothing back. Shes 19 im 32 we both have someone else in our lives.

2006-12-22 07:59:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive noticed some wierd stuff about me and my bf...
-before we started going out, i had a dream that he was hurt and it turned out he was when i saw him afterwards
-my first 2 bf's had his same exact last name
-i used to have a ring with HIS birthstone on it(before we met)
-when my mom was pregnant with me, her due date was HIS birthday
-he sometimes calls me RIGHT when im about to call him
-he was on vacation and t9old me he would be back a certain date, when he actually came earlier and wanted to suprise me, but the whole day before i saw him i had the feeling that i WAS going to see him that day, even though i still thought he was away...
no real question, just wanna know if this seems as freaky to you as it does to me...

2006-12-22 07:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat would be the best present to get him.. i have no clue. he told me not to get him something but im going to get him something anyway

2006-12-22 07:58:53 · 6 answers · asked by Megan P 1 in Singles & Dating

does sex feel good?

2006-12-22 07:57:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So There is this opne boy I like and he is so nice to me. He flirts and is charming and makes conversation. He would bend over backwards for me. I like him. We have known each other for 7-8 years. I think he likes me but I am not sure. I don't want to tell him I like him because whatif he doesn't like me. How can I get him to admit he likes me without him knowing?

2006-12-22 07:57:33 · 8 answers · asked by Zizi 2 in Singles & Dating

At my wedding i'm going to play

the song angel by aerosmith as the bridesmaids and grooms men walk down the isle.
and i wanted to play sweet child o' mine by guns n roses as my husband and i walk down the isle at the end of the wedding.

The church were using is ok with the songs being played.But what i'm asking is if you were at my wedding what would you think of my song choice.

2006-12-22 07:57:06 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

Well, this may sound pretty sad and pathetic, but....I have no life. I'm a 17 year old boy and a junior in high school. I have friends, but no close friends. It seems like I'm always staying home, bored. I can't join any sports or anything extra because I work, and don't have the time. It's just that everybody has their little clique, and I'm just left out....on the edges of many different social circles, if that makes any sense. How the heck can I go about getting closer to people....getting a "life"....help!!

2006-12-22 07:56:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-22 07:56:31 · 12 answers · asked by Q&A 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you trust a girl who goes about her life expecting to be trusted or a one who is always trying to prove their trust to you. The reason I ask is because I have known a lot of untrusting people who act like they are supposed to be trusted and people that are trusting also act like they are supposed to be trusted. My girlfriend acts like she should be trusted, but sometimes she does things that make me question her motives and she wont explain them to me so I can understand better her motives. Like Im supposed to just know that she has good intentions for everything rather than earning trust she expects it.

2006-12-22 07:55:18 · 30 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Singles & Dating

And it isn't her husband - whom I know and is a really nice bloke. My mate is suspicious that his mother keeps on going out 'with the girls'. She saw that I saw her just as i was leaving the pub last night and she came running out after me, but i ducked down behind my car and she didn't come and find me - i suppose she wanted to ask me not to tell her son (my mate)
I can't tell my mate, i don't want him to be miserable especially over Christmas - do you think I should say something to her though?

2006-12-22 07:55:01 · 32 answers · asked by merciasounds 5 in Friends

i have this boyfriend he is 15 and im 14, we've been dating for 1 month now and he says he loves me...he treats me really good, he hasn't kissed me yet, he says its different w/me so he is scared to kiss me. im afraid that he dont really like me as much as i like him...he says he loves me w/all him heart and always will. i've been abusive relationships before were they tell me they love me...but he dont hit me. my question is...................Does he love me like he says he does??

2006-12-22 07:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by badassgirl-1 1 in Singles & Dating