Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

Is it ok to return an unwanted present of tracksuit bottoms if I have the reciept even if they have been worn and have only a few minor skidmarks on the gusset part?

2006-12-22 07:54:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was seeing this guy for over a year (casually). He just moved away (another state over) but said he wanted to keep in contact. I emailed him about my feelings, and questions that he had asked me before he left. He emailed me back, but that's been about it. So..I didn't contact him for a month. He always got suspicious if I didn't keep in contact. So he called me lastnight, asked how I was doing, etc. Then he came out & said that he already met a girl that he's hooked up with. Apparently that's all he sees me for, and that I should treat him as just a friend, which is fine. But is he trying to make me jealous? Should I treat him the same way? Like ask him if he wanted to meet halfway and do the "thing"? He's 32 years-old & I'm 25. Shouldn't he be acting more his age by this point? He said he wants to go on this vacation with me, so does he still want to hook up/& keep me on the back burner? Does he miss my booty?

2006-12-22 07:53:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 07:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by Marcus J 1 in Weddings

she is upset because im not doing well with school how do i make her happy again?

2006-12-22 07:52:48 · 21 answers · asked by cute amber 4 in Family

my husbands mother died. She had breast cancer that lead to brain cancer. Four days before her passing, her sister, my husbands aunt minipulated her into changing the will for reasons we dont know of. She did, his two sisters i think knew but didnt say anything to him because of statue of limitations. Well anyways the two sisters got 45% and my husband got 5%, now the sisters all of a sudden dropped all contact with him for the sake of not doing the right thing and split it in 3 ways. What would you do in this situation?

2006-12-22 07:52:34 · 7 answers · asked by browndog513 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to know what to get my soon to be girlfreind for christmas she's 15 and so am i so what to get her?

2006-12-22 07:51:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like him knowing that other men are find me attractive. Is this wrong?

2006-12-22 07:50:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All i know is that her favorite color is yellow.

2006-12-22 07:50:21 · 10 answers · asked by Julz 1 in Friends

I never knew how much racism hurt until it happened to me! Anyway, I was playing a game on Yahoo ( yahoo graffiti) and one of my team mates just got mad because we were losing.....and just joined a few minutes before. So he is talking alot of foolishness about how horrible I was doing.....and I didn't appreciate it! And so we were constantly going back and forth, but I never disrespected him.....not even once even though I wanted to. (I was always taught never to disrespect someone even if they disrespect you) Then all of a sudden he says "Just because you are black doesn't mean you have a right poppin a cap everytime!!!" And after that I didn't say not one word. Everyone else said that he was rude, ignorant, and a racist!! And I couldn't have agreed more.



But the question is how would you have handled this situationn? Did I do the right thing by not saying anything?

2006-12-22 07:48:56 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica Renee 3 in Friends

Okay please?

2006-12-22 07:48:45 · 10 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Friends

I was just dumped today, 4 days before Xmas. My boyfriend is 20 years older than I am and we live together. We had our share of problems but this is a pretty low blow. I have no one here during Xmas so I will be spending it solo. My mother is going back home to California where we are originally from. We have only been in Texas for a year and my boyfriend has lived here for over 25 years now. We work at the same place but not in the same department. Not working in the same department does lesson the effect a bit.

I know in the past we have had our share of issues. It all came to a head during my mother’s Bday party last night. My boyfriend has been getting pretty emotionally abusive lately since I got sick a few months ago with an ovarian cyst. My sex drive had been through the roof in the past but lately (I’m in my mid thirties) things have been off kilter since my cyst. Well my boyfriend has a wondering eye at times and was eyeing my mother’s best friend and my best friend during the party, and I called him on it. He instantly got emotionally abusive, cussing and ranting about how F**!* up I was for saying that. Well we discussed it a short while when we left the party and I apologized and he said we could put it past us.

Well to make a long story short this morning I called to check up on my man and he never said I love you and we always say that. He also stated that he didn’t’ want me coming back. I told him “But I’ll be alone for Xmas”. He said, “I’m sorry but….”.

I have a butt load of things to pick up from his place. He never even asked where I would go. It’s 4 days before Xmas too. His friends tell me that he’s too set in his ways and I deserve better. They also said he hasn’t totally gotten over his previous relationships.

We were supposed to exchange gifts this Sunday but my friends and family say to not give it to him and to get my money back for the presents.

I have to go over there after work and he told me after I called back that he will have my things ready to go when I get over there after work. I told him that this was really low but he kept saying, “I’m sorry but I like being alone right now”

I feel since I’ve been with him I’ve had to make up for past relationships, trying to make this one go smooth. He’s selfish. He can’t deal with anything like “disagreements, change, etc.”

Here’s my question, should I give him his gift and how should I act when I go over there. I’ve cried a river since I’ve been at work and he dumped me at 8:30 a.m, this morning.?

2006-12-22 07:48:25 · 18 answers · asked by Katintransit 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married since the age of 16. So i guess I will give up my age.... so total years of marriage 13. I have 4 children with my hubby. All is good, can't ask for more, kids, dogs, big house, nice cars, good jobs.... but someone in here asked a question Your best love moment.. I don't think I have one. My relationship with my husband is based on sex... don't get me wrong we get along. I just don't think I have ever been head over heels over him AKA IN LOVE!...

2006-12-22 07:48:21 · 8 answers · asked by violet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this one person with the initals of K.H. and I want to know if he likes me. What are the signs?

2006-12-22 07:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by Zizi 2 in Singles & Dating

Im kinda weirded out!!!!!!!!!!!!?
ok
Two days ago this guy asked me out i said no and he said he was just kidding
Then Yesterday a different boy asked me out and i said no then he told me he would take me to this movie i wanted to see he said he was serious so i said yes but then today he says he was just joking
Now today my guy-friend winked at me and has been really like freakish nice to me when normally we make fun of each-other, just joking around

These guys have never liked me b4 and ever since my mom and i had this talk about me being more confident in myself these guys have been acting like this???

What should i do and what is going on???????

o we are all in 7th grade

2006-12-22 07:44:40 · 22 answers · asked by Under_the_sunset 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 07:43:53 · 8 answers · asked by nickydig9 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl who knew my bf ages ago (and liked him) like over a year ok. well he dont want to talk to her anymore and made that pretty clear. we hadn't heard from her inawhile but lately he got this random txt from a girl claming to know a friend of his saying her name was melissa. she just asked random quetiosn and stuff. well we were confused so rang the number and found out it was this girl from ages ago pretending to be someone else using a different phone. is that really sad and desperate or what! am i wright in thinking shes not over my bf?

2006-12-22 07:43:46 · 20 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 07:43:38 · 6 answers · asked by Loverrr 1 in Singles & Dating

like you werent attracted to them at first but when you got to know them and found out how wonderful they are they started to become physcially attractive to you?

2006-12-22 07:42:56 · 45 answers · asked by goodgu l 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 07:42:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When women are single the consequence is they have to compromise on the Quality of guy they seek. But it seems like once in a relationship they just don't care.

2006-12-22 07:42:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love this guy sooooo much!!!!!!!!! but i dont think he loves me back!!!!!!!!! we've been friends for a long time and dated on and off!!!!!!!! rite now we're not dating!!!! but i think he's the one!!!!!!! i dont want to give it up that easy!!!!!!! i love him!!!!!!!!

2006-12-22 07:41:53 · 23 answers · asked by shly_dowell 1 in Singles & Dating

When women are single the consequence is they have to compromise on the Quality of guy they seek. But it seems like once in a relationship they just don't care.

2006-12-22 07:41:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does each "base" represent before "going all the way"?

2006-12-22 07:41:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, i like eight guys in all so far.......is that to many???????

2006-12-22 07:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by Haybay (: 2 in Singles & Dating

at all? would you cheat on him if you marry him?

2006-12-22 07:41:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I'm trying to decide when I should tell my daughter that my husband now is not her father? Or shouldnt I tell her? I don't know what to do...My husband has been in her life sence she was 1 1/2 years old. Right now she is 6 years old. He is the only one she knows as dad. She has never seen her real father. He is no where to be found. I've tried all I can. What should I do????

2006-12-22 07:40:41 · 19 answers · asked by the_girl_u_call_amanda 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

cause seem like he dont to much care about me any more so im trying to keep my head of an getting over the warries thats y i had to come on hurr to please ax somebody to please help me cuz i m warried about hem to much plus i really had mad luv 4 hem an i miss hem wit all my hart. thank yall if yall can help me. bye!

2006-12-22 07:39:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

presents for my family for £5

2006-12-22 07:39:48 · 36 answers · asked by Mya 1 in Family

do you believe in love? do you believe love is fact or fiction? well, here is the truth, its fact. There is this boy. Hes my boyfriend. he says he loves me and i love him too. he doesnt know this but i cry, i cry a lot. my grandma,(whom took care of me) died when i was 2. and my dad has been in jail since i was 7. my grandpa hates me, i live with him because my mom lives far away and i havent seen her in 11 years, i dk where shes at. my brother didnt make it out of the hospital after birth, he died in my dads arms at 2 minutes old. my other brother, i never seen him. for the first time in my life i feel like someone cares, i think i love him. i cry when hes not there, i get butterflies when he is but i feel 100% comfortable with him. I cannot describe him, do you think i am in love?

if you wanna talk more then e mail me at makaylacook99@yahoo.com

2006-12-22 07:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by makayla c 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this great guy that I have always cared about and at one time I thought I loved. He has loved me with all of his heart for over 15 years and has asked me to marry him. It would be a good life, but should I settle in a relationship that would not have equal feelings? Is it possible for there to be a 50/50 give and take kind of love?

2006-12-22 07:39:30 · 17 answers · asked by jlynna10 3 in Singles & Dating