Im kinda weirded out!!!!!!!!!!!!?
ok
Two days ago this guy asked me out i said no and he said he was just kidding
Then Yesterday a different boy asked me out and i said no then he told me he would take me to this movie i wanted to see he said he was serious so i said yes but then today he says he was just joking
Now today my guy-friend winked at me and has been really like freakish nice to me when normally we make fun of each-other, just joking around
These guys have never liked me b4 and ever since my mom and i had this talk about me being more confident in myself these guys have been acting like this???
What should i do and what is going on???????
o we are all in 7th grade
2006-12-22 07:44:40 · 22 answers · asked by Under_the_sunset 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go back to that talk you had with your mom. Learn to accept yourself without judgment. You are the best and most wonderful person you know. You are great. Honor yourself, love yourself and recognize yourself for how super you really are. As for others, they are whatever they are. You can't change them. All you have control over is how you react to life, and to others. You can decide that you will accept, or reject how another acts or talks or whatever. If you learn to accept yourself unconditionally, then you can take or leave anybody else.
2006-12-22 07:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are they all friends? If so, it could be some ploy to see which one of them can get you first. If they are all acting strange, then they too need to be a part of your change, sometimes when you've matured and see life through a different eye, you also have to drop excess baggage that will tend to hinder you. So if these guys are acting immature and strange, then maybe it's time to drop them and move on. Hopefully then they'll learn to appreciate that you're not one to be toyed with, and if they are interested in you, then they need to act the part and stop playing childish games.
7th grade would put you at what age cause I'm more familiar with class 1,2,3,4 at primary school and 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th form at secondary school. What ever the case, you seem very mature for your age. Keep it up and in time you'll find a guy worthy of your company.
2006-12-22 15:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys at this stage in life are attempting to find out the what, how, where, and when of girls. I am 37 and I still don't know the why, so that is why you don't see that mentioned with the rest of the W's. Guys don't know how to read girls thoughts or intentions at anystage in life, but it is a lot harder when you are just starting out. So relax and wait for them to grow up, you already have a 3 year maturity gap on them. One day it will be a 7 year gap and at middle age you will have a 20-30 year gap on them. So just have fun and don't worry about it.
2006-12-22 15:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first guy was serious, but you turned him down so he had to redeem himself by saying that he was joking, he sent his friend over to as you out to see whether you were a tease, and you said yes, now he winks at you because he has placed you in a certain catagory. But don't let that stop you, stay confident, and a nice boy will come along in time.
2006-12-22 15:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey guess what i am in 7th grade too. half the time there are these boys looking at me and a couple asked me out but i said no because they did not look serious. u should not go with these guys maybe they have a bet or something
2006-12-22 15:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by soccermolajt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 7th grade you should not be dating to begin with. Where are your parents??? No 7th grade girl should go on a date with a boy unsupervised. Period. Your parents ought be checking your email and messenger and following you like a hawk.
Be a kid 1st, I've heard too many horror stories of jr high girls now babies having babies because they couldn't say no to someone. Please talk to your parent about dating. If you don't have a good role model at home talk to your school counselors..
2006-12-22 15:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear who is in control. In order to get you "THE GUY HAS TO DO ALL THE WORK NOT YOU"
Did you understand that?
Play damn hard to get and you witll be chased. Make this a habit for all your life. Make them know the value of your company and you will be treated better. You dont go with any guy who isnt making it clear. and he must show his worthyness and bravery or you dont budge. Do you want averagey guys around you or dweebs? Or do you prefer strong brave guys who will lay the cards on the table? Make it clear the kind of guy you want in your life and they will come. dont accept game playing. You cant be got that way.
2006-12-22 15:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Brendan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are too young to date! What are you thinking. You have your whole life in front of you. Second of all, when somebody has more confidence in themself others can tell and that is a huge turn on. The boys like you and you should be happy but find one that really likes you and that you really like before you start dating everyone. Be true to yourself.
2006-12-22 15:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either they are playing a game.
They read in the restroom you was easy.
They noticed the change in you, and finding you attravtive.
2006-12-22 15:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Go home and play with your Barbie dolls or something. XBox, PS2, anything......just don't ask anymore stupid questions until you are old enough to at least drive. And stay away from boys, they are the devil!
2006-12-22 15:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋