like you werent attracted to them at first but when you got to know them and found out how wonderful they are they started to become physcially attractive to you?
2006-12-22 07:42:56 · 45 answers · asked by goodgu l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Looks fade. A great personality will last forever!
2006-12-22 07:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Very much so. My husband and I started off by talking on the phone. We hadn't met or seen a picture of each other but we really fell in love with each others personality. When we met I wasn't particularly attracted to him. But the next time I saw i was just so in love and thought he looked so cute. He said that at first that I wasn't his type either. Not that either one of us were ugly we just had other prefrences. Now I think he is the most handsome man in the world.
That happens because I believe that personality makes a person. I have met very attractive people that had the worse attitudes. That made them so ugly and I didn't like them at all. Thats why beauty is only skin deep. Go by the personality. Wins everytime.
2006-12-22 07:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chrisy 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
YES! My ex boyfriend, actually. He's really not my tyle (I'm not saying I need Mr. Abercrombie/Hollister or anything, but I need someone with some sort of coordination (but with a brain)). He's not athletic, is a few chocolate chips short of a cookie, and isn't the hottest man alive (that makes him sound ugly.....but you get the idea). But it was his personality that really drove me to him. He was the most caring person in the world, and I loved him for it. And, he was funny. I wish more guys were like him.
2006-12-22 07:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
yes it happens, but it hasn't happen to me. i usually go for the physical attraction and only stay in relationship or a serious relationship with someone with a good personality. my standard is prettiness. if she's pretty enough to wake up every morning to any other physical aspect just needs to be at least average.
2006-12-22 07:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by the_blue_eyed_papi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Absolutely!!!!
The sexiest part of a person is their mind. Don't get me wrong, it's nice to have a pretty wrapper too, but a persons personality is the most important feature there is.
2006-12-22 08:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Of course. It's the only way to have a lasting relationship. Sure, hot people are instantly attractive, but as they say, beauty fades.
The person with the amazing personality becomes more and more beautiful over time, as you fall deeper and deeper in love with them.
Good luck with love!
2006-12-22 07:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Yea, I met some one in another city and I started talking to her on the phone and on the Internet and so I didn't really see her for a few weeks after I met her. Then when I got to see her again I already knew her personality so her looks made no difference to me.
2006-12-22 07:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by codie_m_91 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes. That's how I fell in love with my husband. I didn't know what he looked like and it didn't matter to me he had a great personality and a great sense of humor which is what's really important to me in a reationship not looks which fed after time.
2006-12-22 07:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Oh definitely!! Personality lasts forever--looks are just some added benefits. But I was in a similar situation and found out that liking someone ONLY based on looks will usually get you nowhere. :)
2006-12-22 07:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah totally man. Its like you can just feel yourself opening up. You realise that this person has so much that most people fail to see. Even you failed to see it at first. Then suddenly there it is .. a heck of alot of beautiful qualities that seem so clear now to you. yeah man I know this experience. Its actually a grat thing to happen. You first appreciate other things about this person and this opens the door to their beauty. Excellent
2006-12-22 07:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by Brendan C 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes. I think this happens alot and relationships based on this type of meeting lasts longer than those based on the fall in love first instant types.
2006-12-22 08:24:06 · answer #11 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋