I have been married since the age of 16. So i guess I will give up my age.... so total years of marriage 13. I have 4 children with my hubby. All is good, can't ask for more, kids, dogs, big house, nice cars, good jobs.... but someone in here asked a question Your best love moment.. I don't think I have one. My relationship with my husband is based on sex... don't get me wrong we get along. I just don't think I have ever been head over heels over him AKA IN LOVE!...
2006-12-22 07:48:21 · 8 answers · asked by violet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love is not a feeling it is action.. It is "something that we do"
It's feeding the baby in the middle of the night, it's having that proverbial argument about the toilet seat and being able to laugh about it..
Lighten up and enjoy what you have. quit questioning what you don't have.. It's matter of acting as if.
See below:
I remember well the day we wed
I can see that picture in my head
I still believe the words we said
Forever will ring true
Love is certain, love is kind
Love is yours and love is mine
But it isn't something that we find
It's something that we do
It's holding tight, lettin' go
It's flying high and laying low
Let your strongest feelings show
And your weakness, too
It's a little and a lot to ask
An endless and a welcome task
Love isn't something that we have
It's something that we do
We help to make each other all that we can be
Though we can find our strength and inspiration independently
The way we work together is what sets our love apart
So closely that you can't tell where I end and where you start
It gives me heart remembering how
We started with a simple vow
There's so much to look back on now
Still it feels brand-new
We're on a road that has no end
And each day we begin again
Love's not just something that we're in
It's something that we do
We help to make each other all that we can be
Though we can find our strength and inspiration independently
The way we work together is what sets our love apart
So closely that you can't tell where I end and where you start
Love is wide, love is long
Love is deep and love is strong
Love is why I love this song
And I hope you love it too
I remember well the day we wed
I can see that picture in my head
Love isn't just those words we said
It's something that we do
There's no request too big or small
We give ourselves, we give our all
Love isn't someplace that we fall
It's something that we do
2006-12-22 08:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honor yourself. Learn to love yourself. Recognize that you are the greatest person you know. And recognize that you can't change others...you can only change how you react. So in looking at your life you feel you've missed a "best love moment". How about when you looked at your newborn children? How about when you and your husband were making the babies? How about when one of your children reported being proud for some minor accomplishment and you could feel his pride? How about when your husband came home and reported some kind of success at work? Any feelings then? The feeling of "love" comes from within. If you love yourself you can learn to love another. Be good to yourself.
2006-12-22 08:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, It sounds like you have a very good thing. It may seem a little dull or ordinary, but in the long run it isn't about fireworks. Your best love moment is in the small things. Enjoy your life and family.... life is very short so don't look for greener grass.
2006-12-22 08:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Peepers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that love is relative and everyone has a different perception of what it is.
In my opinion I think it is a situation where you know you can count on someone no matter what cause you know they are looking out for your best interest.
2006-12-22 07:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is a verb. When you do everything possible for the welfare of another you are showing LOVE. You don't fall in LOVE. You can only fall in lust.
2006-12-22 08:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Professor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love for each person is different.
For me, it is someone I am close with who I can talk to and snuggle with. Oh, and have sex with. :)
2006-12-22 07:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably why you are still together.
2006-12-22 07:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the greatest feeling i the world!
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2006-12-22 07:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by bradystjames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋