i want it more and he dont want it as much. we fight over it. He says he has grown up and doesnt need it all the time. He says I never try - and I do sometimes but sometimes i want him to try. im so frustrated i have thought about cheating.
2006-12-21 14:57:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too comfortable the thrill is gone..
rekindle the flame..
surprise him with a little serious romance..
little love notes, candle lit champagne and strawberries
whisper in his ear..
then bam..
bam bam bam
awe yeah, what's my name baby..
2006-12-21 15:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by bruiris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big question is how old are you both? As males age our sex drive goes down...
Also now that you see each other more (living together) you may be spending too much time together... Getting routine if you know what i mean. Try new things to get everything livened up (not just in bed). Keep the whole relationship new and exciting!
2006-12-21 23:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Craig G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and get yourself into a relationship with someone who wants to marry you.
Cheating does not make anything better or right. Just terminate the relationship and find someone you can spend the rest of your life with. If you are thinking of cheating on a live-in boyfriend, figure out what your morals and ethics are before you marry. Marriage, in the eyes of God, is sacred and everything that goes with it.
2006-12-21 23:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by D.A. S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL NO OFFENSE BUT IF U TWO ARE NOT MARRIED U SHOULDNT BE LIVING TOGETHER FOR WHAT
AND THEN TO MAKE IT A HILLIONS TIMES WORST HAVING SEX WITH HIM
I MEAN REALLY WHY HAVE INTEREST IN SOMETHING OR SOMEONE WHO DEMANDS NOTHING
SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS A COMMITMENT BEFORE ANY KIND CONVERSATION OF LIVING TOGETHER OR SEX
U ARE WAY TO SPECIAL TO LIVE LIKE THIS OR THAT HOW EVER U WANT TO PUT IT
GET YOUR OWN PLACE AND GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER
NOT INSULTING AND NOT BEING RUDE
JUST GIVING SOME SOUND ADVICE.....
GOOD LUCK SWEETY
BYE
2006-12-21 23:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for people to go easy on the sex life after awhile.... you must be too hyper for him to handle...not everybody has a high sex drive....It's harder for guys okay...if you feel like cheating then you might as well tell him that...see what he says about it....or leave him if his libido is not good enough for you.....If you love him and still want him?....get a dildo.....or some other sex toys...that should help...but don't cheat on him....
2006-12-21 23:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not the answer, if you are not happy then leave. Alot of men like to feel wanted and for the female to make the moves. (so my husband says every now and again).
2006-12-21 23:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens. It is normally one out of the two takes initiative and other is passive. It cud be man or the woman. Why do u not try urself above him? This will give u more satisfaction and u may urself not need it so frequently.
2006-12-21 23:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him excited.... Don't be available to him all the time... make sure you are not home when he is... so gets jelaous....
most people want what they can't have.... Any relationship can become boring... you don't want that to happen... Give him some space... and stop bugging him. go and buy some new outfits and if you need to go and start dating other people.. you are not married so there is no guilt.... Enjoy while you can... GOod luck my dear.
2006-12-21 23:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why jump to cheating so fast...at least get some toys to tide you over...then when you get up the nerve have a talk with your man about how your sexual needs are not being met in the relationship..there is nothing wrong with having this conversation...if he truly loves you it is his obligation to at least have a moderate (once every 2 days) amount of sex with you.
2006-12-21 23:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by creston_182 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well is he having medical conditions that need attention?If hes not interested it could vary from not having the urge being depressed to having someone else.It wont help to cheat,if you really crave it but he doesnt want maybe its time to go seperate ways.
2006-12-21 23:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a bad word....dont ever say that again,If you think its bad now wait till you have kids together...
2006-12-21 23:00:40 · answer #11 · answered by J.B.1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋