Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

ive had one long turn boyfriend for 1 years and we have had sex. and i regret it o much. and we r broken up and we broke up 3 week after we had sex and noww he says he never liked me he just used me cause he knew he could have s*x with me and the sex was not even that good the only good thing was that i lasted really long. so idk and now everyone knows ive had sex and im in 8th grade

2006-12-21 15:04:08 · 14 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is ther a guy out there that actually cares about a girls feeling cause i cant seem to meet a single one ever and i know alot of guys.

2006-12-21 15:04:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need your help now if any day. I had always told him I wanted a ring because I never got a nice gift from a guy. The only thing I got was make-up. Well here is somethings that make me believe it is. First off, his history on the internet says he was on ebay looking for engagment rings, but then today he said he was not buying any rings cause all it seems to do it ruin the relationship(he is only saying this for a coverup?). Then I was going to throw this little box away and he told me not to because he could use it for someone's gift(everyone's shopping is done but mine). THEN he gets paid here soon and he said he is going to buy my gift before he pays anything at all(and his checks are really good) What do you all think?

2006-12-21 15:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by me_myself 2 in Singles & Dating

So theres this guy... and i sort of made him really pissed @ me and i kind of want to be friends. Is there a way to patch it up without seeming really desperate and stalker-like?

2006-12-21 15:03:05 · 4 answers · asked by XxXGiRLNeXtDooRXxX 2 in Friends

My fiance (we are getting married in January) does not like the way I dress. He wants me to wear tight fitting clothes all the time. I don't feel particularly comfortable wearing tight fitting clothes.

Yesterday there was a function and I had to wear something formal. He kept on telling me that he didn't like what I wore. I was deeply hurt and sat by myself.

Why would he behave this way? Ladies, what would you do in a situation like this? Guys, what do you advise me to do?

I accept and love him for who he is.

2006-12-21 15:02:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 15:02:20 · 36 answers · asked by annabanana 2 in Singles & Dating

I got dumped, told to move out, then told to stay, and we would work on it, but you have to sleep on the couch...What does it even mean?

2006-12-21 15:00:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my bf are planing on giving each other our 1st kiss and real soon, but is there anything you do or say after it? I need alot of help and tips and advice on this subject (1st kisses) cause i want my bf to enjoy his 1st kiss too. The person who asnswers the question, and gives the most examples/advice or tips will get the 10 pts. It would be cool if you numbered them too.

THANK YOU ALOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-21 14:59:57 · 13 answers · asked by sammie_428 1 in Singles & Dating

I go to church where these three mixed kids and there white mother go. I AM NOT BEING RACIST! Our church is all African American except for those. We had a Christmas program and I noticed bruises on one of two little girls' face. I asked her what happened she said nothing and I don't know. I took her to the bathroom and asked her and she said her mom slaps her and beats her and her brother and sister. She is only 6. I want to help but how? I know if I go back to the mom the girl is going to be in trouble. What should I do?

2006-12-21 14:59:33 · 14 answers · asked by younggirl_1106 1 in Friends

ok i love my boyfriend. He is hot sporty but should i spend christmas with him too or just with my family?

P.s we have been going out for 9 months

2006-12-21 14:59:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont kno how to start a conversation b/c im 2 shy and i dont kno how to atract him and the best part is that he has a twin one twin is quieter than the other

2006-12-21 14:58:56 · 4 answers · asked by kiera 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy but i the only time i hang out with him is when he is at my house with my brother because they are best friends...he is 1 year older than me and i dont no if he likes and i think he might like someone else...how do i change his mind to like me???

2006-12-21 14:58:22 · 1 answers · asked by jen 2 in Singles & Dating

i want it more and he dont want it as much. we fight over it. He says he has grown up and doesnt need it all the time. He says I never try - and I do sometimes but sometimes i want him to try. im so frustrated i have thought about cheating.

2006-12-21 14:57:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i start to hang out with and develop feelings for starts showing intrest in hanging out and getting to know me. but he never really calls me or anything. we had our first 2 hour phone conversation last night, he talked a lot. but he doesnt show intrest that he wants to get to know me much? seems like he talks alot about himself..

he was flirting with these girls yesterday and everything but later on hes all explaining that he knewthem for a long time. i looked mad and he seemd concerned but he didnt ask me straight up what was wrong.

theres this girl that goes everywhere with him and i am beggining to too.. but i know that not much will happen with her around. yet we cant not have her come along. im starting to be very good friends but i cant admit my feelings for him to her or him cause i get this strange feeling that everything will change.then theres other girls that cling to him.. a lot.. but most of the time he chills with me.. and our frien what should ido

2006-12-21 14:57:46 · 3 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

My (guy)friend likes this girl.
here's the story: She had(or has) a boyfriend. But even while they were together, she still flirted with him. He likes her, but everybody that knows her tells him that she's a slut. She barely even knows him, and she says a lot of negative stuff to him.
He practically drools over her, because she's pretty, and smart.
(She said one smart comment, and now he thinks that she's smart) he's not sure if he should hook up with her or not. I think she's just using him, and giving him the attention that she gives every other guy. How do I convince him of that? He knows it too, he just won't listen to his brain just his heart.

2006-12-21 14:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by Yay! 4 in Friends

my bf {boyfriend} is rlly into rock and stuff lik tht lik he rlly liks music
any sugestions?

2006-12-21 14:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by adorable_cowgirl_16 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so my bf and I broke up last week over the fact that he said he needs his freedom and he feels like he's in prison living with me. That's because I found him texting 3 different women on his phone when he was sleeping. He says I was snooping and that nothing was going on with those women and that they were all just friends. I don't believe him at all. So, I kicked him out and he went to stay at a guy friends house for the last week. But then last night, he comes to my house at 3am saying that the guy he was staying with's girlfriend is pissed that he's still staying there and that he had to leave. I know it was wrong to let him in but I've known him for 8 years and it's hard to let someone you care about sleep in their car at christmas time. I thought he'd be leaving today but tonight he just goes out with his friends and acts like nothing is wrong. If it were such a prison in my house why would he want to come back? And NO we did not have sex and I made him sleep on the couch too

2006-12-21 14:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by goddessgirl917 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you get into a relationship with a girl who wants to wait to have sex until marraige, even though she isn't a virgin?

2006-12-21 14:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my friend has been having an internet relationship with a guy from a different state, they've never met before but i can tell she really likes him. She tells me he is really caring and devoted (but in this world who can tell). Do you think she should trust him? oh and its only been about 2 weeks of them dating and they've already said "I love You".

2006-12-21 14:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by ~$~_-_-_-_~!*Makana!*~_-_-_-_~$~ 1 in Singles & Dating

tell the truth???

2006-12-21 14:55:46 · 27 answers · asked by RrcT09 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on a girl i harly know.she speaks n touches me like an angel standing next to me.her kisses is like being kissed by a princess.im feel joy to some1 who is engage.i feel weak n hollow when shes not with me.i said to myself wat is this feeling towards some1 that i dont know n that some1 cares 4 me too?

2006-12-21 14:55:02 · 1 answers · asked by cutespanishhomeboy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 14:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you hear the word "pink!"

Someone told me this, and I thought it might be interesting to post.

2006-12-21 14:53:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 20 yearold college student. I am incredibley shy. I maybe talk to 6 or 7 people at school, and that's it. I don't have any close friends (don't do anything outside of school with anyone). Because of this and my lack of friends, I have basically no self-confidence in social situations. I always feel awkward when I talk to people, and there are always many awkward pauses in the conversation. Personally I don't see why anyone would want to talk to me, so I tend to be very quiet among people I don't know very very well. I know that to get confidence I need to "dive in head first," but where do I start? I can't just have a conversation, or join in a discussion without getting very nervous (I start to sweat) and feeling awkward.

I don't want to make this my family's issue either, it would become a whole thing..

2006-12-21 14:53:31 · 7 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

2006-12-21 14:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 3 weeks ago my sister in law was telling me how she cooks her ham. I made a joke as I always do, and she called me a stupid *****, and that she hates talking to me. She also makes jokes, anyway we are having Christmas dinner at my house this year and I do not want her here, but my husband tells me to get over it for one day. I called her and ask why she was telling everyone that she called me a ***** and she stated that it was none of my bussiness and hung up on me. I don't understand why she would even think to show her face up here, and I don't understand my husband, not standing up for me. She is 60 years old and lives at her mothers home with her husband. She is the one bringing her mom. Do I need to be nice, as far as talking to her, letting her in my house, etc??????

2006-12-21 14:53:16 · 12 answers · asked by revia1467 2 in Family

and now are living together. I dont want to push into marriage but i just want him to see I am a great person.
I do everything i can. But I have got to be missing something.

2006-12-21 14:52:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"Cheaters" seems to be a topic that is talked about alot in tv shows. And just in general girls say men are often cheaters. Personally i don't know why but that's what they say. And some are yeah. I wonder what would the limit of girls be before a cheater would get caught by one of the girls? Or can he be so sneaky and never get caught and have 20 or more?

2006-12-21 14:51:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm still outraged and pissed off beyond words that it was done to me, but I just found an article that gives us mutilated circumcised men some hope. I read 2 very reliable studies that prove that sensitivity in the head of the penis is not lost. They tested to see if the head of a circumcised penis to become more callised than an uncircumcised penis head and found that it was not. They also did sensitivity tests and found that the penis heads of both circed and uncirced were equally sensitive. So at least us mutilated men still have that. Unfortunatly, in most circumcisions, the frenulum (The most sensitive part of the penis) gets completely removed and therefore reduces sensitivity in the penis. For any man who feels as mutilated as I do, I hope this eases some of your emotional pain.

2006-12-21 14:51:27 · 20 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever noticed that it's one partner giving more. I know that it's never 50 50 but some times it seems like one is always giving more then the other

2006-12-21 14:49:39 · 16 answers · asked by liberty girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce