Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

i have a real good friend thats a girl and for a while it was going good but all the sudden she wont tell me her secrets anymore doesnt want me to call her or even tell her that she looks good (which i only do like 1time in a blue moon and when we talk she aburbtly stops it after about 5 min is there a way to find out if there is another guy or to find out the problem without asking her cuz if i do she will really get mad but i really need to know but her parents love me im shy so i dont want to ask her mom but i think something is wrong any ideas????

2006-12-21 14:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating the same boy for 5 years. My parents don't like him. His family is pretty broken (which also means he has a hard time understanding my relationship with my family), he doesn't have a job and lives with his grandmother. But he's really good to me, we have fun together, support each other, talk to each other, and we love each other very much. We have a great relationship. We're talking about getting married eventually. My boyfriend doesn't like my dad because he says he is judgemental and anal about a lot of things, not to mention a bit pompous. But he's also my dad, and he is a good guy. My mom doesn't think my boyfriend is good enough for me and doesn't think I'm really happy with him. My sister loves him, and says he's like the little brother she never had.

I love my boyfriend, and I love my parents, but they don't like each other. What can I do to fix this? I should also mention that my boyfriend doesn't has given up on trying to impress them-- it never worked.

2006-12-21 14:18:41 · 20 answers · asked by ~*Bubbles*~ 3 in Family

Wow my sexuality is strange !!!?
I've been bi forever and for the last few monthes i thought i turned gay i've felt no attraction 2 girls for a few monthes now i only find girls attractive and i dont view men like that nOW I ONLY LIKE WOMEN wtf why am i flip floppping.

2006-12-21 14:17:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-21 14:16:59 · 1 answers · asked by zchecka 1 in Family

What is the best advice to give someone who has a relative, friend, BF/GF that is living with them and not paying rent or bills or working? Kicking the person out is not an option but past discussions haven't produced any results.

2006-12-21 14:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by BLANK 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-boyfriend and I agreed to break up in October because we thought we were meant just to be friends. However, about a month later he would often tell me how he really does care for me and how he wants to be with me but he doesn't know if I would ever trust him again. (He told me he cheated after we broke up and apologized, he truly did hurt because of what he did) I told myself time and time again that I would never have anything to do with him relation ship wise because he cheated on me. But, now I am starting to have these emotions over him like he is the one for me. I want to tell him but then again I am so scared. Also, i think he may be seeing someone new now. One night when we were drinking a few weeks ago he told me he thought he was in love with me, was it the alcohol speaking, or honesty? I know this all sounds pretty lame but its all thats been on my mind lately! PLEASE HELP! Thank you!

2006-12-21 14:16:49 · 13 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

I have so many friends who care for me, and nothing bad has ever happened to me. So, why do I feel so alone and unhappy?

2006-12-21 14:16:44 · 15 answers · asked by Lyte 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

People seem to get married late teens or early twenties and that's with a lot of years already dating. Why would you want to settle down so young?

2006-12-21 14:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by David H 3 in Singles & Dating

what shold i do?

2006-12-21 14:15:49 · 9 answers · asked by john l 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 14:14:45 · 27 answers · asked by ♥michele♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

as i said before in "help confused" i wear lingerie and i bought a book of positions and fun things he wasnt interested in. i have asked him what he wants,. how i could come on to him but i only got vague answers.the sad fact is at 21 i struggle, apart from lingerie and doing text sex when were apart i dont know how to come on to him and he hasnt been interested in coming onto me recently. any tips would be much appreciated although i am aware i need confidence and i am working on it.

2006-12-21 14:13:59 · 17 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl I like says things with guy she has been seeing for 2 years is "complicated". They broke up then tried to get back together and I think are trying again to repair things. I asked her if she still like him and all she says is that its really "complicated". We have a good time together when we do stuff. Does it sound like she is still into him or maybe me? I'm just not sure what is so "complicated". Any suggestions?

2006-12-21 14:13:48 · 27 answers · asked by Chuck J 2 in Singles & Dating

So...this is going to sound weird and maybe a little funny. I have my own suspicions about what happned and I want your answers to double check. Ok...I play piano and am a piano teacher. Recently I have been practicing for a performance and have been very nervous..so nervous I couldn't concentrate and play well. My bf is an english teacher and part time stage hypnotist. He suggested that he hypnotize me not to be so nervous. Well he came over and he was able to hypnotize me (very quickly..people who play music ae susceptable) Anyway..I was not nervous anymore and played fine..the thing is..when I woke up from hypnosis I found that my feet were really sticky feeling. I didn;t remember much from hypnosis and had him tape the session..but nothing could explain my sticky bare feet. So...what do you think happend? Help a girl out. Thanks

2006-12-21 14:13:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 14:12:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which is more important

2006-12-21 14:12:33 · 19 answers · asked by southerngirl 3 in Singles & Dating

She lives on the other side of the country. I was able to hang out with her when she visited some other friends near where I live and we ended up hooking up like we used to. While in a drunken afterglow, I told her about my feelings for her but had to split the next day without really talking about our relationship. I then sent her a really long email where I told her how confused and intoxicated I am with her. Did I do the right thing, or will I end up looking all "stalkerazzi." I can't imagine her with anybody else without feeling like I'm going to puke and I am beginning to envision a long term future with her. What should I do next? I mean, she lives 2000 miles away.

2006-12-21 14:11:51 · 1 answers · asked by BRAINS! 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 14:11:35 · 21 answers · asked by kaimoe h 2 in Singles & Dating

There's movies you find so touching and long last in your heart.
Can you recommend me one of those?

2006-12-21 14:11:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told her I liked her and she told me she liked me too

But Im worried she might have thought like friends

2006-12-21 14:11:09 · 16 answers · asked by Kyle S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am waiting for my mr right, he has to be an Irish Celtic supporter. I am very passionate about Celtic so I would need someone who feels that way too. No disrespect to other football supporters. They also need to be 38 to 45 with a fab personality. So there you go I'll probably be single until i'm 90

2006-12-21 14:11:09 · 21 answers · asked by ..:: 4NN3 MON D4H HOOPS::.. 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are planning a wedding in the Pocono Mountains. He is from India and we have been together for almost 5 years, but he is not a citizen of the U.S. There are requirements of having SS numbers and such. What papers or other things will he need instead?

2006-12-21 14:11:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my boyfriend has not been talking to each other for 5 days now and its raining outside i like when it rain i like to lay up under him at that time now the thing is i want to cuddle a little different right now u know im in the mood for some skin slaaping so should i just take charge and take it or should i break down and apologize first just to get some????????

2006-12-21 14:11:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there's this nice girl that likes my boyfriend jake and she sent him ashout out at our school saying she loves him....but he doesn't love her he loves me and it's annoying me wen she says she doesn't like him and now i don't noe wat to do helppp!!!!!ps her names alexa

2006-12-21 14:09:12 · 13 answers · asked by tanya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-21 14:08:38 · 38 answers · asked by Ottie H 1 in Weddings

2006-12-21 14:08:16 · 19 answers · asked by Aly 1 in Singles & Dating

Also should I be paranoid that she asked for this oris this normal behavior?

2006-12-21 14:07:26 · 20 answers · asked by RetMarine22yrs 1 in Singles & Dating

Level 4! WOOO HOOOO

2006-12-21 14:07:10 · 14 answers · asked by Poker Face 6 in Friends

we're both 18 and this fall will be going to college. he lives in florida and is going to texas and i live in kansas and am going to michigan for college. i really like the guy, and i dont want to hurt him, but it really has to end. i just dont have the time, and i know that in the future i wont either. on top of that - four MORE years of long distance isnt really something that i want...
im just wondering if y'all have any advice that you can give.
oh. and on top of that. im going down to see him jan. 1-6th...
and even more... his mom just bought be $400 in Juicy Couture... --awkward?!--

2006-12-21 14:06:49 · 12 answers · asked by kibbyshibby89 1 in Singles & Dating

Are You Inviting Family And Friends?

2006-12-21 14:06:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to know... why is it that raising kids doesnt seem to be enough for the world today?

2006-12-21 14:05:16 · 45 answers · asked by mrs.mom 4 in Family