ive had sex and regret it and everyone knows and im a "s**t"?

Question

ive had one long turn boyfriend for 1 years and we have had sex. and i regret it o much. and we r broken up and we broke up 3 week after we had sex and noww he says he never liked me he just used me cause he knew he could have s*x with me and the sex was not even that good the only good thing was that i lasted really long. so idk and now everyone knows ive had sex and im in 8th grade

i think im going to move school i justt cantt take it.
should i stand up to the people who call me names should i talk to him aobut it what should i do!

Answer 1

Just be yourself.
you did it! it is pure truth.
but why you did it?
you did not do sex with a guy just because to have a very long time relation with him. you want to have sex because you want do it and you think you have found a guy who can please you. hopefully for a long time.
and what happened? you did it. you found pleasure and....oh no he did not stay for a long time. and this was not the first part of your problem. it was just a hope and the third part. the last part. isn't it?
satisfy your life. short and long time relations does not important. just be yourself. live strong and stay to introduce proudly to others and even himself, who really you are.

Answer 2

I do not think you are any less of a good person because you have done that. He is a jerk and should be kicked in the balls for disrespecting you. Most guys are jerks up until they are very old. I have had sex, a guy (17), and I regret it. I didn't find it any better than oral which I have been doing with the same girl for quite some time, and she's the only one. There is no proper age. Just stand up and say that you are not bad--you mad a mistake that you will not do again and that they are just as bad for joking you. You are worth so much in life, and I believe you will rise up to a better level--a better person. There is somebody good for you. God Bless.

Answer 3

The boy, and I literally mean that, is trying to placate his ego and seem like Mr. Big to his friends.
Okay, you made a mistake in regards to the timing and the person. Learn from it and try never to make the same mistake. At your age sometimes this seems really hard to do, especially in the judgemental teen years. However, one sexual encounter does not make you a slut, so throw that title in the trash and shrug off the crude comments from the boys and catty comments from the girls.
As you get older and more mature, hopefully after you at least finish high school, a guy will come into your life and make you glad that you waited for him to arrive. He will accept you for you and base a realtionship not upon a physical need, but upon emotional understanding and commitment.
Like I said, don't get all wrapped up in the teenage comments as it will do you no good. And as far as your ex-boyfriend goes, you are better off with him out of your life.

Answer 4

First thing dont regret about what you have already done due to immaturity. It is good you feel it was a mistake. You can not alter it. So dont demean yourself for what you did long time back. Respect yourself. Pray to god. it gives lot of strength. You are a nice girl. Just think that you are a nice girl. Dont look back. Concentrate on studies and get good grades. Dont care what others say about you. You are a better human being than those who accuse you. Dont keep imagining what others might think about you. It is a waste of time.

Answer 5

GIRL!!!! You have no business having sex in 8th grade. If you are being called a slut it is cause your acting like one by having sex so young. Didn't your momma teach you any better than this? I guess not so I'll preach to you then. BOYS!!!! only want one thing and one thing only at your age and all the way up till your like DEAD. KEEP your legs shut from now on and maybe everyone will forget about it with time. I can tell you also now that everyone knows you had sex all kinds of guys will be knocking at your door trying to get a piece of the pie..

Answer 6

Oh, f*ck all of them! It's your boyfriend fault for ever using you. I've been in this situation before and it's not pretty. They called you a slut? What do they know? They aren't in your position so ignore them. Regrets are regrets right? Trust me, there are more things in life you can worry about than this. Keep your head high and tell yourself they aren't worth your time. Strength will lead you further! If you have anymore issues with this topic, come back and share.

Answer 7

I am so sorry that you have learned a tough lesson the hard way. Now that you know from personal experience the emotional consequences of sex, make a promise to yourself to not have sex again until you are married. There are other unwanted consequences like unplanned pregnancy and std's. BTW hold your head up. We all make mistakes. It is the lesson learned that counts.

Answer 8

Listen, you're too young too have s*x anyway. Eighth grade? That's why everyone's calling you a s***. You shouldn't worry about that until later. Just make yourself a promise not to have sex till marrige. I'm sorry for your troubles.

Happy Holidays

Answer 9

Get a hold of yourself and start growing a spine and tell these people to f*** off. Who cares what people think, you know your not a s**t right? You made a mistake, and guess what? We all make mistakes in life. Start standing up to these clowns and don't let them push you around.

Answer 10

Sorry honey, guys that age can be such jerks! He's just trying to sound cool to other guys, that's why he's saying those things about you.

Watch out, because since people know, other guys will probably try to hook up with you to see if they can get the same thing. Don't give them the satisfaction.